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RE: If only the world had enough. - 1/9/2011 3:46:43 PM

sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: roughleather

That's because you're looking on line. Online dating is spam and losers today. It was cool a decade ago, but that's over. Craigslist is 95%+ spam; most of the "women" there are autoresponders for porno sites or gay "pic collectors".

There are plenty of potential female submissives, but most of them are out in the 'burbs buying Harlequin romances and not playing. You can recognize those when they start "I've always dreamed about..." About half of them will freak out if it gets real. That gets wearing, and you have to learn how to filter out the wannabees.

It's useful to have some female friends who know you're kinky, even if they're not. They may find you women with sub potential. Ask.

Oh, right. That must be the problem with single female submissives. It could not possibly be because there are not enough worthwhile male Dominants to meet, no of course not, how could that be?

I have never read a Harlequin romance novel in my life and I am sure I have been involved in real time BDSM longer than most men who contact me.

It is always fascinating to see the deluded thought process of others.

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RE: If only the world had enough. - 1/10/2011 5:11:38 AM

DesFIP

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And even those of us who always dreamed about it, and read romance novels, refused to submit to someone who wasn't worth it. We have standards and criteria and would rather be alone than lonely with someone else.

Having the desire doesn't mean we have zero impulse control. I have a desire for ice cream, I'm also capable of eating an orange instead.

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RE: If only the world had enough. - 1/10/2011 9:41:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I have never read a Harlequin romance novel in my life and I am sure I have been involved in real time BDSM longer than most men who contact me.

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RE: If only the world had enough. - 1/11/2011 12:10:49 PM

ThundersCry

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your looking in the wrong places,maybe...

this is one of the best bdsm message boards I have been to, however...finding someone compatabale, you may never find online.

munches and events would be a great place...or look around where you live....she may be right in front of you if you observe closely...

good luck here....rather you meet someone here or not remains to be seen...though theres a vast amount of information on the boards...

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