LadyConstanze -> RE: On the Torture of Others ? (12/18/2010 6:57:25 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Lucienne Feminists have been fighting amongst themselves about porn for a generation and the sex positive side (porn isn't inherently bad) has pretty much won. I imagine there are women who would qualify as "radical" feminists in your book who are not anti-porn unless that position is your sole criteria for the "radical" label. Pray tell how you know about what qualifies in my book as radical, when I replied to another poster about a rather specific issue? I consider myself a feminist but I'm leery of the label, so I think certain feminists do the movement a massive disfavour, namely those who are trying to oppress women who don't fall into the mold they would like them to be, or those who are trying to replace the oppression of women by doing the same to men. They're doing women in general such a massive disfavour because who on earth can take them seriously? I don't want them fighting for what they perceive to be right for me. I'm getting a bit tired of so called feminists who are accusing men of all the evils in the world and try to make it a "them against us" issue, I enjoy a lot of things that some feminists would see as typical "female" tasks, because I like cooking it doesn't mean I can't hold my own in a meeting or it means I'm destined to be a housewife. I also can't stand those "feminists" who freak out if a guy shows manners and accuse him of being condescending. Any man knows that I'm perfectly capable of opening my own doors, pulling out my own chair and that him walking on the outside of the sidewalk is not going to make much of a difference if a car or a bus crashes into us, it's still nice to see manners and it doesn't make me weak or an object. I'm all for equal rights and pay, but what the radical feminists often propose has nothing to do with equality, they are trying to take away rights, harden the frontiers and achieve nothing. In terms of porn and sex, yes, in a couple of Scandinavian countries you do have radical feminists, great, so a woman who actually wants to be a prostitute (and some women want it, if they want that, who am I tell them they can't do what they like with their bodies?) isn't prosecuted because she is seen as a victim, the guys who employ her services can be prosecuted - how on earth does that work? 2 people decide consensually that they want to trade money for sex, it's nobody's freaking business but their own. I don't want to be in porn, I don't want to work as a prostitute, I don't think anybody should be forced to do so, but if somebody WANTS to, all the more power to them. I hope with all my heart they are having fun and getting a lot of money for it!
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