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PeonForHer -> Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 3:40:45 PM)
Janices and Submales, Recently, a thread dealt with the subject of strap-ons and why femdoms like to use them. A few femdoms and subs felt that they were enjoyable to use simply for the sensations, but others hinted that their enjoyment was derived from a sense of power. I looked back at various discussions of the subject in the past and found that this was the most commonly cited reason why femdoms got a buzz out of using them. Now, this had me disappointed. Not because I, as a sub, shudder at a femdom getting such a sense of power by using a strap-on on me (far from it), but because of what it seemed to imply about how they felt about their vaginas. That is, that vaginas just can't be 'powerful' as dick-like-implements can be. (And yes, I realise that some people don't recognise strap-ons as essentially 'dick-like' - that any resemblance is merely coincidental; again, strap-ons are designed that way mainly to produce certain sensations. I'm guessing - perhaps wrongly - that the majority do see them as 'dick-like'.) The dick is active - it does something, it penetrates; the vagina is passive - it has something done to it, it gets penetrated. Am I wrong? Would femdoms argue, instead, that a vagina can be powerful, but just in a different way to a penis? Never mind the theory (of how we could feel, in a society that's unfettered by traditional gender roles), let's talk about how we actually feel, right now. Femdoms: Do you actually feel that your vagina is powerful , that it envelops/consumes (choose your active verb) a dick? Submales - have you been with a femdom who's made it very obvious by her stated feelings, and her actions, that she feels her vagina to be powerful? To both: have your feelings on this changed recently - if so, how and why?

SweetDommes -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 3:58:42 PM)
My vagina doesn't "eat" anything, but it's just as powerful as any other body part. I'm not sure I like any other of the words you've chosen either "envelop, consume" ... I think we've had the discussion before on here, but it's been awhile. I've kind of lost track of my thought processes on the topic (I hit my head today - that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it). Oh, and I certainly hope you did the little digi-dance as you were typign "janice"

PeonForHer -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:08:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes My vagina doesn't "eat" anything, but it's just as powerful as any other body part. I'm not sure I like any other of the words you've chosen either "envelop, consume" ... I think we've had the discussion before on here, but it's been awhile. I've kind of lost track of my thought processes on the topic (I hit my head today - that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it). Oh, and I certainly hope you did the little digi-dance as you were typign "janice" I did indeed do the digi-dance as I was typing that, SD. I always dance when I'm talking to femdoms on this forum. I know we've done this discussion before, but I wanted to do a 'stock-take' - I wanted to see if things had changed over the past few years. It isn't just me, it's the state of communications as they are these days: big attitudinal changes have accelerated so much during this 'internet age'. When I say that penises are seen to have 'power', don't forget just what's behind that, how deep it goes and how far back dicks have been associated that way . . . .

kalikshama -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:14:42 PM)
Roger Waters clearly feels that vaginas are powerful http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a86QgZVgbyQ

Lucylastic -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:24:40 PM)
Devours it, possessing it within me, belongs to me, controlled and denied. but eat? nah, I get the snapping pussy from cinderellla heebie jeebies

Tantriqu -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:29:16 PM)
Sir Richard Burton [of '1001 Nights' fame, not the actor], quoted/wrote in his translation of the Kama Sutra that the woman whose [cough] yoni could milk a man's lingam like a pump is a pearl beyond price. And if I happen to be dancing on a lingam when I have a multiple orgasm, you should then ask its sweating, groaning, arching owner if my yoni is powerless. A good man doesn't just come inside me. I come around him. Word.

leadership527 -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:30:09 PM)
OK, I'm not ANY of your target audiences, but in the big picture it never occurred to me to think of individual body parts as either powerful or not. I think of people as powerful.

PeonForHer -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:34:15 PM)
That reminded me of a dream I had when I was a kid: of a huge octopus that I knew would swallow me, but which was strangely attractive to me. Vaguely similar feelings from the old b/w film of King Kong; later still Captain Nemo and the giant squid; still later, Jaws and in particular, poor Rod Steiger getting eating alive. Heh. Subs and their 'strangely horny getting-eaten dreams'. A subject in itself. But I don't want to get too weird this early in the thread.

PeonForHer -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:36:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tantriqu A good man doesn't just come inside me. I come around him. Excellent! You see, that's the sort of comment I want to see on this thread, T. You know how to cheer me up!

PeonForHer -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:40:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 OK, I'm not ANY of your target audiences, but in the big picture it never occurred to me to think of individual body parts as either powerful or not. I think of people as powerful. I was speaking at least partially in a symbolic way, Leadership. Individual body parts aren't, of course, powerful on their own.

hausboy -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:41:43 PM)
PFH: here's another side to it. I am an avid fister--I absolutely love fisting and have fisted women for many, many years now, including a number of women who were/are Dommes. Until you have felt the crushing power of a woman's muscles inside--orgasms so powerful that a few times, it almost broke bones in my wrist and hand--you can't imagine the power. Once hard enough that I cried out in pain because she had clamped down so tightly around my wrist that I thought my bones were going to snap in half--yes. Vaginas can be very, very powerful. It's a beautiful thing. I still use a strap-on if that's what she wants, but I always prefer to use my hands, because it lets me feel her power, no question about it. edited for grammar

Tantriqu -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:42:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: Tantriqu A good man doesn't just come inside me. I come around him. Excellent! You see, that's the sort of comment I want to see on this thread, T. You know how to cheer me up! Awwww, patpat, thanks. Now dance for us! In honour of Burton, I can hear the Arabic abs-dancing music and see the six-pack ripplage from here... na na nahh nahh nahh, na na nah NA na NA nahhh... Is that a jewel in your belly-button, or are you just glad to see us Dommes?

PeonForHer -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 4:43:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic Devours it, possessing it within me, belongs to me, controlled and denied. but eat? nah, I get the snapping pussy from cinderellla heebie jeebies 'Possessing it within me' will do nicely, Lucy. If the 'devouring' idea doesn't work, no need to do anything but ditch it. [:)]

leadership527 -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 5:16:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I was speaking at least partially in a symbolic way, Leadership. Individual body parts aren't, of course, powerful on their own. ~laughs~ Yeah yeah, I've been known to be overly literal, but not this time. I got that. But it seems obvious to me that a powerful woman would have a powerful pussy. I would assume that the mindset of dominance would transform the act and associated body parts just as it does everything else.

BitaTruble -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 5:28:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I was speaking at least partially in a symbolic way, Leadership. Individual body parts aren't, of course, powerful on their own. I agree but when Himself casts The Look my way, it does tend to make me want to fall to my knees (despite the fact they are shot!) [:D]

PeonForHer -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 5:31:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 I would assume that the mindset of dominance would transform the act and associated body parts just as it does everything else. The thing is, I've got the impression from a few femdoms that though they're powerful, and feel it, they don't feel that about their vaginas. That's something I find difficult to get my head around. I was quite taken aback a while ago by a femdom friend who said, quite in passing, that she 'didn't do penetrative sex' because she couldn't relate it to her dominant feelings. (I think that was roughly how she put it.)

PeonForHer -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 5:34:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hausboy PFH: here's another side to it. I am an avid fister--I absolutely love fisting and have fisted women for many, many years now, including a number of women who were/are Dommes. Until you have felt the crushing power of a woman's muscles inside--orgasms so powerful that a few times, it almost broke bones in my wrist and hand--you can't imagine the power. Once hard enough that I cried out in pain because she had clamped down so tightly around my wrist that I thought my bones were going to snap in half--yes. Vaginas can be very, very powerful. It's a beautiful thing. I still use a strap-on if that's what she wants, but I always prefer to use my hands, because it lets me feel her power, no question about it. edited for grammar That's something that's frankly beyond my experience, Hausboy. I'll just wait to experience that wonder in real life. Sounds frigging great, though.

Lucylastic -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 5:43:36 PM)
Wrist bruises are a badge of honour:)

leadership527 -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 6:15:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer That's something I find difficult to get my head around. I was quite taken aback a while ago by a femdom friend who said, quite in passing, that she 'didn't do penetrative sex' because she couldn't relate it to her dominant feelings. (I think that was roughly how she put it.) OK.. now THAT explains your question better and I'm as baffled as you. Gosh, now I suddenly want to get Carol a strap-on and experiment with both dominant and submissive head spaces being on the receiving end. Just based upon past experience I'd think that both would work and fit just fine at least within me. Although, as I ponder it, I can see how the receptive role would perhaps facilitate if not totally mandate the submissive one.

Reform -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/19/2011 6:15:50 PM)
This is one of those times I love objectification. If he's got no control over what's happening, and I'm the one fucking him (with my vagina), then how does he have any power? He is a rod, an instrument, a device that I'm using for my pleasure. I cum on him, leave him messy and wanting. That's power, not simply having a protruding body part.

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