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Phoenixandnika -> RE: Links regarding protocols for public play, etc? (5/3/2006 12:48:45 PM)
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These are some of the basics that I use. Though each "party" or "dungeon" may have their own rules. The simplest way to fit in in a play party is to behave politely.
Phoenix's Nika
- Do not make assumptions. Negotiate all scenes. Do not assume that the presence of someone at this party means they are available. Do not involve yourself in a scene without an invitation.
- Never touch anyone, their equipment, or belongings without permission.
- Privacy and discretion are to be respected. All information about party activities, attendees, etc. is to be considered confidential. Do not bring cameras or other recording devices.
- Treat everyone with equal respect -- Doms, Subs, Switches, and Staff alike.
- Play sober!No drugs or alchohol before, during, or after a scene.
- Smoking will be at the discretion of the host.
- Please be prepared with something to cover your more daring clothing -- or lack thereof -- when you go outside the party space.
- No genital or anal penetration, oral sex or exchange of bodily fluids.
- Solicitation for sexual services is not allowed.
- Please agree on safe words for scenes. "Red" will be a default safe word.
- Respect scenes. Limit conversation and screaming in the play area. Don't crowd the playing areas.
- Respect the playspace. Clean up after messy scenes. Use a drop cloth when waxing. No scat or water sports without DMs approval.
- Limit play to the playspace. Do not engage in play outside the Dungeon Monitor's line of vision.
- Don't bring weapons (i.e. guns)
- Dungeon Monitors have the final word on everything including the right to stop an unsafe or abusive scene. Check with the DM before any fireplay (waxing, cupping, flash paper, etc.), piercing, or bloodsports.
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