CynthiaWVirginia
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Joined: 2/28/2010 From: West Virginia, USA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia I am 46 and only have two cavities, lol. I hate you. With that out of the way, what the hell is her problem? With two recent layoffs and two new jobs and no health care, as well as four young children and an ex-husband (presumably) to fit into the picture, the last thing the marriage needs is more drama. And she's adding drama wholesale - refusing to take her meds properly, not telling a dentist what's up, and making her husband crazy. He's even bringing you into this. Is she feeling neglected at home? Those are just the ones I have filled. I got them done when I was 19 years old. The cement on my braces wore down and food snuck in and nailed my teeth. Will it make you feel better to know...that I have a baby cavity that has been too small to drill? We have been waiting since I was in 7th grade for it to get bigger...maybe it's big enough now, finally. This spring I plan to go to a dental college or something over another tooth...it hurts some of the time, lol. I have the best teeth in my family and am so glad everyone else is getting drilled and worse instead of me. <knocks on wood> Btw, my sister flosses every blessed day, and I don't. I know...life's not fair, lol. Neener neener... My ex is like the brother I never had, and I am honorary auntie to his household. Theirs was an arranged marriage and has been rocky ever since the kids started coming. His father chose her, and she has a filthy temper...complete with screaming out profanities and shattering glass against the wall. He is not easy to live with either because he is not a good listener and can act like something of a robot. I believe he has asperger (however you spell that). You're right about all the drama, it was good to see this from a guy's point of view. *********** Edited because I forgot to answer that last question. My ex is gentle and mild mannered, but kind of...dumb. While she was in labor with his kids, he was somwhere else...with their first baby, he left her alone at the hospital to take one of his night school college classes. He is a vanillasubbie, and needs his partner to take the lead. With their ethnicity/culture, he is supposed to wear the pants in the family. To put it mildly, she regrets having married him, and yes, if she feels neglected...it's because she is. If she just put a ring through his nose like they do with bulls and tie a rope to it...they would get along fine. When he is neglectful, it's because he doesn't know any better...he is good hearted and hard working, doesn't drink or take drugs, and hasn't cheated on her yet though he keeps thinking about it. Her education level is very low and she refuses to read books that could help her with child care or even first aid, etc. She probably genuinely thought that the dentist wouldn't help her if he knew she had a heart murmer, and if she had asked her hubby, he might have advised her to keep silent. Now they both know the truth, and I will also send them the appropriate page on that webmd site.
< Message edited by CynthiaWVirginia -- 1/29/2011 7:13:24 PM >
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