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Profile searching complaint of a different kind than pe... - 12/9/2010 7:01:54 PM

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Ok, so I know usually people complain about profiles saying no men, no women, no switches, money domme profiles, ect ect, so I think my complaint is different lol.

When I do a search using the criteria friends only, half the fricking profiles coming back are for people who want sex, or submissives, or anything other than the friends only option I am searching for.

GAAAAAAAAAAAH.

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/9/2010 7:40:33 PM

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because to many many many people on this site who are looking for friends, a friend is a "fuck/play friend" not friend like you are searching for.

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/9/2010 8:06:34 PM

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True, true, Daddy says thats what you get for searching for friends on a kinky website most use for finding sex partners, and to some extent I agree, but there are those out there that just want plain old friendship, and not some sex toy friendship, and where else would one look for kinky friendships, on the internet lol.

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/9/2010 8:16:13 PM

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You can look for sex on here???? To think all of the time I have been on here I have just been looking for friends. I would ask for someone to bitch slap me and wake me up but Im not a woman. Question???? What do you call it when you slap a guy???

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/9/2010 8:22:53 PM

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i, too, run across this issue, Topping. i try to head it off in my first email by writing something along the lines of "i'm happy to exchange emails on non-BDSM related topics. i discuss those things on the message boards. A new pen-pal is always welcome." and so on.
Some are in agreement with this concept, hooray! Some say something nasty, wattabummer. Some try to sneak it in later or be pushy, oh well, i only need to remind them why i'm exchanging mail with them--the conversation continues or not.
i'd be denying reality that this is a sexually explicit dating site if i didn't acknowledge that most people here were looking for something more than what i'm comfortable offering.

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/9/2010 8:31:48 PM

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Bitch refers to the style of slap (back hand) not the person being slapped--the slapee, if you will.
Recently, i learned that "pimp slapping" is a two-handed frontal assault, aimed primarily at the head and neck of the other person. One sort of wind-mills one's arms and lets the hand fall where it may.

The more you know. . .

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/10/2010 10:10:07 AM

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Yeah, I never seem to have problems making pen pals, I talk to litterally hundreds of people sometimes through the net, I have problems meeting people locally who want to be friends, not fuck buddies, or friends with benifits, just friends. I'll find someone an we'll strike up a conversation an we'll talk for a while, then eventually you never hear from them again, or you never get past the hi I am......... from Sacramento and ................. part.

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i, too, run across this issue, Topping. i try to head it off in my first email by writing something along the lines of "i'm happy to exchange emails on non-BDSM related topics. i discuss those things on the message boards. A new pen-pal is always welcome." and so on.

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/10/2010 10:53:45 AM

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Topping I would never say Hi Im from Sacramento. seeing as than Im from Michigan

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/10/2010 7:04:20 PM

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DNom, course you wouldn't:)

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/10/2010 10:41:18 PM

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Hi, i'm from Fresno, but i get up to Sacramento every once in a while. i'll be your pal if you want. And you don't even have to fuck me.

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RE: Profile searching complaint of a different kind tha... - 12/11/2010 6:42:56 AM

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Thank you pam:) I'll cm mail you on the other side:)

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