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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 11:14:23 PM

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anything He wants. mostly we just go about everyday things. i'm not a domestic but i help out if needed. i rarely have specific tasks. i have learned over the years to anticipates some of His needs. coffee, a snack, quiet time, baking goodies He likes. looking pretty most of the time. i work long hours at a job i love so i'm not expected to do much of anything except pick up my diet coke bottles, which i fail at , but He gives me time to take care of it. love Him so. such a spoiled slave .

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 11:23:58 PM

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/12/2011 12:02:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I don't give a flying fuck what the OP does.

He wasn't asking us to give anyone an opinion on his activities. He was asking others what they did. People gave them their answers and opinions. I do not find it terribly unfortunate if those people do not give the answers that he may have wished to get.

Ditto. Isn't it interesting when others get so upset when other people dare to reply the way they wish to a public thread? Funny that...

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/12/2011 3:12:07 AM

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Patriots, woo hoo!

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Wow, alot of retoric over a stupid question... HI Mister Zero, you sure is a really good typing type... err, typist? typer? eh, yer good at it, or rather you do it well.

as for the OP, I watch football with my sub, she usually makes a nice home cooked meal for us to enjoy. Then usually I either tie her up and torture her in some random sadistic manner that I usually come up with shortly before doing it. There is always a bit of a mind-fuck as well. Rarely is what I do to my sub (thats the question here right?) is ever planned to far before hand.

I feel like I should also include a disclaimer at this point: These are only my own thoughts on the matter, and should not be taken as advise or as the proper way to engage in these activities. Also the activities I have desribed are not that of a full time 24/7 PE situation. Salemartist and the women that engage in D/s with him are not responsible for any displeasure that may result in the activities discribed, especially if the Patriots win the Super Bowl. Results may vary.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/12/2011 7:28:50 AM

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As far as NZ claiming that people would scene 24/7 if they had time and money enough. I don't believe it. Even on those rare occasions when we've had no kids home over a weekend, we still don't scene round the clock. We still need to sleep and eat. He still wants to watch football. I still need to throw a load of laundry in and prepare meals.

As far as Caring recommending keeping a slave off balance, here it wouldn't teach flexibility but it would teach me to give up. I would learn that no matter what I did, I wouldn't be pleasing him. I would learn it was no use trying to do anything to make him happy since he was determined to find fault with me no matter what. I would be anxious and unhappy around the clock and fearful of him. It may work for her, it won't work for all of us. Not to mention that he wouldn't be happy either since he would be required to disrupt his routine in order to prevent me from having one. Dinner between 6:30 and 7:00 which is what he prefers? Nope, he would be required to eat early or late to make sure I wasn't ready. He would have to give up watching his favorite tv shows because I had gotten used to having that time to clean the kitchen and do some prep for the next day's meals. So we would both be unhappy and for what? Because somebody somewhere decreed I had to be kept off balance all the time.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/12/2011 5:54:53 PM

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i would be guilty as charged on that sexyred1. i need ideas to try, its hard in the begining (i think) to fully encompass what could be done etc. and beings there are sooooooooo many different ways of living this lifestyle i LOVE hearing how others do things or dont do them, then it gives the option of sorting things out that you may want to try or may not want to try, etc.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/16/2011 9:25:58 AM

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Our day looks like a day... we wake up, do our various things, snuggle a lot, and then go to bed. There is no "M/s-ey" stuff going on. There'd be absolutely nothing for you to see if you spent a few days with us other than the fact that I'm clearly running the show.

I do not use parlour tricks to maintain control. I use actual leadership skills which, in my assessment, are way more likely to result in actual authority and control over the long-haul. Carol obeys me because she finds me trust worthy and because I'm quite a bit more dominant than her. There's no other "trick".

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/20/2011 6:52:46 PM

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I think it just differs too much to define it,

A typical day, he wakes up at 5am, gets ready for work.

Sits on the bed and hugs me, gives me a kiss and tells me he's leaving for the day.

I usually sleep in until 10 then wake up, have a spa, make sure my hair, body etc is looked after.

Have brunch since I never have breakfast or lunch, more an inbetween.

Feed the cat, dog and python.

Exercise for 30-40 minutes on my bike, not a task, it's just something I enjoy doing.

Either go shopping with a friend or spend the day lounging around the house.

Master gets home at 5pm, we always have dinner at 6pm, he insists on making it.

After dinner we hug on the sofa, watch a movie, get online together or we may play, depending on how his days been.

A general day is just like anyone else's I think, I am his property, I do anything asked of me though it's pretty relaxed most of the time, boring? no, just spending every day with the man I love and who loves me just as much in return.

Next weekend is exciting, renovations on one of the bedrooms and this weekend there's a work function we must attend lol.

Beauty.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/20/2011 7:02:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: Dom247TPE

So, to all 24/7 TPE Masters (or slaves, for that matter, as the input would be the same): what do you do with/have your slave do, and how, throughout a day?

Cheers!

Probably be easier to say what I wouldn't do. However, I will do anything I want to do with her. It is 24/7 TPE an I am rather chaotic... mostly chaotic actually. That being said, odds are good I wouldn't be telling her to pack the satchels for camping tomorrow, I would jus wake her up with them packed and we would go. She lives for me, to be with me, beside me, behind me, in front of me. Wherever I need her, she is there an she can rest assured that whatever her needs (Gona stress the need word here an not the want word) are I am meeting them. I am no psychic an don't expect her to be either, therefore she knew exactly what she was getting into as did I, through communication an understanding one another.

On a side note- if she happened to say she was a no limit slave, she prolly found herself bound to an ICBM an on her way across the pond. Jus sayin.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/21/2011 4:06:05 AM

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Once there is a slave collared to the home, she will be a service slave in that the majority of her service is domestic duties. this should tell the OP a whole lot about what her day will be like. To this she will have duties such as furthering her education, persuing approved hobbies and keeping fit. depending on what is happening, she may become involved in one or more of the several businesses I opperate from home, including the one being launched next week. To this add, there will be times set aside when she will be required when I choose to explore my inner sadist or my desire to practice shibari and even have her displayed for select friends as she wrestles with the large know pressuring her clit she she is squirming for our enjoyment (Visually). Other duties besides those mentioned include serving food and refreshments to us and especially when we have guests, preparing my arising from bed in the mornings and ensuring my shaving gear is read and the water hot as well as assisting my morning shower etc.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/21/2011 9:14:22 AM

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As far as NZ claiming that people would scene 24/7 if they had time and money enough. I don't believe it. Even on those rare occasions when we've had no kids home over a weekend, we still don't scene round the clock. We still need to sleep and eat. He still wants to watch football. I still need to throw a load of laundry in and prepare meals.

Well, you'd certainly be correct for us. Carol and I are both young enough and retired enough to qualify for "enough time and money". But as you say, I still like to read the internet. Carol likes to paint. We have a LIFE beyond sex. Then again, I don't really understand the concept of a "scene" anyway. Sometimes I command Carol to paint... other times to blow me. It's all just me bossing her around.

All that being said, if two people can actually be happy doing the whole sex, drugs, & rock & roll lifestyle thing, then more power to them. I cannot.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/21/2011 4:48:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: leadership527

All that being said, if two people can actually be happy doing the whole sex, drugs, & rock & roll lifestyle thing, then more power to them. I cannot.

Granted, the suggestion was not that BDSMers are one-dimensional leisure-time pursuers. ;)

The point is that the foundation for what is normally offered as the reason "full time X" (where "X" is whatever whimsy pure leisure would dictate; often referred to as the "fantasy realm" stuff) is merely the inconvenience of life-chores and banal responsibilities.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/21/2011 5:56:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

As far as Caring recommending keeping a slave off balance, here it wouldn't teach flexibility but it would teach me to give up.

Nods. I know, I've been reading your posts for a long time now and this view is perfectly consistent with the way you present yourself. (that's a compliment, btw, consistency being the extremely rare human trait that it is, sigh.) Your personality and your experiences are most likely very different than mine so it makes sense that you and I would respond differently to the same stimulii. Some people need to be kept off-balance or they feel like giving up; others find such treatment deadly.

I can add one thing that may be reassuring Your view of off-balance seems to be that it would be all negative or involve constant fault finding. I can see how you would get that impression based on the details I wrote. I was in an inspired frame of mind and so kind of dashed that message off without thinking too carefully about how it would be received by others. That's not the best way of communicating. :/ To me, the situation you describe would not be a situation that would keep me off-balance, it would be an extremely predictable situation. Although maybe I didn't stress it enough, I imagined positive things in the off-balance situation, but I imagined that, when they came or if they came would be equally unpredicatble. These sorts of changes do serve to keep slaves, people in a deep state of mental and emotional bondage, on their toes and unasleep (i.e. not forgetful of nor complacent in their situation). They don't have a lot of use for non-slaves, though. In fact I think, as you rightly predict, such unpredictibility would breed wariness, discontent, and stress that bordered on despair in many people. But different personalities do need different things and what is poison for one can be nectar for another.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/22/2011 9:07:02 AM

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As a slave who was once owned 24/7, life becomes (although i hate to use this word) routine. My day was go to work, come home, do chores, get fed, go to bed, repeat. Weekends do chores, run errands. And in the mist of all this serve MASTERS as THEY wanted or needed.

But most importantly, being part of a household where one was needed and loved

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/24/2011 12:56:15 PM

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I procrastinate and don't do my essays until the night before, and he tells me I'm stupid, and I get anally raped, and I still don't get my essay done! Oh, no! I cry and beg him to let me sleep in bed, and not on the gross futon, but he says No, I can not! And I weep. And he takes away all of my clothes! And then, I can't really go to class, because I need to wear clothes to go to class! Then, he says, stop hitting yourself! And I can not! Because he is hitting me, with my own hands!

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/24/2011 1:53:46 PM

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I spent my days - between work and shopping - naked, doing what needed to be done - like cooking, washing dishes, dusting. I catered to his every wish, and did whatever he wanted. The thing is, after a while things DO evolve into a routine. Its more efficient that way, and stuff gets done instead of forgotten about.
As for keeping me slavish - he didn't need to do that - i did it all by myself. Knowing what he wanted and required was all i needed to carry out his wishes. I was where i wanted to be, and so i worked at keeping him happy and content with me. It was a very happy life for me.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/24/2011 6:20:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: Dom247TPE
So, to all 24/7 TPE Masters (or slaves, for that matter, as the input would be the same): what do you do with/have your slave do, and how, throughout a day

Cheers!

He keeps me locked in a closet until he's ready to use me.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/24/2011 6:45:27 PM

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I can add one thing that may be reassuring Your view of off-balance seems to be that it would be all negative or involve constant fault finding. I can see how you would get that impression based on the details I wrote. I was in an inspired frame of mind and so kind of dashed that message off without thinking too carefully about how it would be received by others. That's not the best way of communicating.

Caring: For what it's worth, I didn't think your example came off that negatively. While it wouldn't work for me, it wouldn't make me give up. It would make me look him square in the eye and ask "OK what the hell are you doing to me?" and then we'd laugh and I'd ask him something like, "No, seriously, is this some sort of game we're playing, because you're being really weird lately."

Life hands us enough things to be flexible over (as does his teen aged daughter, lol), so if he began creating things for me to jump around, I'd find it annoying and would be suspicious when we really DID have to change plans. I might think he was screwing around again, and might not take something serious, which actually is serious.

But you mentioned preventing the slave from "sliding by," which isn't an issue for us. We're both really in tune to each other and the relationship, so acts like this would make me ask him what's going on that we need to address, and why are we playing games instead of addressing it.

I'd likely get on his nerves with all my suspicious questions LOL.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 2/10/2011 7:44:39 PM

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Lots and lots of backgamen...

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 2/10/2011 8:47:50 PM

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The thing I think we're missing here is that no matter what she's doing she's still my property, still under my control. Art, laundry, bathing, whatever - it happens because I want it to happen. It doesn't have to be a "scene" (and frankly I never truly understood what distinction people draw there - how can you tell when it's a "scene" and when it isn't?) because that's just how our dynamic works - I lead, she follows. It doesn't have to be a big thing, because it isn't about what you do as a couple, it's how you do it. If things don't flow naturally, you're doing something wrong.

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