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Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/27/2010 11:29:29 PM

SAMHAIN09

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I have been wondering this for a while now we have a sub and switch section yet they are not divided by gender. Now granted both genders have different ways of going about things but what about when we have a question that applies to both? Could someone please shed some light on this for me please?

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RE: Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/28/2010 5:56:10 AM

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Cause us straight male Domly types answer questions everywhere whether people ask us or not LOL.

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RE: Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/28/2010 5:58:38 AM

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Pssst... none of the rest of us pay much attention to the section markings either. I've noticed the "ask a master" board has all us subbies throwing our two cents in.

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RE: Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/28/2010 6:00:35 AM

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Ask Me anything!

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RE: Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/28/2010 6:34:50 AM

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That's what I used to think, but the dynamics of female led relationships are pretty different from male led relationships.

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RE: Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/28/2010 6:53:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

That's what I used to think, but the dynamics of female led relationships are pretty different from male led relationships.

Personally, I don't agree with this. In the vast scope of wiitwd, very little is gender specific. More often than not, if you reverse the genders on an original question, there isn't that much out there that doesn't apply across the board. Styles of domination vary much more due to personal style much more than they do according to gender.

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RE: Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/28/2010 6:43:04 PM

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And then there's the Ask a Master......Dom, Master....it's like sub vs slave...simply semantics.

yeah, yeah, yeah.....listen to all the noses that just bent out of shape! Personally, I've yet to see any difference between the title Dom and Master with the men I've been involved with......so save the flames for those in the frozen north!

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RE: Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/29/2010 2:42:16 AM

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It's in the ask a master section... I know, I know, you don't want to call self Master, anymore than I want to be called Mistress, but I don't consider it serious enough, to add one more category to this fairly easy to follow internet boards.

In a perfect world, we'd have, "ask what is specific/special to me alone." M

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RE: Why don't we have a "Ask a dom?" section? - 12/29/2010 4:50:13 AM

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Because Doms are not real. So too bottoms, fetishists, tops, daddies, mommies, baby girls, adult babies, kinksters...
Get with the program, people.

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