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top bottom switch - 1/8/2011 10:18:39 AM

spankeree

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After looking around the discussions and asking a few questions I've just realised i'm a Top/Bottom Switch! Is there another term for that and does that description mean anything to others here?

I'm not at all interested in submission and dominance in the psyshological or lifestyle sense, these fantasies (and when i'm lucky realities) for me are purely sexual and I want it to be sexually fulfilling for my partner too.

I'm not into being a master or having a slave, I just like to be in control in the bedroom, or in other situations submit control. Would love to share thougths and ideas with likeminded people............

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RE: top bottom switch - 1/8/2011 12:57:37 PM

DarkSteven

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I disagree. Based on your previous posts, I think that you're a Dom who wants to be in control. You like to bottom in the bedroom, but when YOU want it.

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RE: top bottom switch - 1/8/2011 1:17:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: spankeree

After looking around the discussions and asking a few questions I've just realised i'm a Top/Bottom Switch! Is there another term for that and does that description mean anything to others here?

I'm not at all interested in submission and dominance in the psyshological or lifestyle sense, these fantasies (and when i'm lucky realities) for me are purely sexual and I want it to be sexually fulfilling for my partner too.

I'm not into being a master or having a slave, I just like to be in control in the bedroom, or in other situations submit control. Would love to share thougths and ideas with likeminded people............

You don't sound like a top/bottom switch to me. You sound more like a dominant who desires a female who can bedroomswitch or who can top.
Honestly though, don't worry about giving yourself a label but focus on what you want from a partner and then go from there. Personally, until you do, I'd recommend sticking to the general BDSM forum so you get hit's from all sides answering you for a broader selection of ideas.

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