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DarkSteven -> RE: Good Evening to All (1/29/2011 11:14:06 PM)
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Hi there, bob! Welcome to collarme.
I hope you don't mind some suggestions.
1. Forget all that stuff about there being a thousand sub men for every Domme. While there is an imbalance, I know several unpaired Dommes here on collarme. There are simply a lot of unsuitable men.
2. Tell about yourself. De-emphasize the kink, and play up a relationship. Tell about yourself. I'd suggest something like "I've been a Marine and a supervisor at work. I can handle being in charge, but I'd rather give that control up in a relationship. I'm new to BDSM. I'm looking for a woman that..."
3. Tell what kind of woman you want. Obviously, if you insist on a 22 year old pornstar with an advanced degree, you'll limit yourself, but specify an age range, etc. - whatever is important to you.
4. Women like to talk. So if you can mention in your profile what kinds of topics you like to talk about, you'll speak to their souls.
5. You mention ice hockey in your likes/dislikes list. Then everything else is kink. An exclusive focus on kink is a bit of a red flag to women - they will want to know your outside interests as well.
Welcome again!
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