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Why do woman nag?


They like to eat away at the guy
  9% (4)
They do not realize they do it
  11% (5)
They love conflict
  9% (4)
They don't nag- they "discuss"
  27% (12)
because chatter is love to them
  20% (9)
to raise the guys bood pressure!
  6% (3)
Unsure
  13% (6)


Total Votes : 43
(last vote on : 9/21/2011 2:15:53 AM)
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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:56:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hell its not only women who Nag...I'm sure if you ask my ex-wife she would tell you I was the one who did the nagging. Call from field training a few times a day "Did you take your meds? Did you eat? Remember to do this while I'm away"

In my defense though she suffered from a few mental disorders and needed someone to make sure she was taking care of herself. After a month of training guys for Iraq two hours away from home I didn't know what wife I was going home to, the one who wanted to go upstairs and welcome me home or the one who was surrounded by big mac wrappers, unmedicated and waiting to bash my head in with a frying pan because she thought I was a burglar with keys.

I have also been on the other side of the nag..10-15 messages @ work, Don't forget our date, or I miss you 20 times a day gets annoying too

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:56:16 PM   
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Because we can.

Because a man puts up with it is another.


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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 8:58:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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Because we can.

Because a man puts up with it is another.



Because he wants what we got!!!

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 9:01:49 PM   
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I have dinner with the neighbor lady.   When I say "I dont want to talk about it",  she wont let it go.   We do not live together- we are not dating-

I am to the point where I dont want to tell her any of my serious problems- because then she wants to know "what are you going to do about it", which if I knew what to do about it-  I would resolve it.   ...and when we get to the point where she understands- the full brunt of the problem- she will then pray about it- and they next day- we go thru this all over again.   ....easier for me to be the strong silent type.
Lol    Okay, this makes sense.  
I'm not going to say, stop the discussions with her, because she probably needs the companionship and care, but maybe don't tell her all of your problems, especially the more complex ones. M

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 9:04:27 PM   
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Oh, y'all are way overthinking this whole thing. The simple answer to the question is: Because we can.

You're absolutely right!   M

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 9:05:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW

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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy
I have dinner with the neighbor lady.   When I say "I dont want to talk about it",  she wont let it go.   We do not live together- we are not dating-

I am to the point where I dont want to tell her any of my serious problems- because then she wants to know "what are you going to do about it", which if I knew what to do about it-  I would resolve it.   ...and when we get to the point where she understands- the full brunt of the problem- she will then pray about it- and they next day- we go thru this all over again.   ....easier for me to be the strong silent type.
Lol    Okay, this makes sense.  
I'm not going to say, stop the discussions with her, because she probably needs the companionship and care, but maybe don't tell her all of your problems, especially the more complex ones. M




There is an age difference.  Light banter-  some current events- is doable and I adore that with her.

...in a way--  ... well if I am quiet and worried looking- then she knows something is up.

Tonight went much better then last night.   So that is good.  :-)

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 9:35:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy
There is an age difference.  Light banter-  some current events- is doable and I adore that with her.

...in a way--  ... well if I am quiet and worried looking- then she knows something is up.

Tonight went much better then last night.   So that is good.  :-)
That's really nice.   I think it's a good thing to make time for the elderly, even if they nag a little sometimes.    M

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/3/2011 10:53:17 PM   
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Because he wants what we got!!!

Wants but doesn't need!!!!+


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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 7:58:38 AM   
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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 8:46:25 AM   
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I see that and I'll raise you one

I've got a Royal Flush..Now get naked.





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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 10:56:03 AM   
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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 11:14:22 AM   
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Oh dear, hope you're not running a fever

Why? Will the sight in my weakened state send me to an early grave?+To Infinity and Beyond!


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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 2:02:49 PM   
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Nobody in my intimate relationships has the authority to look over my shoulder..If I said I'd do it I'll do it..In my time not hers.

If I decide not to do it then I don't...It's all up to me..Just the way I like it. A female pushing me to do things usually winds up not getting what she wants.




Ouch. I have to say, Icarys, you're beginning to sound like every hen-pecked man I've ever come across.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 2:08:52 PM   
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Ouch. I have to say, Icarys, you're beginning to sound like every hen-pecked man I've ever come across.

Oh yeah that's me..Hen-pecked lol


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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 2:50:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP, if you complain to her about the same thing day after day without doing anything to resolve your problems, then you're acting like a child. You're whining.

If you mentioned that you were having a problem with the plumbing and were going to call three plumbers Monday morning to get bids, she wouldn't keep asking you if you were dealing with it. If you start dealing with problems, instead of just bellyaching over and over, she wouldn't have anything to ask you about except which plumber you found most competent.


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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 4:34:42 PM   
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I am to the point where I dont want to tell her any of my serious problems- because then she wants to know "what are you going to do about it", which if I knew what to do about it-  I would resolve it.   ...and when we get to the point where she understands- the full brunt of the problem- she will then pray about it- and they next day- we go thru this all over again.   ....easier for me to be the strong silent type.



Sounds like you have your solution then.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 9:33:41 PM   
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I do NOT want to discuss it.  This has become a problem- ongoing. I do not want to discuss a problem for which there is no solution- NONE.

!!  more then one selection allowed.



The other shoe would be the unrelenting antagonistic asshole. So I would have to say that if someone accepts either... it must be their kink cuz I just will not put up with that kinda shit and do not expect a woman would either... unless it is her kink.


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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/4/2011 11:40:11 PM   
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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/5/2011 6:42:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't nag because he listens to me the first time.

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RE: Why do woman nag? - 2/5/2011 7:42:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Nobody in my intimate relationships has the authority to look over my shoulder..If I said I'd do it I'll do it..In my time not hers.

If I decide not to do it then I don't...It's all up to me..Just the way I like it. A female pushing me to do things usually winds up not getting what she wants.



I can appreciate this perspective, having come to the conclusion; being in an intimate relationship with someone does not mean it is my responsibility to try to make them act responsibly. It’s not possible.

This way, I only have to concern myself with the affects their choices have on me, and how I’m going to respond; so much simpler.

Hunk,

In consideration of your specific circumstances, two additional possibilities as to why, came to mind; she is showing concern for your wellbeing; it is a her way of feeling useful.

If it were me, before I visited with her I would stock up with lots of topics to discuss, to keep both our minds off my problems, and if she did happen to sense something is wrong, speak as nonspecific as possible. Then again, I might just tell her I'm tierd, or not feeling well and change the subject.

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