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Are more Dommes needed? - 3/25/2004 7:38:38 PM

roseofpromise

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Respected Posters,

Everywhere I go in BDSM sites , there seems to be a huge number of male subs looking for a Domme . Are there just more of them(male subs ) than Dommes for them?I always see plenty of Masters.

Should switches help these poor horney guys out? I feel for them.

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RE: Are more Dommes needed? - 3/25/2004 10:16:52 PM

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You nailed it inadverdantly. Most of theses guys aren't subs. They are horny guys trying to get laid. Probably the same goes for most of the "masters" you see too.

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RE: Are more Dommes needed? - 3/25/2004 10:27:23 PM

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Respected Posters,

Thank you Sir..I gathered that form the way the e mails come across and the trolls LOL
I appreciate your post Sir

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RE: Are more Dommes needed? - 3/27/2004 7:58:12 AM

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Horny guys will find the switches. Out of a hundred submissive males maybe one is "real". (Yeah, define "real", but you know what I mean.

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When you ask if switches should help out we enter another definition problem area. What is a "switch"?

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RE: Are more Dommes needed? - 3/27/2004 8:01:55 AM

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quote] Should switches help these poor horney guys out?
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Oh, as a horney (sp?) guy (any guy who says he is not is likely a liar

) I'll take whatever "help" is offered.

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RE: Are more Dommes needed? - 3/27/2004 10:32:37 AM

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Dear RoseoP-

It's actually my impression that male submissives aren't so thick on the ground as it seems. I think they are just more visible, more active, than most of the community. I know that in the local 'real world' scene, they seem to be rarest, once one has weeded out the 'horny guys tring to get laid' that Estring mentioned.

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RE: Are more Dommes needed? - 3/31/2004 11:03:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: Estring

You nailed it inadverdantly. Most of theses guys aren't subs. They are horny guys trying to get laid. Probably the same goes for most of the "masters" you see too.

BINGO!

And horny guys simply outnumber just about *every* demographic you could pull out, lol!

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RE: Are more Dommes needed? - 4/3/2004 12:01:42 PM

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You nailed it inadverdantly. Most of theses guys aren't subs. They are horny guys trying to get laid. Probably the same goes for most of the "masters" you see too

I have to agree with that statement and frankly I am sick of the mail I get saying Domme me.pffffffft or the ones stating I am a true sub and all they want is sex

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RE: Are more Dommes needed? - 4/3/2004 12:22:20 PM

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As a Matriarchy lifestyle believer, I do agree what I see is more horny males than submissives. It is very difficult to weed out those ego centric males. It gets even more difficult to discern the cuckold from the voyer. Being a cuckold is about absolute trust, love, and security. It's not about watching the domme have sex for masturbation interests.

So, are more Dommes needed? Absolutely. I would like to see an entire state be for a Matriarchy lifestyle--maybe on my next go-around..