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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:37:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminTheta

*Sigh*

It looks like I may have to read the whole thread to see if any censorship is needed. I did have other plans, so I hope I get a few laughs along the modpath of moderating a long thread!

I will keep in mind that love is inconvenient sometimes, but its a good thing I love you all!


*slides ya a cookie an cocoa (they're virtual so they're perfect)*

Remember darlin, it all boils down to "Because you say so"!
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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:52:02 PM   
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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:54:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminTheta

LOL, I got to page six and think it is best to get back to my plans. So off to polls and random for you all!




LMAO! I see how it is... you just needed me to show up so the thread could take the express elevator to hell!

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:56:02 PM   
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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 2:58:35 PM   
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shouldnt this thread have been in P&RS from the start?

*ducks n runs cause I haz healthy respect for mod spanks*


Hmmm... you will have a healthy respect for troll spank "Hěn kuài"!

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 3:01:55 PM   
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along with slurps?

*droool*

erm, I'm sorry.. what were ya sayin?

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 6:18:45 PM   
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OK, new and WAY more compelling question.

Who cares if love is inconvenient? ...


Given what I wrote the answer to your question should be obvious. Love shows up as either dangerous or an inefficiency that is best done away with. Its character is misrepresented. In short, if you believe in love, you are in for a cold winter.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 6:26:17 PM   
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... you just needed me to show up so the thread could take the express elevator to hell!


Then, it should be interesting. For those who believe in love, it will be for you to either defend the topic of this thread or for you to roll over. FukinTroll is betting you are going to roll over.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 6:31:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		Someone mentioned that BenM sounds like he's talking to himself. Well I'd say that's pretty much whats going on here. Ive read up to through page 6 on this thread. And its become pretty plain why BenM has to write about love. Some people can only write about love while others are able to experience it. That seems to be the sad state of affairs for our author/poster. Your blatant sexual musings just make us see that you're not in even on your own musings.  Your sexual frustrations are pretty plain for all of us to imagine.

So Dear BenM, while I've gotten some serious chuckles from our fellow posters over your running commentary, I do as a woman, find you a turn-off the more that you say. And yet I found myself feeling a twinge of sadness knowing that you are alone. On the other hand, that's probably just how it might be for you, since I think your personality comes through your writing very well.  As a woman who's in your age range and in the dating pool, we'd never even get to a face-to-face. Perhaps more than waxing eloquent on CM, you should seek out a dating/personality coach. Less is more when it comes to words. You've gone way over your limit.

I wont speak for others but for me, your personality is too. Too lacking in humor, too stern. To holier than tho. Too wordy. Too bad. I wish you luck in this world. Most humans look for commonalities in each other. And I really feel like you're looking for things very few of us have, like or are interested in. Your mix of ideals is way too confusing and ever changing.

So why not come on down here for a change, and spend some time with us earthlings/commoners and just plain folk. Once you get to know us, you might just be surprised. 



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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 6:31:40 PM   
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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 7:48:53 PM   
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FR:

Expressing love when everything within is protesting for selfishness is when love appears to be likened to being inconvenient, as in causing or involving difficulties, unwanted extra effort, work, or trouble due to choosing to love rather than not.

Love demands much from whomever claims to be willing to express love in the face of the issues that common daily life presents when relating with others. Nonetheless, inconvenient or not choosing love is the higher road and one I tend to choose to tread more often than not, regardless of the demands.

Personal experience has proven the other side of inconvenient brings rewards unspeakable, saturated with noteworthy goodness that I have come to genuinely value. Hard work produces great rewards.

Take Care!


I like how Kahlil Gibran wrote of Love (I've taken just a portion of the entire poem)

...But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
...

I enjoy the entire poem, but it is rather lengthy, in fact have the book "Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet" and it is one of my favorite possessions.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 7:54:01 PM   
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Fukin Troll is laughing his ass off at you, BM, if I am not mistaken.. lol


You are not mistaken my lil luvly!
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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 7:56:29 PM   
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I like how Kahlil Gibran wrote of Love (I've taken just a portion of the entire poem)

...But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
...

I enjoy the entire poem, but it is rather lengthy, in fact have the book "Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet" and it is one of my favorite possessions.


Gosh... just GOSH! Now every time I see your name I am forever going to read it as Wantsome...

SLURP SLURP and SSSSSSSLLLLLLUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRPPPP!


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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/10/2011 8:07:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm replying to the recent post made by sophia37 (post #149) located at http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3563666

Though what you wrote here sophia37 is not all that agreeable there is some conventional wisdom and perhaps genuine feeling which is refreshing. I do not agree with what you wrote, however. Given that I have reason to believe there is not much in the way of hope as finding love is concerned I cannot afford to make finding love my only concern. In fact, there are those who have gone out of their way to impress upon me that the Internet is a dead end. This is partially true, but those who wanted to impress this thought upon me also clearly have an agenda.

What you are talking about are optimization strategies. Less can be more. I agree, but that is an optimization strategy for a particular selfish goal. I am pursuing several lines of thought at once.

In the Philosophy of Love several types of love are distinguished. I am addressing all of them in one way or the other. Platonic love is one such category. There is lust, eternal love, etc. One goal that is in my reach is to encourage others to think about love. This goal is achievable.

Some feel my poetry isn't any good, but the test of quality is the test of time. See Value of Poetry located at http://www.collarchat.com/m_3552515/tm.htm Artists have critics and the road is hard. Just go to the link I provided in Value of Poetry, the post located at http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3558773, on nurturing creativity. Many behave as if they were born yesterday and this stuff is all new to them. Perhaps it is, but don't make that an excuse for ignorance.

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One of my sentences needed fixing.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/11/2011 8:48:13 AM   
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Gosh... just GOSH! Now every time I see your name I am forever going to read it as Wantsome...

SLURP SLURP and SSSSSSSLLLLLLUUUUUUUURRRRRRRRPPPP!



aww, don't I wish!

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/11/2011 8:50:23 AM   
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LOL, I got to page six and think it is best to get back to my plans. So off to polls and random for you all!





we get dumped because some people make a mess of it :(

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/11/2011 8:51:28 AM   
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Fukin Troll is laughing his ass off at you, BM, if I am not mistaken.. lol

I hope you realize just how funny that abbreviation is, even though I know it wasn't meant that way.  It may even beat out SNot on the comedy scale.

Hey, it's in random stupidity now.  All bets are off.


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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/11/2011 8:51:46 AM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_3564090/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3564090

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/11/2011 8:54:32 AM   
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Fukin Troll is laughing his ass off at you, BM, if I am not mistaken.. lol

I hope you realize just how funny that abbreviation is, even though I know it wasn't meant that way.  It may even beat out SNot on the comedy scale.

Hey, it's in random stupidity now.  All bets are off.



In another post someone called him Bene, which made me think BeneFiber - and now with the BM...I kept having odd episodes of gigglefits since...I'm in danger of being locked up, I fear.

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RE: Is Love Inconvenient? - 2/11/2011 9:01:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Fukin Troll is laughing his ass off at you, BM, if I am not mistaken.. lol

I hope you realize just how funny that abbreviation is, even though I know it wasn't meant that way.  It may even beat out SNot on the comedy scale.

Hey, it's in random stupidity now.  All bets are off.



yeah.. I got an adolescent giggle out of it.. LOL

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