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worm123 -> NEW SUB (1/31/2011 3:41:24 PM)
Hello new friends. I joined this sight because I also wanted to be someone sub and did meet a women and we went to my hotel room. I was very disappointed as I didn't receive what I thought. She want to collar me but had none she wanted me to kiss her ass as soon as we got to the room but never demanded or asked for it. I expected to be collared from neck to balls on my knee to please when asked. this didn't happen so I'm joined here in hopes of finding this kind of fun.

ashjor911 -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 3:45:04 PM)
Welcome Dear i hope you will find what you are looking for

worm123 -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 3:58:29 PM)
One can hope

DarkSteven -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 4:02:58 PM)
Welcome to collarme. I suggest next time that you discuss what will happen ahead of time. And don't be surprised if the lady has a few ideas of her own regarding what will happen. I don't think you're using the word 'collar' like I'm used to. I think of it as a serious commitment, not a play activity.

LadyRian -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 4:07:17 PM)
Welcome. I hope you find what you're searching for.

JohnWarren -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 4:09:48 PM)
Do I get this straight? You met a woman. You didn't discuss what you wanted to do. She didn't tell you what she wanted to do. You went to a hotel room and ... surprise of surprises things didn't work out. Ok, you can do several things. One, put down in your profile some of your needs and desires. Now, ideally, this is a minimum. There should be a lot more. Second, when you get in contact, offer some information about what you want. Third, get her to tell you want she wants. or Limit your contacts to mindreaders. I vote for option one

MistressDelilya -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 4:12:25 PM)
Good luck in your search.

kdsusa7894 -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 5:10:53 PM)
My vote is also option 1, lol. Good Luck in your search OP.

HisManegirl -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 7:38:40 PM)
Expecting to be collared on a first encounter? That's a bit odd I would think. Was your first meeting in the Hotel room? If so, not too smart from my point of view. I would suggest at a public place, a coffee shop maybe a place to get a feeling for the person and talk first. You could of gotten a lot more that you didn't expect! Just because we are subs doesn't mean we are supposed to be stupid!

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 7:53:51 PM)
OK, she didn't ask that you kiss her or demand but you knew that's what she wanted? Have they started to offer the psychic 101 course and they forgot to tell me? Before you get into anything, since this is your first encounter, do some serious reading, go to local munches in your area if possible and meet people who live WIITWD in r/l. Then maybe you'll have a clue. Also give you a chance to meet some friends and ask polite questions as well as minding your manners. On that note, welcome to CM and the boards. Read some of the older and newer threads, go to the Ask A Mistress Forum and read the FAQ's and the stickys. You'll find these a great help.

worm123 -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 8:03:40 PM)
I chatted on line for a week with this women. And thought I knew want was to happen. On the night we met we did meet at bar and chatted a while before we went into my room. What I was told would go dow did not and since It was my forst time I didn't want to say what about that or you said this. I took it as a leaning experiance and it will not happen again. We will know what we each want before moving forward.

BurntKitty -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 8:09:13 PM)
Welcome to CM, and good luck in your future meetings.

worm123 -> RE: NEW SUB (1/31/2011 8:33:39 PM)
Thanks all, I'm not giving up. I will find a women to serve.

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