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maybemaybenot -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 7:37:37 AM)

FR:

I've been fortunate. Every guy I was in a relationship with, D/s or vanilla, has been a very good cook. I didn't chose that way, it just happened to be. Having my man cook for me is pretty high up on the " How to make an impression list ". I don't care if it's a gourmet meal, a nice casserole or a boxed meal. There is something very sexy and intimate about having the one you love cook for you. I love to cook, and am a pretty good cook, but am happy to hand over the skillet immediately on request. I think the old adage: the way to a man's heart is thru his stomach is quite true, and true in reverse.

My former dominant served me breakfast in bed every Sunday for 12 years. Sunday mornings I got to sleep in, he would wake me up, hand me the newspaper, then make me breakfast. Sometimes fancy, sometimes cereal and an orange. Then he crawled into bed, we ate our breakfast together and  read the newspaper until noon. The memories of those Sunday mornings are some of the best memories I have of him. Not that the " other stuff" was bad, it was just very intimate and something I looked forward to all week.

                                 mbmbn




littlewonder -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 7:42:55 AM)

none really. It's never mattered to me if a guy could cook or not.

Master loves to cook and it's nice because I hate to cook but if he never cooked I wouldn't have a problem with it.




BeingChewsie -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 7:51:45 AM)

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Ladies, how much man-cooking would it take to impress you?


Really any decent cooking would impress me. It was one of the things I loved about my owner from the get-go. He knew how to cook, really cook. He knew wines and so on. He was cultured and it showed. He was equally impressed with how well I could cook and my willingness to cook for him. I didn't expect reservations every time I came out to see him. Cooking together is one of the things we have found over the years really bonds us together. There is something unique and appealing about a man who really knows his way around a kitchen. He even does dishes sometimes too...shhhhh.




wandersalone -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 7:59:39 AM)

FYI

I have first dibs on Rapier Fugue and his mad cooking skillz [:)]

I generally go into raptures anytime I meet a man who will cook for me and thankfully a lot of guys I have dated have done just that.




pahunkboy -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 8:02:28 AM)

Here is a hint guys...

Before she comes-  put some pots on the stove...  order some take out but hide the packaging real good. Lets say it is Chinese - empty the rice in one pot and the chicken mixture in the other pot.  Be sure to leave hot mits out- and a sink full of dishes or it wont work.

For an added touch- buy some candles and lay them on the heat vents for a few days... they will be less round.  YOU my good man- have made these candles!

Next-  pop in at a florist-  get a nice bouquet- but maybe flawed just a little bit.  These are the flowers that YOU grew in your garden!

Next set out a bunch of balls of yarn- and tell her you will make her an afghan!  Leave a pattern out for emphsasis- later if you get a 2nd date you will buy one for her and tell her YOU made it.







TreasureKY -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 8:28:00 AM)

What impresses me the most is a man who knows his talents and limitations, and makes no apologies for them.   [;)]

I dated a chef from Europe once.   He didn't cook for me but took me to a very nice restaurant.  Was one of the most miserable dates ever.   He spent the entire evening trying to impress me with his knowledge.  He berated and criticized every little part of our meal from the wine to the dessert.  He gave the waiter a hard time and generally embarrassed the hell out of me.  [&:]




DesFIP -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 8:32:45 AM)

The Man keeps telling me that he used to cook but he's never done it for me. He barely even grilled this past summer. He will usually help with the clean up though.




sexyred1 -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 8:39:27 AM)

I think it is sexy when a man cooks for you. I hate cooking and can hardly make anything, so I am not that picky whether it is spaghetti or something more gourmet. It is really the thought that counts.

Although I did date a French chef once and what that man could do with what I thought was an empty refrigerator was amazing...

I also like men who are foodies; it alludes to other major appetites. [;)]




MasterG2kTR -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 8:55:27 AM)

All right DS, I know you addressed to the ladies here, but like so many others, that doesn't stop us guys from chiming in.

Being a man, I feel that a kitchen was made for women....and ladies before you start the bashing......I said "being a man", men cook with fire *grunt* and I do most of my cooking on the grill (year 'round). There are some things (side dishes) that can only be done in the kitchen though. So I sometimes find myself beating a path between the grill and the stove.

My specialty is prime rib with a home made marinade (soaking the meat in it no less than 24 hours) and done to any degree of preference. Rotisserie chicken is right up there too.

As for kitchen only meals. Swedish meatballs (home made) in gravy with sauteed whole mushrooms over hot buttered egg noodles. Add in any side dishes of desire.




subinlife -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 9:18:14 AM)

The one place I don't want my Dom is in the kitchen. He can help clean up if he wants to.
His cooking efforts involved rice and the fire dept, so he tells me.
I love to cook and bake, people say I'm good at both.
A man who can cook is great, we can share the kitchen.
I lost a friend of mine last month who cooked Italian from scratch. Drunk driver.

Happy New Year All 
 




DMFParadox -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 9:38:15 AM)

Chicken bake -

Preheat oven to 350.

Coarsely chop 3-4 potatoes, 6-8 carrots, 6-8 celery stalks, into 1 to 1/2 inch chunks. Take 3 onions and divide them into halves, then quarters, so you have 8 'chunks' each; or if they're large onions, go for 12-16 chunks. Don't separate layers.

Take all of these veggies and fill a 9x12in baking pan with them. Add about 1/8th to 1/4th cups water; just enough to line the bottom of the pan.

take 4 of your normal bone-in chicken quarters; wash and pat relatively dry, snip off any extra fat/skin but don't remove skin that's on the meat. Make sure they're room temperature.

Take about 1/2 a cup of bread crumbs, mix in 1 teaspoon of salt, one of pepper, one teaspoon each of finely chopped or dry basil, oregano,  thyme, and parsley. 'Italian Seasoning' mixes also work for this; but fresh herbage is best. Add about a tablespoon of powdered garlic.

Coat the chicken quarters in the bread/herb mix. Take any leftovers and sprinkle them on top

Set the chicken on top of the veggies. Wash your hands at this point, because they'll be covered in bread crumbs

Cover the top of the baking pan with aluminum foil.

Set in the oven and bake for at least 2 and 1/2 hours. I've sometimes slow-baked these things for over 4 hours, and the chicken came out practically falling off the bone and delicious. But use your judgment; at 350 degrees, it's hard to overcook the birds, but possible. If you're facing a time crunch before your date, throwing the chicken into the microwave can resolve any uncooked meat, but I'd plan ahead to keep the chicken in the oven at least an hour longer than 2 and 1/2 hours, just in case they don't get finished.

You'll know that the meat is fully cooked when you can't pick up the bird by a bone without it trying to fall apart.

As for all the veggies... The result will be that the veggies will marinate in the juices from the chicken and come out so good you'll wish you could have stuffed more potatoes and carrots in the pan.

Cheers.




pahunkboy -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 9:48:27 AM)

I think men shop for groceries differently.

Seeing how I VS my neighbor buy groceries.

Me being more zeroed in on getting a nice slab of meat.   Where as my neighbor thinks more in terms of the complete meal. 




MaxsGirl -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 10:13:58 AM)

It's not the actual cooking that does it for me, it's the fact that he cares enough to want to cook for me.  The first time he made me scrambled eggs for breakfast, I melted.  A simple meal and not complicated to make, but he made it for me.  I'm a raging foodie and a very good cook, so good food definitely wins me over, but I'd rather have something simple made well (and with love) than something complicated made badly.




allthatjaz -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 11:20:48 AM)

My dad was a top chef of his time and although I didn't see him much when I was little, in later years I was cooked many a fine meal by this tough, no mess with man! For those guys that say they think its a woman's job to cook, I'm pretty certain my dad would of made them feel differently. He impressed my young sons so much and enabled them to see that cookery had a masculine side to it too. That inspired both my sons to go on and become good cooks. My eldest is launching his new restaurant in March 2011
My partner Steve is an excellent cook. He can make chocolate souffles to die for and he impresses our guests with some tasty imaginative food.
I personally love cooking and celebrate good food. Its one of the things I feel I was born into and I can happily spend all day at the stove.
Between us we eat pretty well but I am never expected to do all the cooking.




SlaveRMneeded -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 11:29:11 AM)

For a slave to impress me with his cooking, it would have to be tasty, well timed, and obviously showing a will to please by him planning the menu with my tastes in mind. In other words, I would not be impressed, just because he cooked.

Men do not impress me that they cook. I grew up in a house where everyone cooked. Sure, the women did it more, but, there were more women in the house.

I would like it, being cooked for. It's nice and should be appreciated. I just wouldn't be impressed, just because it was a man doing it.




pahunkboy -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 11:53:39 AM)

Some guys tho,  could not even make a sandwich if their life depended on it. 




NocturnalStalker -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 11:55:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

Some guys tho,  could not even make a sandwich if their life depended on it. 


I am that guy.





RapierFugue -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 12:04:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

FYI

I have first dibs on Rapier Fugue and his mad cooking skillz [:)]

I generally go into raptures anytime I meet a man who will cook for me and thankfully a lot of guys I have dated have done just that.


lol ... I don't actually consider myself “skilful” per se, more that, when it comes to cooking, I have a sort of near-OCD degree of finicky as it pertains to getting things right (I'm like that with a lot of things I'm interested in). I spend ages perfecting the technique necessary to do each thing, be it baking bread, doing Italian, or Chinese, or Indian, or Sushi, or whatever. I tend to “get into” a cuisine, cook various examples of it to destruction, and once I’ve mastered it commit 2 or 3 of the best dishes to my “best of” list. I’ve been cooking since I was 5, so there’d be something very wrong if I wasn't halfway competent by now.

Currently, this is my fave simple dessert; it’s so easy, but so yummy. It’s also highly fattening, and has shedloads of chocolate, so it must be good [;)]

Chocolate Chestnut Thingy:

5oz butter

3 oz icing sugar

8 oz plain chocolate (the good, high-percentage of cocoa solids stuff)

1 tin (approx. 400g) chestnut puree

2 tablespoons brandy or rum

Method:
1. Melt chocolate in bowl over hot water and allow to cool slightly.
2. Cream butter and sugar until fluffy.
3. Push chestnut puree through a sieve to make it ultra-smooth. (or leave a few little lumps of chestnut in if you can’t be bothered, it’ll still be yummy)
4. Mix all ingredients together.
5. Place in a small loaf tin.
6. Chill for at least 1 hour in fridge, but overnight is best.
7. Place loaf tin in hot water for a few seconds to loosen, then run a palate knife around the edges to loosen further, then turn out onto serving dish. If you want to, grate a little more dark chocolate on top.
8. Slice and serve with cream.

It’s a very heavy consistency, sort of like an even more dense chocolate cheesecake. A little goes a long way, so it’s good for dinner parties, coz a) you can make it in advance and have it sitting waiting in the fridge and b) it doesn’t take up much table space coz it’s so rich and so dense.

Generally speaking, if you’re prepared to put the hours into practice, just about anything is possible; sushi took me quite a long time to get right (and even now, whenever I do it, the first one I do is never quite right) because it uses such different skills to western cooking, and I’m also only so-so with bread; for some reason it’s never quite as good as I think it should be, and I've come to the conclusion I'm just not one of nature’s natural bread bakers. Chinese also requires you re-learn how to cook, because using a wok properly goes contrary to the way European cooking uses heat; you have a very hot pan (wok), and you don't mess too much with the temperature, but rather use the speed of turning of the food and the placement of the wok to get the right results. That took me a couple of dishes to work out, but no biggie.

Other than that it’s just the experience to know your ingredients and how they will react to one another, the knowledge to understand the best way (and timing) to combine them, and the patience to perfect a recipe, rather than relying on it being good first time out. I’m also a compulsive “fiddler” with recipes, so I almost never end up with the best version being the first I tried. The following is a very good “first date” recipe, because it’s a) visually stunning, b) utterly delicious and c) again, can be made in advance. It’s a bit fiddly and time-consuming to make, as well as seeming to use every item in the kitchen, but worth it, although again it’s hardly low-cal, but then so few of the really good things in life are. It’s also not too heavy, so if you are possibly going to become “intimate” at some point in the evening you won’t both feel like you've just tried to eat an entire whale between you – for this reason I tend to avoid heavy curries and rich, cream-based sauces if there’s a possibility of “happy times” later in the evening.

http://www.deliaonline.com/recipes/type-of-dish/party-food/salmon-coulibiac.html

I substitute basmati and wild rice mix for the plain rice – gives it an extra dimension.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 12:05:23 PM)

I'd be impressed by someone being considerate and thoughtful, and taking the time to prepare a meal for me. It wouldn't matter what the meal consisted of.

I'd probably move a guy in today, if he was a good cook, did laundry and ran errands. I have a small cell of a room and plenty of laundry just waiting for Mr. Right! But, I'm generous that way.

WinD





81song -> RE: Ladies, how much cooking does it take to impress you? (12/30/2010 12:07:48 PM)

If there is one room in the house I love, that is the kitchen. I guess it goes back to my family but I love to cook. I have made very good pasta dishes that had some women friends of mine dancing in the front yard , which was a nice scene. 




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