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Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/20/2011 2:20:19 PM

TheOneHeDesires

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I have been here off and on for years, and many of you know me in real life..I dont take this lightly. I have been seeing more and more so called doms coming onto the site and there is one I know of who has ruined his wife and children's lives by lying and "spreading" himself around and he thinks the whole thing is funny and he doesnt seem to care who he "gives" of himself to if you are understanding what Im saying , so women, please, please be aware of who you are trusting and play safe..there are those out there who dont give a crap about spreading diseases then hurting you. By the way, this female who's life this particular "dom" has ruined is not me..but I know her in real life, something he didn't count on.

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RE: Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/20/2011 4:45:29 PM

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Why didn't she ensure her own safety, instead of relying on him?

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RE: Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/26/2011 6:40:50 AM

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because she was married to him, having his children and had no idea he was cheating on her..enough said.

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RE: Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/26/2011 9:07:25 AM

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She married the guy and had children by him, and only found out when he brought home a disease? And a so-called Dom who should have a heightened sense of responsibility, thinks that cheating and spreading disease is a big joke?

Sad all around. But rather odd.

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RE: Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/26/2011 9:17:39 AM

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I would imagine that everyone of adult consenting age would already know that trust is important.

I would also imagine that you can never know what might happen in a relationship, even when you trust someone.

So if the point of this thread was a warning or rant, I am not sure.

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RE: Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/26/2011 11:53:38 AM

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She married the guy and had children by him, and only found out when he brought home a disease? And a so-called Dom who should have a heightened sense of responsibility, thinks that cheating and spreading disease is a big joke?

Sad all around. But rather odd.

Most women "know" but prefer not to know ... until embarrassed into having to admit the truth.

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RE: Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/26/2011 1:42:48 PM

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So do you feel it is better if we trust no one at all?

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RE: Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/27/2011 1:07:22 PM

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Irresponsible idiots are always around, it doesn't really matter what section of the population you look in- Doms aren't special. Isn't it kind of a given that asshattery is around everywhere? When I consider someone to be with I have to take care of myself in the end. Sorry this happened to your friend but it doesn't seem fair to make one jerkoff's act of awfulness into something that stands for a group of people. It's kind of like saying "Kids these days are so rude." Some are, some aren't.

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RE: Knowing the person you are trusting - 2/28/2011 3:10:28 PM

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If I think I know what you are talking about giving, then yes, I know all too well. I received it in my longest monogamous relationship. I had no clue, we had a fantastic sex life. It is very sad when someone is like that to other people. Even though I may be rejected, I tell people upfront. I don't care what they call me or say about me or the look they may give. I'd rather that than not tell someone just so I can be selfish.

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