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SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Female Supremacy (12/11/2010 3:41:54 PM)
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_2259301/mpage_1/key_female%252Csupremacy/tm.htm#2260191.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2482976/mpage_3/key_female%252Csupremacy/tm.htm#2488340.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2938528/mpage_6/key_female%252Csupremacy/tm.htm#2976935.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_2938528/mpage_5/key_female%252Csupremacy/tm.htm#2970856
This is a subject often discussed. It is associated with a great deal of misunderstanding, so people set their hair on fire over a kink, with which you may or may not get down. If slavery doesn't make you want to throw up violently, why would female supremacy disgust you so? Because it's a personal relationship dynamic between consenting adults, right? What business would it be of yours, if you don't enjoy a particular lady's kink... Eating her scat would be okay, but if she says fem supremacy to you, that is where you draw the line.[sm=crop.gif]
I love the "they get laughed at" responses, especially from the ladies. It's a kink, on a kink site! I didn't want to type the whole thing again, so here it is repeated
....Human doormats aren't really doormats. Even the so called worthless worms, aren't. Why is it so difficult to comprehend the concept that personal relationship philosophies often differ vastly from how we relate to the world at large? When anyone calls himself a dominant, does he really mean to infer that he goes around assuming authority over "all" others, in "all" areas of life, and doing to them as he wishes?
Fem supremacy is fairly absurd in a paternalistic, male dominated society... And yet, here we are, dominant women, relating to, or seeking to relate to men who are down with that kind of thinking for personal relationships.
I used to become uncomfortable when these threads came up, given the fact that in everyday life, I am an unassuming black lady, aware of a good amount of history, who prefers to avoid conflict, and only takes the lead when there is a vacum/need. I am not on collarme to find the type of relationship most people are comfortable with or necessarily approve of. I've had lovely D/s relationships, where the ranks simply were, and discussion of supremacy never came up, as we were simply ourselves enjoying the symbiosis.
Evidently, even the dominant women here feel that supremacy, or dominant rank and authority, should be left to the men as that is the way of the world, or natural order of things. At least so it would seem...
I would just love to one day see one of these threads begun in "ask a master," or "gorean lifestyles." Inquire about the kind of thinking that says women ought to be their submissives or slaves... In fact, ask them where they get off thinking that way, and wanting what they want? This of course never happens, because the women don't dare, and men generally don't hate themselves enough to break the image in the mirror IMHO. M
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