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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 11:24:18 AM

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Why? Because the orgasms I have are multiple enough and strong enough to make me pass out so why worry?

No reason to worry, in my opinion. I don't see it as some goal everyone should reach, or that someone is lacking who doesn't experience it. Just enjoy yourself!

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 12:39:32 PM

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This is a very good site
http://www.whitelotuseast.com/FemaleEjaculation.htm
During sexual arousal the Skene’s glands may be stimulated in a way as to release secretions into the urethral canal. These secretions are ultimately expelled through the urethral opening (just as in male ejaculation). This fluid "release" is entirely unrelated to “vaginal” secretions, who’s primary, but not exclusive purpose is the lubrication of the vagina.
While there have been numerous claims of vast quantities of liquid expelled during ejaculation, all fail to offer a biologically compelling explanation as to the source, or reservoir used to store or produce such copious supplies of juices. Skene’s glands are smaller in size than the male prostate, and it would only seem logical to assume that the amount of “ejaculate” would be commensurate. Regardless of the true quantity, it is a fact, that it is possible for some women to expel (or ejaculate) prostatic fluid.

Not all women who squirt are going to soak the bed. Women can squirt and just make themselves a little more moist. Men who watch porn may expect a squirter to be like a water fountain but generally ejaculating women don't produce much more than a few teaspoons of fluid from the Skene/paraurethral gland.
Not all women have a skene gland but recent studies have shown that without this gland you will probably never have a vaginal orgasm and that a vaginal orgasm will always be aided by the skene gland. If that’s the case then all vaginally orgasmic women ejaculate.
You can ejaculate without having a vaginal orgasm and it feels very different. When the Skene gland lets go suddenly it triggers the urethral opening. This is when we get a shot/soak because instead of it seeping out slowly, it comes forth in a jet. Some of it may be piss but so what?! I squirt and I understand enough about female ejaculation to know that I can’t produce so much liquid without some of it being piss. I think it’s a shame when women get up in arms about this. Ejaculation is exactly what it says it is and its great but its not a competition

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 12:43:50 PM

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Some of it may be piss but so what?! I squirt and I understand enough about female ejaculation to know that I can’t produce so much liquid without some of it being piss. I think it’s a shame when women get up in arms about this. Ejaculation is exactly what it says it is and its great but its not a competition

Right, but what I was saying is that many men I have spoken to ask this question immediately as if judging the quality of one's orgasm to be directly proportional to the amount of squirting going on; thereby making the guy feel better as a lover in that he made you squirt.

Which is utter nonsense.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 12:51:17 PM

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Your right.

I don't why some men see finding the g-spot and making a woman squirt their mission in life. It's supposed to be fun not the search for Noah's Ark.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 12:54:19 PM

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I know! I never knew people's egos were so fragile that they based their prowess on what they observe in porno films.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 1:03:48 PM

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Right, but what I was saying is that many men I have spoken to ask this question immediately as if judging the quality of one's orgasm to be directly proportional to the amount of squirting going on; thereby making the guy feel better as a lover in that he made you squirt.

Which is utter nonsense.

Yes it is nonsense and those guys have been watching too many porn movies.
I think we should feel liberated that the female ejaculation is now receiving such a warm welcome from our lovers. It wasn't many years ago that this was frowned upon as something unsavory. At the same time it has nothing whatsoever to do with being a better lover.
If anything I think a lot of women are in competition with each other. I have run female ejaculation workshops and I listen to women telling each other, 'I can squirt a cup full' and another woman claiming 'I can squirt right over the bedroom and hit the wall on the other side'. We have moved from accepting, understanding and embracing the female ejaculation to showing off about it.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 1:03:56 PM

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I didn't even bother to read the article because I can tell you it definitely exists.The gspot is absolutely heaven.

Gotta agree with this one. Between the g-spot and clitoral orgasms, it's just a mulitiple O party waiting to happen. It's one of my favorite parts of being a woman :)

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 1:07:34 PM

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Gotta agree with this one. Between the g-spot and clitoral orgasms, it's just a mulitiple O party waiting to happen. It's one of my favorite parts of being a woman :)

This is beginning to sound like a 3 way but with only 2 people

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 1:32:03 PM

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Back to the original post! It's the chauvinistic denial of the existence of g-spot orgasms that is so irksome. That this amount of pleasure exists and this info is denigrated or withheld from sexually mature people of both sexes are the crimes.
This is about education. Having listened to lots of women who were brought up to feel guilty about receiving or experiencing sexual pleasure, and some poor souls who still haven't had a loving partner or orgasm, wouldn't it be nice if every woman is aware of g-spot orgasms and knows how to get them free and guilt-free, and after that, everyone who wants one gets to experience one, on either side of the 'come here' finger?
Now there's a Coke commercial!
"I'd like to buy each chick a g-spot O,/ To soak the bed and wet his head,/ and make her pass right out."
But since you can't fake one, it would have to be a really, really long ad ;-)
And if you don't want one, have a Pepsi instead.
There! [dusts hands]. Everyone's happy.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 1:35:37 PM

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"I'd like to buy each chick a g-spot O,/ To soak the bed and wet his head,/ and make her pass right out."
But since you can't fake one, it would have to be a really, really long ad ;-)
And if you don't want one, have a Pepsi instead.
There! [dusts hands]. Everyone's happy.

Brilliant

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 1:43:27 PM

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Gotta agree with this one. Between the g-spot and clitoral orgasms, it's just a mulitiple O party waiting to happen. It's one of my favorite parts of being a woman :)

This is beginning to sound like a 3 way but with only 2 people

It can be done by one person alone.

Ummmmm......I read that in Cosmo or some such.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 1:51:41 PM

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Gotta agree with this one. Between the g-spot and clitoral orgasms, it's just a mulitiple O party waiting to happen. It's one of my favorite parts of being a woman :)

This is beginning to sound like a 3 way but with only 2 people

It can be done by one person alone.

Ummmmm......I read that in Cosmo or some such.

Yes, I read that same.....errrr......Cosmo lol

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 2:52:18 PM

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Once you find it once, you can find it on any woman. The only question is how much pressure and speed. Those are the only variables. A neat trick is to place your other hand on the pubic mound and press down gently but firmly. I assume it pushes the gspot area down closer to the fingers doing the rubbing, and that's why it works.

Sadly, since moving out to the western Nebraska area, I haven't met a single woman that knows about her gspot. The upside is that I look like a sex god of Olympus. The downside is that inexperience extends into the rest of their sex life, and I've gotten tired of the innocent fumblings of amateurs.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 3:24:38 PM

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I don't why some men see finding the g-spot and making a woman squirt their mission in life. It's supposed to be fun not the search for Noah's Ark.

For some, it is fun. And for some men, it's not about ego, it's just a turn on. Some men like good head, some like a squirter. We're all different. Some women squirt volumes, some just a little, and others not at all. It's not a competition. It's simply individual uniqueness.

But to say it doesn't exist (as in the OP's article) is just ridiculous.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 3:27:35 PM

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Once you find it once, you can find it on any woman. The only question is how much pressure and speed. Those are the only variables. A neat trick is to place your other hand on the pubic mound and press down gently but firmly. I assume it pushes the gspot area down closer to the fingers doing the rubbing, and that's why it works.

Sadly, since moving out to the western Nebraska area, I haven't met a single woman that knows about her gspot. The upside is that I look like a sex god of Olympus. The downside is that inexperience extends into the rest of their sex life, and I've gotten tired of the innocent fumblings of amateurs.

Right, so if a woman is not aware of her g-spot she is inexperienced in her sex life and considered an amateur.

Ok, sparky.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 3:42:13 PM

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Wow, really...ok, I'll try again. it should be obvious that I was referring only to the women I have been with. At no time did I say ALL women, or even SOME women. Only those I have been with since moving out to this area. Once again, am I saying ALL women in this area? SOME women in this area? Noooooooo, I am only speaking of those I have been with, and therefore know. And yes, they share a common thread of not having much experience nor exploration under their belts.

I'm sorry, but collarme prevents me from drawing a pie chart to assist in your comprehension.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 3:45:39 PM

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I don't need a pie chart. I got your geography. It still stinks of being judgemental over those women.

Since you are a self proclaimed sex god, you should know better.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 3:54:19 PM

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Not at all, they are wonderful women in their own right, I just suspect that they're victims of where they grew up. Nebraska is a very socially conservative state.

Oh come now, sparky, where did I say I considered myself a sex god? I stated, with obvious sarcasm, that I was perceived as one due to the inexperience of the women I've been with. Now when I say inexperienced, I am not looking down on them in any way, so no need to get all worked up and get offended for someone else.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 6:03:58 PM

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I am pretty sure it exists, I have found it on every woman I have been with since I was in grade 12 when I discovered it on my then girlfriend...without even knowing what it was I had found...but damn did she enjoy it...as have all the others actually.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 6:43:03 PM

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Not at all, they are wonderful women in their own right, I just suspect that they're victims of where they grew up. Nebraska is a very socially conservative state.

Oh honestly... women from the midwest aren't sheltered from the big wide world. Sheesh. You make it sound like Nebraska women are sequestered from knowledge that's available in any edition of Cosmo.