LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I agree. LP, and Geoff, please don't think that I am saying you are a manipulator!! I see these threads all over the place, though, and it bugs me, as you can see. Not always, a friend of mine loves his wife dearly, she knows about it, the problem was she rejected it due to her upbringing she was afraid she might lose her husband (for some odd reason she thought he won't be her husband anymore but turn into a BDSM parody - blame the media and how they portrait BDSM and stereotype it), he's doing what he can to make her happy and he would like a bit of happiness himself, stuck with her through a major illness and all that and when he reached 50 decided that life is too short to deny himself that part completely, had an (another) honest talk with her and told her that he doesn't want to die with the regret of not having tried, she had a major rethink and it looks good. He's not trying to have her as the fantasy domme but just in some situations wants her to take a bit of control, things most nilla people wouldn't balk about but her conservative upbringing used to be a problem. To be honest, I'm quite glad that he stuck to his guns instead of leaving her.
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