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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 6:32:55 AM

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slavegirl housewife, please kneel for those rude remarks, and do not meet my eyes.

Oh Katy, I am unworthy, I am unworthy! I will take a pair of chopsticks and poke the very eyes out of my head so I wll never ever meet your eyes!!!

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 7:46:43 AM

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Okay a lot of you are way off base here because Jaybee was right on target as to what the OP was asking:

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Kindest gentle Sirs, this slave humbly begs You to share Your favorite slave acts.

Secondly, sunshine, i don't think he was responding to you, but instead using your post to respond to the OP and it was SHE he called slave-girl (i could be wrong, but his post doesn't read like he is posting to you).

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Slave-girl, most of the above suggestions are quite a good start, but you must tailor them to your Master.

Thirdly, i am surprised most of you intelligent people missed a VERY PERTINENT PART of his post is where he says:

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A few from myself;

and goes on to list what the OP asked for --

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this slave humbly begs You to share Your favorite slave acts

Sometimes it seems people are way to quick to jump on the indignant wagon on these forums.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 7:47:26 AM

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I am fond of the tea ceremony.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 8:04:48 AM

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I am fond of the tea ceremony.

I'm more into the coffee and cigarettes ceremony myself.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 8:24:16 AM

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Absolutely, angel.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 8:39:41 AM

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Ask him what his darkest fantasies are, and be prepared to fulfil them;

One of my favorite ways to serve!

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Whenever he seems in any way dissatisfied/angry/upset etc with you, KNEEL IMMEDIATELY, regardless of location/circumstance, and look up at him only when ordered to do so;

Its been my experience that when a man is horny, he wants submissive responses... such as kneeling and eyes down. When he is pissed, he wants complete attention... eye contact being one way.

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Suggest kneeling to him in public areas, say when you're out having Saturday morning coffee with him; giving him ideas on dominating you is very pleasing to us, do it as often as he permits;

This is... hmmm.. a bit problematic. If your on vacation, or meeting in different towns, and you want your submissive/slave to act that way, then go for it. But, if either of you live in that town, then you, as the dominant, should also take that into consideration and recognize the potential fall out from such a blatant action. No one lives in a vaccumm... or is an island. Are children involved? Not just children who may see you in the coffee place... but your own. Would your, or her, boss be walking in? Maybe someone you do business with? Maybe your child's teacher? The ramifications could be limitless.

Just a few thoughts to consider. Actions can have consequences.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 8:46:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

Okay a lot of you are way off base here because Jaybee was right on target as to what the OP was asking:

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Kindest gentle Sirs, this slave humbly begs You to share Your favorite slave acts.

Secondly, sunshine, i don't think he was responding to you, but instead using your post to respond to the OP and it was SHE he called slave-girl (i could be wrong, but his post doesn't read like he is posting to you).

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Slave-girl, most of the above suggestions are quite a good start, but you must tailor them to your Master.

Thirdly, i am surprised most of you intelligent people missed a VERY PERTINENT PART of his post is where he says:

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A few from myself;
and goes on to list what the OP asked for --

quote:

this slave humbly begs You to share Your favorite slave acts

Sometimes it seems people are way to quick to jump on the indignant wagon on these forums.

angel

Angel, sweet ma'am, I am near speechless. You have put me in the unusual position of being defended for my correctness. If that weren't surprise enough, I almost never see a woman jumping to a man's defence, on or offline.

So on both counts, as you can see, it is a very, very sweet thing that you did.

Your own gentleman, whoever he is and whatever his status, is a very lucky fellow indeed.

(Bows deeply and kisses your hand).

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 9:07:33 AM

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(Bows deeply and kisses your hand).

Oh you a smooooooth pimp daddy muthafucka

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 11:26:21 AM

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Slave-girl, most of the above suggestions are quite a good start, but you must tailor them to your Master. For example, what flavour is his fave ice cream? Does he think much of charity at all? Does he mind you messing with his car, and if so, is he ok with you getting the oil changed at a mechanics?

A few from myself;

Whenever he seems in any way dissatisfied/angry/upset etc with you, KNEEL IMMEDIATELY, regardless of location/circumstance, and look up at him only when ordered to do so;
Suggest kneeling to him in public areas, ...

Being WILLING to serve is the most important part, and you already have that; now you need to find out about him. Don't be afraid to approach him, pen and paper visibly at hand, and ask him if now is a good time to write down all those projects you could do for him, or later. A good Master rewards initiative

I would dispense with the lilac bush, however, that seems to me more like what the above slave wants for herself, not the Master.

The emphasis should always be on designing them for one's Master specifically. That is of course what makes the service special.

It would be a mistake for me to kneel immediately were I to upset mine, as that is something I am to ask permission for.
Kneeling is a prividge, for me to kneel because I erred, would not fit within the dynamic.

He would also likewise guide me if He were to wish for me to discretely kneel before him in public as a way of amusing Him.
He is respectful of other people.

And respectfully, a bush or planted flower that would come up year after year could be the perfect way of honoring a Master who is into that type of beauty.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 12:35:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: barelynangel
Sometimes it seems people are way to quick to jump on the indignant wagon on these forums.

Boggles. Oh my, this really really did make my day.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 12:44:58 PM

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The emphasis should always be on designing them for one's Master specifically. That is of course what makes the service special.

*Ding*

Lady wins a goldfish.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 1:04:04 PM

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Hello Xiansjade,

What a lovely thing to do. If you're committed to always looking for new ways to please your Master then the commitment itself may well be the most beautiful thing you can do for him.

You've had some wonderful suggestions here.

I especially liked:

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
Think of how it would turn you on and make you happy to serve him?

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

take a cooking class
learn to give a massage
make him a quilt
write him a story
put together a play c.d. of good music
rent a sexy video and practice various scenes
give a dramatic reading
change the oil in his car
plant and care for a lilac bush
take a pottery class and make him a coffee mug
learn several ways to tie a tie
make home made ice cream
get him tickets to his favorite team - learn about it and accompany him
beat his pants off at poker
prepare and serve a traditional Victorian meal
paint a picture for him
have discreet yet erotic photos of you taken
donate to his favorite charity - time, talent, and money
laugh at his jokes

... just off the top of my head...

lizi's filthy ideas were lovely.

I adored WindomeDefiance's post.

I thought Jaybeee's comment about tailoring things to your masters needs was really important. I wasn't so sold on the list he provided though, especially -

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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee
Whenever he seems in any way dissatisfied/angry/upset etc with you, KNEEL IMMEDIATELY, regardless of location/circumstance, and look up at him only when ordered to do so;

Now I'm sure that Jaybeee is a supremely expert, experienced and charismatic dom, and I've no doubt that his level of mastery is such that even the most stubborn of subs might feel compelled, at once, to kneel in his presence. But I think it's pretty fair to say that the whole "kneel immediately" thing can make you look like a wannabee jackass who has never actually done this in public, unless you're as qualified as Jaybeee is of course.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 2:23:17 PM

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lizi's filthy ideas were lovely.

Why thank you! Such a nice compliment, I adore being called filthy

I had to come in and update a bit for anyone who cares to try out what I suggested. My Dom and I do not live together and as a result spend a lot of time communicating on the computer with video calls and such...I occasionally do the same thing for a video call with him as I do for the pictures - dress up just in general as though we were going out on a fancy dinner date or to play a particular role. Last night was an 80's, flashdance, Desperately Seeking Susan thing and it was a wild success. He admitted that his new, tighter jeans were cutting off all circulation to his bottom half because something else was suddenly taking up way too much room. Yay!

Out of the suggestions I gave for next week I think sultry night club cabernet singer is in the lead.

Funny thing is...when I do this we mostly sit and chat like we always do. He mainly likes to look at me and know it's something I have done because I serve and care for him.

Other things that came to mind on serving. I don't know about your Master OP but my man has dietary requirements, I have taken the time to research them and know exactly what he can eat and in what amounts. I have looked up restaurants in his area by viewing their menus online so I know which ones offer dishes that he can order. When we go out I always have a couple of suggestions of places we can go and what he can order there. By doing this when we do have the rare occasion where I can cook for him I also know what to prepare and how to prepare it.

I also keep an online calendar for him. I mark down what is happening with me- appts, school, family visits, etc That way whenever he wants to plan an outing he knows exactly what would be a good date to do it. He also is reminded unobtrusively about things to ask me about and keep up on, like how was the test on Friday, what did my Dr say during the check up, things like that. Not that he'd ever forget anything :) It's just a way I can give him the tools he needs to be in charge.

The communicating process of finding out what your Master wants can be a fun service-type exercise. I make up lists of questions from time to time and then fold it up and keep it in my purse with a pen to write down his answers. Some informative things...what is your favorite sandwich? Some silly things...if you could have any superpower what would you choose? (he chose invisibility and when he asked me I chose flying) Some deep things...do you believe in an afterlife? Some esoteric things...who is one of your favorite artists and why?

See, I don't want to know just the 'things' that he wants-like how to prepare his tea or what sandwich to make...I want to know what makes him tick. So in the future I'll know more of what to do for him when I don't have him around to tell me. I can make an informed decision. He has really liked the sheets of questions and now will tell me to prepare one when we're going on a trip.

If anything else comes to mind I'll pop in again...

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 6:09:56 PM

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 6:28:29 PM

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Another thing to do for your Dom/Master this time of year. If He leaves early for work and it was cold the previous night, go out and start his car so when he gets in, it will be all warm and no ice on the windshield.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 8:06:06 PM

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i have asked Master, and He would like me to create a garden for Him, so W/we can eat healthy, and so He can have me serve outside without worrying about other people seeing. He is also taking me to the Stockroom University event on December 16. i'm terrified and thrilled! i have never been to a BDSM event. He also wants me to serve Him meals and eat at His feet on the floor, then worship His cock as He dines. He is interested in the tea ceremony. Does this mean how geishas would serve tea? Roman showers, are, unfortunately common, because my hot water heater absolutely hates me. i'd enjoy it if it were Master's idea, but not as a sudden, shampoo-blinded, slip-and-fall sort of event. Thank Y/you all so much!

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 8:10:45 PM

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i have asked Master, and He would like me to create a garden for Him, so W/we can eat healthy, and so He can have me serve outside without worrying about other people seeing. He is also taking me to the Stockroom University event on December 16. i'm terrified and thrilled! i have never been to a BDSM event. He also wants me to serve Him meals and eat at His feet on the floor, then worship His cock as He dines. He is interested in the tea ceremony. Does this mean how geishas would serve tea? Roman showers, are, unfortunately common, because my hot water heater absolutely hates me. i'd enjoy it if it were Master's idea, but not as a sudden, shampoo-blinded, slip-and-fall sort of event. Thank Y/you all so much!

This all sounds wonderful! :) Thumbs up to you! Yes, tea ceremony is how geishas serve it.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 8:22:17 PM

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Tea ceremonies are different in different places. Be clear about what he's talking about. The tea ceremony here (Korea) is different from the ones from Japan.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/4/2010 9:27:50 PM

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Could you pm me this information of the tea ceremony, sunshinemiss? i have tried to look it up online, and all i can find are ads for books. i'd love to buy a book, but i am, alas, but a poor college student, with no money to spend on anything besides ramen.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/5/2010 1:43:08 AM

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Tea ceremonies are different in different places. Be clear about what he's talking about. The tea ceremony here (Korea) is different from the ones from Japan.

Korea! Lemme guess, serving grunt?

XJ - Youtube may well have plenty of information readily available on this.

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