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RE: Compatability is key... - 2/8/2011 7:11:50 PM

Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Yay! Another Knight in shining armor here to save all of the poor helpless women from themselves.
I gotta tell ya...men who write and believe all of this crap are the biggest red flags to me.
It says to me that the only women they can get are women that make poor choices.

I can't believe I wasted time on my lunch break to read another thread just like the poor newbie woman thread.

I love you Aileen. ;) OP really, stop generalizing.

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RE: Compatability is key... - 2/8/2011 7:16:34 PM

Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: Choosingtochoose

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

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ORIGINAL: Choosingtochoose

You're so private that you have your face on a BDSM website with the title "ass to mouth girl." I would say that's just a shade revealing. Further, doesn't the fact that you just effectively gave your BDSM resume sort of negate the whole concept of not getting on here to talk about how good your BDSM is?

What the fuck is your problem. I don't play publicly and that means that I can't have a face shot on here? I have no reason to hide who I am. I just don't play publicly because this is extremely sexual for us and we don't fuck in front of others.
The ass to mouth personalization is a long running joke here as are many of the regulars status.

Go save some poor weak woman, because you certainly can't handle anyone confident or who questions you.

Methinks the lady doth protest too much...

I would give you the confident bit if you weren't so needlessly worked up about all this. Good lord.

Did you really say "Methinks"? That's kind of funny...in a sad way. Dude really, if you knew Aileen ( I do ) or any of the rest of us, you would feel kind of silly. Really. Hush.

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RE: Compatability is key... - 2/8/2011 11:52:37 PM

porcelaine

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ORIGINAL: Choosingtochoose

A lot of people seem to forget that for a D/s relationship to work it's just like any other relationship. You have to be compatible. You have to find someone with whom you have similar interests - someone in whom you can trust and for whom you can have respect.

Greetings,

There are quite a few people that hold different viewpoints and don't associate D/s with personal relationships. Their purpose for engaging is representative of their specific tastes and doesn't always include compatibility. Furthermore, that can be interpreted in a myriad of ways and how each chooses to define "how they do this" is really theirs to make. Public service announcements typically have a noble purpose. But if someone is hellbent on heading down a particular road and oblivious to suggestions they do otherwise the outcome is unlikely to change. I really wish that we could simply accept that this is merely a cornucopia that is hand selected and individualized according to preference and sincerely respect other people's right to do such.

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Your formative experiences in D/s are going to really shape how you pursue all this so

Our formative experiences are merely that. If we choose to allow negativity to infest our mentality and foist it upon unsuspecting prospects we're only harming ourselves. As such, whatever your experience (be it good or bad), is reflected in your response and is a matter of choice. To assume that the blame can be hurled upon a ghostly entity from yesterday a million years later without taking into account the behavior that contributed to the debacle offers little benefit for the injured party. She'll merely place herself on an endless cycle of rinse and repeat.

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you're going to become one of those meek little doormats and miss out on a lot of what is really exciting and fullfilling about your journey...

Some dominants desire a woman with those attributes and there are women eagerly seeking to fill that role. For both parties it's mutually fulfilling. You propose a one-sided viewpoint based upon your personal beliefs, but fail to take into account that your truths will never be replicated to the masses. For some the doormat is to be avoided and others an unexplored abyss worth experiencing.

Namaste,

~porcelaine

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RE: Compatability is key... - 2/9/2011 4:15:31 AM

0ldhen

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Welcome to collarme.

To the OP; AWESOME 1st post. Welcome to cm.

To DS;want some milk with those cookies?

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RE: Compatability is key... - 2/9/2011 4:27:39 AM

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A Bulgarian woman killed her son, 29, in 2005 with a hoe. Now she's sent to jail, but they determined that she had terminal cancer. So as a humanitarian gesture she was freed from prison earlier this year.

You know what she did? She went home and stabbed her husband to death!

That's how she showed her appreciation for being released.

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