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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:14:31 PM   
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II) If you have given yourself over to be tied up and abused, but otherwise DON'T surrender to anyone for anything else - do you still by reason of a little spanking render yourself magically submissive?

Just wondering how this reality thing works is all.


Ok, I'll bite on this one. From a physical aspect, no. Kinky sex. I don't feel anything makes you magically submissive. Being still at basically entry level, and my age, my thoughts look back and current.

Have you ever kicked around something about yourself that you just accepted as some kind of maybe a flaw, morally questionable, taboo even, relationship issues (all seen through vanilla)?

Then you stumble across something, in whatever way, and say, this is making some kind of sense. Hey, I think like that, that explains that, I never looked at it like that before. I've learned alot of surprising things about myself in the last year that explained alot of past behaviors. And my guts giving it the thumbs up....still.

The relationship aspect draws me the most, the trust, the release of control, the vulnerability, just so much there.
The pleasing, wanting to serve, and achieving that, it's very exciting.

I've learned alot, but when the rubber meets the road, how will it go? Only myself and the Dom that chooses me and I choose him will know (ok, I'll probably have to kiss a few frogs along the way. eh..may be fun..lol)

Submissive or not, I'm still going down the path. I'll find out.

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:15:04 PM   
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you never mentioned the "hokie pokie" which everyone knows.... thats what it IS all about




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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:26:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cejohnsonsr

Those of us who are truly dominant, who have left the realm of fantasy & experienced the physical manifestation of those fantasies are genuinely offended by the pretenders among us. And you are legion. (Speaking for myself & on behalf of the few genuine doms in existence. Nobody really gives a fuck what a sub thinks, so just assume she agrees with me.)



Thanks for the laughs, after seeing another comment of yours I was contemplating to block you, now after seeing that drivel I will.

I play very real and very much, and I DO give a fuck what a sub thinks, because without a sub or masochist I could not live out my sadistic streak without being an abuser, but apparently you don't see much of a difference..

What it's not about is some weird dude with a fully justified inferiority complex living in a trailer (yes I looked at your profile)

Those of us who are genuine (to quote from the earlier part of your drivel) are in general pretty disgusted by idiots who try to camoufage abuse as BDSM.


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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:28:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: FETtotheLIFE

finally a man that speaks the truth, come let us bully him 

Just so we know which troll we're dealing with, what's your FetLife username?

~stef



'Tis is the season of blockage, me thinks...


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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:28:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DomArtist4u

(yes i have compleately thrown away the shift key)



It's ee cumforme... er... cummings!

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:31:42 PM   
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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:38:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Being really smart would have meant a better post and being psychic would know more of what was to happen which means you might not have posted what you did.

Fail from both words in my opinion.


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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:50:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		You know you've struck a nerve when you can generate this much inane babble & defensive posturing simply by stating the truth.

Merry Christmas,

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:52:14 PM   
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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:53:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cejohnsonsr

20 replies. 1 kindred spirit. 19 profound confirmations. Happy Holidays, Icarys. I hope you're in a better place than I am.

"The worst part about being really smart is that you pretty much always know what's going to happen next." (paraphrased)

Ed


Eddie,

I see you are new here so let me enlighten you, despite you not giving a fuck about what a sub thinks. No one actually gives a fuck about what you think either, but since you posted on a public message board, we get to say what the fuck we all want, ok?

You did not get an affirmative kindred spirit; you got people who like to relate to the underdogs who come on spewing their idealogies.

And you are not smart, hon. If you were smart, you would not walk into someone's party and just start pontificating about your frustrations about not meeting "real" subs who have no limits.

You are, in fact, just another disenchanted guy who felt he had to whine to a message board on a kink site.

Happy Holidays!

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:58:23 PM   
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Pontificate if you must... ...... myself... I think I will just fart!!!




Best response to that arrogant, self indulgent, babbling bullshit I've seen yet.

Mind if I join you?

Wait for it...

Wait for it...

Ahhhhh....

Oh jezz, now it's starting to smell worse than the OP in here. No problemo, I'll just light a fatty and put on some Floyd.

< Message edited by Marc2b -- 12/17/2010 1:59:13 PM >

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:58:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cejohnsonsr

You know you've struck a nerve when you can generate this much inane babble & defensive posturing simply by stating the truth.

Merry Christmas,

Ed

"Those who can, do.... (another paraphrase)



.... I found that babble generated is usually the started by someone's babble.... but of course..... one can always hide behing the delusion of their truth to inflate their own ego. You have done well... I assume that you have house full of slaves at your beck and call since you are the ultimate Master in these parts? or would that assumption be incorrect?

"Those that can't... Pretend they did!!!" No paraphrasing necessary.

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:58:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

You are, in fact, just another disenchanted guy who felt he had to whine to a message board on a kink site.



And am I the only one who finds it ironic that he used "a message board on a kink site" (online) to criticize the use of online tools to practice kink?

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 1:59:45 PM   
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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 2:00:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cejohnsonsr

You know you've struck a nerve when you can generate this much inane babble & defensive posturing simply by stating the truth.

Merry Christmas,

Ed

"Those who can, do.... (another paraphrase)



Yep, we do, and you don't, and I guess it's not you, it's all those pesky subbies...

Btw I notice the time stamp on your picture is a few years old, I assume age has not been kind to you...

Why oh why does no selfrespecting sub want to move into a trailer with such a nice towel decorating one corner? You're a catch, really, just don't listen to that stupid alarm clock, go on dreaming...

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 2:00:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Too bad it still won't get you laid. 



This is one for

Back to watching this thread

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 2:01:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Norwester

And am I the only one who finds it ironic that he used "a message board on a kink site" (online) to criticize the use of online tools to practice kink?



Ironic and amusing!!!! I would say. I wonder.... is this some kid using Daddy's picture.... cause well we all know Christmas break is upon us and those weak egos tend to come out when school is out for the break. Cause really.... can a grown adult be that stupid???

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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 2:02:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cejohnsonsr

20 replies. 1 kindred spirit. 19 profound confirmations. Happy Holidays, Icarys. I hope you're in a better place than I am.
Ed

Oh, I highly doubt it was necessary to insult Icarys in such a way.

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ORIGINAL: cejohnsonsr
"Those who can, do.... (another paraphrase)

I'll take this under consideration while I'm beating the hell out of people tomorrow evening.  Got to love kinky Christmas parties.  Happy Holidays to you, too!



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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 2:07:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: Norwester

And am I the only one who finds it ironic that he used "a message board on a kink site" (online) to criticize the use of online tools to practice kink?



Ironic and amusing!!!! I would say. I wonder.... is this some kid using Daddy's picture.... cause well we all know Christmas break is upon us and those weak egos tend to come out when school is out for the break. Cause really.... can a grown adult be that stupid???



You have to ask that? Here??


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RE: What it's not about. - 12/17/2010 2:10:20 PM   
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1 kindred spirit

Scratch that will ya.

It was joking with poise-dexter.


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