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thishereboi -> Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 4:47:05 AM)
On a thread in off topic, barelynangle said.... "It would be interesting if someone starts a thread as to listing various kinks people know about." So here it is. What are some of the kinks people know about. A few of my favorites are rope bondage and genitorture, what are yours?

Prinsexx -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 7:06:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi On a thread in off topic, barelynangle said.... "It would be interesting if someone starts a thread as to listing various kinks people know about." So here it is. What are some of the kinks people know about. A few of my favorites are rope bondage and genitorture, what are yours? Looked at this way there are more kinks than lists.

sexyred1 -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 7:08:36 AM)
The word genitorture makes me snap my legs shut. [:(]

Prinsexx -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 7:11:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 The word genitorture makes me snap my legs shut. [:(] The word list does the same to me.

RCdc -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 7:18:41 AM)
Like I said to LadyPact, I don't consider a kink anything to do with BDSM. Sorry thishereboi

xssve -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 7:38:34 AM)
Genitorture? Pull it, stretch it, pump it, poke it, slap it, fill it, work it - oh yeah. [:-]

Kana -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 7:40:47 AM)
My kink is power.

Prinsexx -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 8:36:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana My kink is power. I agree. This is surely the bottom (scuse pun) denominator. So, at pains here, not to sound merely flippant, there are enough kinks as there fantasies and nobogy in their right mind would ask for a list of those. There are other fetish sites (naming no names) that have an array of kinks that beggar belief and if the kink isn't there then one of the other hundred monkeys will just come along, as if by chance, and create not only the kink but a group of kinksters who are all into it. So: by way of being literal here: kink is, for me, a process, that happens in relationship to a person, or oneself (on lonely nights.....wouldn't want to drive the masturbators away here) and a process that involves power in some form or other...usually other. Edited to add: snorkel fucking.............what else is there to say?

LadyPact -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 8:44:52 AM)
For Me, it's just about anything that involves bondage, discipline, sadism, and/or masochism, That covers a lot of territory. [:)]

RapierFugue -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 8:48:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact For Me, it's just about anything that involves bondage, discipline, sadism, and/or masochism, That covers a lot of territory. [:)] What LT said. And power. Lots and lots of power. And control. And ... well just everything really* :) *well, almost everything :)

Missokyst -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 9:47:24 AM)
Since BDSM is activity and I consider d/s to be dynamics, power is not an option. As far as BDSM goes though.. Electric play gets me going, charges me up and scares the bejeebers out of me all at once. All good things! Wands, prods, tens, batteries, zappers, stingers.. yep, give it to me.

RapierFugue -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 9:52:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Since BDSM is activity and I consider d/s to be dynamics "You po-TAY-toe, I say " KNEEL, YOU WORTHLESS SLUT!" ;) Sorry, dunno why that popped into my head, just did :) PS: Not directed at you! Just something that came to me. I think I might have had one cup of coffee too much today :)

RCdc -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 9:57:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact For Me, it's just about anything that involves bondage, discipline, sadism, and/or masochism, That covers a lot of territory. [:)] What LT said. And power. Lots and lots of power. And control. And ... well just everything really* :) *well, almost everything :) See... now this is where I get confuzzled. I understand this is about kinks and peoples personal kink list to add to make one biggie, I can't see how snokel fucking(as an example seeing as Prins used it) relates to power or control... or other pretty well known kinks like playing with food, sploshing or even enjoying feet. Whilst I can see why a action or subject that is a kink can be about control or power, it doesn't have to be. So rapeplay (which this thread is spawning from over on the other forum) whilst it can have elements of power exchange, it doesn't have to. If someone gets hot from having a wet and messy food fight with another (or others) where is the BDSM element in that? There is no B, no D and as for the S and M, unless we are talking about freshly boiled potatoes pushed into a cunt there is isn't really anything to that either? Wouldn't that mean that as Kana stated, that the kink is power.. not the way you get there(rape, queening etcblah)?

RapierFugue -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 10:04:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RCdc If someone gets hot from having a wet and messy food fight with another (or others) where is the BDSM element in that? Don't know, don't care :) (not that it's a kink of mine I have to admit). When I said "and just well everything really" I wasn't suggesting I'm into absolutely everything, I was sort of pastiche-ing Blackadder II, where Queeny gives Edmund a list of all the things she wants him to do for her while he’s away on his voyage of exploration, and her general enthusiasm is delightful to watch and ... ... yeah, you’re right. I either need to include readership comprehension notes with what I post, or STFU :) The thing is, it's all very logical to me when I'm writing it, but later I think "oh now wait a second ... isn't that a bit obscure?", and it generally is.

RCdc -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 10:18:55 AM)
quote: Don't know, don't care :) (not that it's a kink of mine I have to admit). Oh the example was kinda rhetorical, it wasn't about the specific kink but more about the BDSM bit. quote: ... yeah, you’re right. I either need to include readership comprehension notes with what I post, or STFU :) No STFU'ing, please I beg.[:D] Don't ya just hate having to do them frigging disclaimers?[;)]

LadyPact -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 10:23:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RCdc See... now this is where I get confuzzled. I understand this is about kinks and peoples personal kink list to add to make one biggie, I can't see how snokel fucking(as an example seeing as Prins used it) relates to power or control... or other pretty well known kinks like playing with food, sploshing or even enjoying feet. Whilst I can see why a action or subject that is a kink can be about control or power, it doesn't have to be. So rapeplay (which this thread is spawning from over on the other forum) whilst it can have elements of power exchange, it doesn't have to. If someone gets hot from having a wet and messy food fight with another (or others) where is the BDSM element in that? There is no B, no D and as for the S and M, unless we are talking about freshly boiled potatoes pushed into a cunt there is isn't really anything to that either? Wouldn't that mean that as Kana stated, that the kink is power.. not the way you get there(rape, queening etcblah)? Just My weird take on this, but I think it comes down to how people interpret the discipline part. If they see that as power, I can agree. Fetishes, if they lack the power element, I don't tend to see in quite the same way. So, the food fight, to use your example, wouldn't necessarily do it for Me.

RapierFugue -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 10:24:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RCdc Don't ya just hate having to do them frigging disclaimers?[;)] I'm thinking of finally succumbing and using a signature: how does "the writer cannot be held responsible for any lack of comprehension on your part - if you don't understand, ask, and if you don't like the reply, fuck off out of my face" grab you? ;)

BurntKitty -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 10:47:48 AM)
Hair pulling & face slapping are a few of my favorite kinks.... (With apologies to Julie Andrews' Favorite Things)

RapierFugue -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 10:50:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BurntKitty Hair pulling & face slapping are a few of my favorite kinks.... Absolutely :) quote: ORIGINAL: BurntKitty (With apologies to Julie Andrews' Favorite Things) #Deep Heat and Bullwhips and wanking in mittens ... No. NO! I am not going to spend another 3 hours writing another set of daft lyrics for a song. Especially when that song already has some pretty crazy lyrics in the first place :)

RCdc -> RE: Different kinks we know and love. (1/7/2011 10:51:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Fetishes, if they lack the power element, I don't tend to see in quite the same way. So, the food fight, to use your example, wouldn't necessarily do it for Me. I think you have struck on an important issue there LadyPact, using the word fetish. I was with Lucky on this when she was here... there are very few people with bonafide fetishes and I really find the whole term to be overused. It's almost 'cool' to have a fetish. Having a 'kink' just doesn't have the same 'huzzah'. A fetish has to be something to get you off at that moment... and although the word is evolving particulaly in online foraand I just find it overused and under rated. Kink on the otherhand is a quirk, a something unusual that makes your heart race and your blood rush. It can make you giddy and feel fabulous but it's not the be and end of all. Bondage is probably one of the more common fetishes... I know lots of people who can only orgasm when bound, footfetishists are fewer, even though the claim is made... because it's more a kink. I'm probably being a pedant... wouldn't be the first time. But when people state they have a fetish for something when it's kink, just makes my skin crawl. But then that's just my problem/issue.[:)]

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