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oral sex question - 12/26/2010 8:39:05 AM

niquefreek

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Ok, I have a really really bad gag reflex. To the point where I haveto be knocked out for even a dental cleaning. So as you can imagine giving my partner a bj can be tricky. Or years all I have been able to manage is the head and very limited amount of shaft. Recently discovered I like to be forced, have managed to get about 2/3rds of the way and end up vomiting. Since neither of us are into puke tht usually ends things.
Suggestions? I really want to be ab le to deepthroat him.
We have even tried hurricane spray (paramedic spray for intubation) to no avail, still puked.

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RE: oral sex question - 12/26/2010 9:02:24 AM

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I'm not an expert on this--but I also have a huge gag reflex.

[Don't use hurricane spray for goodness sakes!]

Ease your way into the fetish. Try first doing some cock-socking with more control--put your hand on the base of his cock, and before you go full throttle into your fantasy, get your body accustomed to the sensation. I can't promise that you'll ever completely overcome the gag reflex, but you may find a better angle--and figure out exactly at what point you trigger the gagging.

Once you've got the mechanics worked out, you may be able to fulfill your "forcing" fantasy without the mess later. have fun trying! good luck

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RE: oral sex question - 12/26/2010 1:19:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: niquefreek

Ok, I have a really really bad gag reflex. To the point where I haveto be knocked out for even a dental cleaning. So as you can imagine giving my partner a bj can be tricky. Or years all I have been able to manage is the head and very limited amount of shaft. Recently discovered I like to be forced, have managed to get about 2/3rds of the way and end up vomiting. Since neither of us are into puke tht usually ends things.
Suggestions? I really want to be ab le to deepthroat him.
We have even tried hurricane spray (paramedic spray for intubation) to no avail, still puked.

I would focus more on what you CAN do, than what you can't do. Use your tongue to the maximum, lips, etc...

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RE: oral sex question - 12/26/2010 2:17:02 PM

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It is possible to desensitize your gag reflex. A quick google search will turn up dozens of websites suggesting the most common method - using a toothbrush. Every night before bed, just use a clean toothbrush and rub little circles on your tongue, towards the back of your mouth. You want to start just where your gag reflex starts. Gradually over time you should find that your gag reflex starts further and further back on your tongue. I'm not an expert by any means, but it has worked somewhat for me. I still have a gag reflex, but it's not as strong, and I can get 'more in my mouth'.

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RE: oral sex question - 12/28/2010 8:26:25 AM

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i second the suggestions to research methods on gaining control of your gag reflex (it's very doable), but there's something else you may not have considered: you say that you are able to get much more down when you are forced, but it results in gagging and puking. learn not to be afraid of this natural response...if you have had nothing to eat on a particular day, and have been drinking only water, only clear juices will come up which should not be disturbing to either of you. then you can ignore that and focus on the fact that "wow, i am really deep throating him!!"...get really excited about it, and try to take even more. too often the response to gagging up is to immediately pull back and cease all activity...but years ago my Master taught (and showed) me how that lasts only a moment, and if you just continue on without allowing it to distract you, you will be amazed at what your throat can do!

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RE: oral sex question - 12/28/2010 10:39:43 AM

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Don't focus so much on how you may react, simply focus on enjoying yourself.

You can get rid of gag reflex it typically takes about a mth. This is what my doctor suggested and yes I asked him, years ago. Lol

•Once you begin to gag, try to brush that area for about 10 seconds even while you're gagging. This process is quite unpleasant, but training yourself not to gag naturally involves some gagging. Stop brushing when you feel like you can't continue any longer; training yourself can't be done in a day.

•Repeat the process over the next few days, concentrating on the exact same spot. You'll notice that you gag less each time you repeat it. Stay on the same spot until you can handle most of the gagging or gagging completely stops. That part of your mouth is now desensitized.

•Reach deeper into your mouth using the toothbrush. Try brushing half an inch behind the desensitized spot. Keep moving further back until you've reached the farthest area that the brush can reach.

Also remember that positioning is a BIG deal. Try various positions, for me if I am sitting on the edge of the bed or couch vs laying down on my stomach is much easier for me deep throat comfortably. Granted him straddling my face and forcing himself down my throat always works too. Lol

I once threw up while being forced to deep throat my old owner. We didn't make a big deal about, we yanked the sheets off and jumped in the shower. I continued to fondle and tease him in the shower as I washed both of us then he fucked my brains out. If you focus on the "ick" of course it will turn you off. Not that I am saying get into vomit but don't freak out so much IF it happens.

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RE: oral sex question - 12/28/2010 1:47:06 PM

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Throwing up while DT is a big fetish of mine

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RE: oral sex question - 12/30/2010 12:10:46 PM

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I`ve found just relaxing helps alot,concentrate on the pleasure you`re giveing him,the tasty,thick hot sperm you`ll soon be savoring like fine wine.I`ve learned to breathe through my nose,makes it much easier.I always just put the head of it in my mouth when I sense he is getting ready to cum,because I want to taste the sweetness of my reward.

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