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RedMagic1 -> Dominant footworship (12/2/2010 7:06:10 PM)
The lady I'm seeing has a thing about getting her feet touched. Nobody gets to do it, ever. Her siblings held her down and tickled her a lot, and she grew up hating getting her feet touched. No foot massages even, nobody ever gets to do it. I'm repeating myself, but so was she. Hard limit, has been in all her relationships, her whole life. So of course, relaxing and stimulating that area has been a goal of mine. Worked up to it slowly through kisses and massage elsewhere, and finally, not long ago, I finally... sucked a big toe. She was shocked. She felt it in her crotch. Undoubtedly the most surprising sexual experience of her life, and not at all what I expected either. I feel like Christopher Columbus right now. I told her I was going to draw a flag on her toe with a marker, to claim the land for my own. I also told her that there was a lot of foot licking and toe sucking in her future, biatch. She's nervous but excited. Has anyone else run across this? If you took video with the sound off, it would look like a totally submissive act, but I am "raping" her toesies. Hahahaha! I think this is hilarious. Your experiences?

WolfyMontgomery -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/2/2010 9:17:00 PM)
I used to do the same thing - still sometimes do, mainly because you so much as breathe heavily on my feet and I'm squirming and giggling because it tickles like sin. For Master and me, if he does something that could look like 'submissive' behavior to an outside viewer (such as kissing my feet or ass, or giving me a nice massage, or whatever else that one could misconstrue as sub versus Dom) it's because he chose to do what he wants with HIS property. If he wants to call me Mistress and have me smack his ass - as weird as it'd be (though he has made me smack his ass before, it makes me giggle lol) - he could, because I'm his to name and rename and do whatever he wants with me. I'm the doll he directs and guides and tells what to do - and woe be it for me to ever deny him the pleasure of me doing what he wants me to do! Also, woe be it for me if I ever took advantage of his order and said or did something that seemed like suddenly I was in control (like making patronizing comments like "Oh yeah, suck that pussy the way I like it, slave") unless I want to be shown the hard way just how much he is in control and how much I'm going to regret trying to go against that control. Talk about foot-in-mouth situation - it could almost become literal! ;P

DMFParadox -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 3:04:39 AM)
Try this one on for size. Asking the girl what she likes, then repeating the question when you get a 'yes'. Do you like this? Yes. So you want me to touch you this way? Yes. So it feels good? Yes... Ok, now suck my cock/step into this harness/whatever and we'll keep going. Old salesman trick; great way to establish control, but it sure as hell doesn't look like you're controlling anything. Then again, it deviates enough from the forms of dominance that it can set some submissives back, so I only do this in certain situations. Done right, innocent "do you like" questions end up progressively giving control to you, so that "You're doing what I want and you like it" has an implicit yes.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 5:53:18 AM)
Thanks, both of you. I appreciate it. Clearly, if I had wanted more responses, I should have said that her feet are fat, and she pays me tribute every time I lick her somewhere.

IronBear -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 6:02:12 AM)
I'm like this in part to over ticklish feet but do both enjoy and oft require foot massage to increase circulation (T2 Diabetes). On the other hand, no one get to touch my face unless we are being intimate. One unfortunate female of the species had he wrist broken by a strike to the wrist for coming up behind me and trying to touch my face whilst another for similar reasons had the barrel of my H&K 9mm semi auto in her mouth with me close to squeezing the trigger. in both cases the women had been warned about going near my face.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 7:38:14 AM)
Dear Red, You asked for experiences - and well... I don't have any like that. However, I will say this... I was with someone who did something I absolutely hate and loved doing the thing I hate - because I hated it... same dealio. I will make you love this!!! And the thing I hated was paired with the things I enjoyed with the plan that I would learn to love it. Guess what happened? I learned to hate everything I used to love because all those things were paired with something I detest. It totally backfired. Because of my icky [:'(] experience, I want to say I appreciate how well you handled it. Just a lil caveat - what we hate has very strong power. One or just a few positive experiences may not be enough to turn things around. Just a little warning to not get too big for your britches, so to speak. Best wishes to you and yours, smooch sunshine

jujubeeMB -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 11:26:35 AM)
I hate feet. Everyone's. Can't even stand someone accidentally touching me with their foot. If me worshiping his feet became a huge fetish for my Dom, I would be annoyed, but I would do it. If he wanted to suck my toes, I would be...uncomfortable. Massaging feet (mine or his) I could probably be pushed to get into, but both of us would have to be clean or I'd find it gross. I don't think that massaging your partner is an inherently submissive act. This is going to sound kind of terrible, but probably the only situation involving feet I could get into is that porn thing where the guy steps on the girl's face while he's fucking her, just because of how degrading that is. But anything less than incredibly degrading (and clean) I would rather not do or think about.

IronBear -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 12:46:53 PM)
Super quick deterrent. If someone is really determined to get close and personal with your tootsies and even get oral with them, walk bare foot in wet dog shit first....

porcelaine -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 12:57:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 Has anyone else run across this? If you took video with the sound off, it would look like a totally submissive act, but I am "raping" her toesies. Hahahaha! I think this is hilarious. Your experiences? Greetings RedMagic, Okay, I'll confess. This wasn't a big turn on for me until I realigned my thinking about begging. While boot worship was a passing fancy, the whole idea of prostration and foot worship (donning shoes and without) has taken on new meaning. But I see it on two levels. One is reverential almost sacred and would entail a different mindset, activity, and mannerism. The other is completely submissive and erotic. I believe it reinforces a certain lowliness and impresses a reminder of the privilege I've been granted to serve Him in this manner. Namaste, ~porcelaine

DesFIP -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 2:01:48 PM)
I think her parents ought to have been horsewhipped. Honestly, allowing older siblings to torture and bully a younger should be grounds for CPS to step in. If you would call the cops if a stranger did it, then why is it right to let an older sibling do it? Okay, rant over. I think it's wonderful that you're teaching her new experiences, new feelings, and helping her to heal. As far as the erotic aspect, both of us love getting our toes sucked and bit. Obviously only freshly out of the shower. Dirt and foot odor hold no appeal here. But it's a turn off if the person doing it doesn't do it hard enough, too light is ticklish which isn't erotic.

AquaticSub -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 2:09:27 PM)
Tickling, by itself, is torture and bullying now? [:-] Granted, her parents probably should have stepped in but I think CPS has better things to do than step in and remove kids from homes for being tickled. Everyone grows up with aversions to certain things because of their childhoods and no parent is perfect - doesn't mean what happened to cause it was abuse. I have a severe aversion to Daddy long legs because a few times at camp a boy chased me around with them - you want his parents whipped too? Anyway, go you Red. If I were in her shoes, I'd probably calling it 'raping' my toes too, lol. No particular reason in my case, I just hate my feet and having people touch my feet. Though I will get a pedicure.

jujubeeMB -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/3/2010 11:39:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear Super quick deterrent. If someone is really determined to get close and personal with your tootsies and even get oral with them, walk bare foot in wet dog shit first.... Hey, it already worked and I didn't even have to do more than think about it. Ok, ok, my Dom can suck my toes if he wants!! Just please keep the dog shit away from me [:)]

sunshinemiss -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/4/2010 12:35:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Tickling, by itself, is torture and bullying now? [:-] Granted, her parents probably should have stepped in but I think CPS has better things to do than step in and remove kids from homes for being tickled. Hey Aqua - Actually, yes tickling is torture - it's called being "tickled to death" for a reason. And as someone with asthma that can be in danger because of tickling (yes, I have had an asthma attack from it), I'd say there are cases when this is in fact abuse. (And I say that as a former CPS - type worker). CPS often steps in nowadays, not to remove children, but to educate families. Anyway, where'd Red go? He needs to come in and tell more stories. I like him. best, sunshine

strangedesire -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/4/2010 6:56:33 AM)
When we first started dating, my girl was pretty certain that she didn't enjoy receiving oral sex. I'm not actually a huge fan of giving head (or getting - just weird that way) but I like a challenge. When her dislike of cunnilingus came up in conversation, I broke out my growly Dom voice, looked her dead in the eye, and said, "What if I hold you down and make you like it?" It turns out that she liked it quite a bit. Another thing to note: with the right touch and energy, every inch of her body becomes an erogenous zone. I'll flick my tongue into the space between her fingers, or graze her elbow with my teeth, just to prove that I can turn her on without hitting any of the obvious spots.

AquaticSub -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/4/2010 12:37:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Tickling, by itself, is torture and bullying now? [:-] Granted, her parents probably should have stepped in but I think CPS has better things to do than step in and remove kids from homes for being tickled. Hey Aqua - Actually, yes tickling is torture - it's called being "tickled to death" for a reason. And as someone with asthma that can be in danger because of tickling (yes, I have had an asthma attack from it), I'd say there are cases when this is in fact abuse. (And I say that as a former CPS - type worker). CPS often steps in nowadays, not to remove children, but to educate families. Anyway, where'd Red go? He needs to come in and tell more stories. I like him. best, sunshine Ok. But until we see Red telling us that this was actually abusive I'm still calling "WTF!" on calling for the parents to be horsewhipped. And it's my personal opinion that wanting CPS called in on scant information is beyond silly. But I shall bow to the knowledge that it might have been torture. But only cause you are so damn cute... [:D] And yes. Red needs to come tell us more stories. I <3 him.

DesFIP -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/9/2010 6:27:32 AM)
So what you're saying is that after you adopt two children, should you hear the younger one sobbing, you will walk in and discover that the younger is crying hysterically because the older is hurting him, and your reaction will be to walk away without intervening. Because after all, anything between siblings must be fine and dandy. I would strongly suggest you take some child psychology courses prior to becoming a parent.

MaxsGirl -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/9/2010 6:55:24 AM)
OP, Alpha and I sometimes have s similar dynamic. We're both canines, so not only does he wear a collar that I place on him, but when he is in pup space it often looks (or would look, to an outsider) as if I am in charge. I'm very much the slave and he is the owner, but he is also my guard dog. He wears a collar because it puts him in a headspace that he enjoys, not because I want him to. In pupspace he rolls over for belly rubs because he likes them, not because I order him to. But again, to anyone watching us it would sure look like he's my dog slave in those situations.

leadership527 -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/9/2010 2:22:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 Clearly, if I had wanted more responses, I should have said that her feet are fat, and she pays me tribute every time I lick her somewhere. ROFL... OK, now THAT got a response from me. I'm struggling to come up with something particularly appropriate... maybe... "Yeah well, true subs don't have fat feet." Honestly, the reason I didn't respond is that the whole thing just seemed so ... well... normal to me. I can't imagine myself running into some unexplored part of Carol's sexuality and not wanting to explore it. I mean sheez! That's like finding a present under my christmas tree and deciding not to open it. And, since Carol and I don't deal in D/s in the bedroom sense, that angle wouldn't really have occurred to me either. For Carol it wasn't feet (although now I'm making a mental note to go explore that). But we've run into several parts of her body and brain that turned out to be unexpectedly and thoroughly "wired for sound" chuckles But hey, great fun and I loved the idea of drawing a flag on her toe laughs.

DMFParadox -> RE: Dominant footworship (12/9/2010 6:24:01 PM)
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