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MadamAurantia -> Hormonal BC and kink (2/2/2011 11:43:57 AM)
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Has anyone noticed a change in their kinkiness while coming on or going off of hormonal BC?
When my Dom and I got together, I was very much a pet. I went on the Pill when we got sexual, and have been for about three years now. Over the last couple of years, though, I started losing my interest in BDSM. We're still happily married, we just boxed away the ropes and floggers. I became a lot more dominant, too, which has placed a bit of strain on the relationship. I thought that I'd been put under too much stress over the last few years to be able to accept being told what to do, and we just adjusted. I like to fight, so many of our "scenes" simply turned into an equal brawl and ended with us both bruised, laughing, and exhausted. It worked well. [:)] I did have a male subbie myself for a while: no sex but a few beatings before he got a normal girlfriend and wandered off.
However, last month my doctor told me that I couldn't have hormonal BC anymore due to another health issue that had recently been discovered to make hormones dangerous. So I went off of the Pill and switched to Fertility Awareness (Liking that one better, anyway.).
But in the 43 days since then, I've become danged kinky again! I'm almost back to being a full-on sub again. I think this might have been a hormonal issue. I know that the Pill lowered my libido a bit, and the first brand I took screwed with my testosterone levels (I was my husband's "Bro" as well as a wife, it was fun but weird...). Has anyone else had this happen before?
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