Termyn8or -> RE: BP Oil Spill, What the Experts Have Concluded (2/26/2011 12:35:22 AM)
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"Are you willing to expand on this theme Termyn8or? " Simple - define addiction. Do it without specifying the type of addiction. What do these people have in common. The object of their addiction takes on an abnormal importance, the object is prioritized. I have known quite a few addicts. Two sex addicts. One has reformed, but he went so far as to violate the sanctity of marriage and bring home an STD that most likely caused his Woman to have two ecoptic pregnancies, and they will be her last. He permanently damaged her, even though I am convinced that he loves her and did at the time. The other sex addict has not reformed, and is quite motivated. Motivated to the point of legal battles. He was impelled to become a non taxpayer to have more money for sex, and it's companion, porn. One crack addict never reformed. He has blown his inheritance, and will be homeless as well soon. Another has reformed. That one told me that when he saw money he actually saw crack. Like the reformed ex addict, he can enjoy it from time to time while keeping it in it's proper perspective. Money addicts are the most hopeless. Those with other objects of addiction generally steal, lie and cheat to feed the addiction. But the addiction to money goes untreated and as far as I can see, undiagnosed. When money is the object, what would be the treatment ? Others will blow all the money and face the consequences, which teach them. The only way to beat any addiction is to mature out of it. A money addict in pursuit of his object is not likely to face many severe consequences. Some objects of addiction are necessities. You can tell an alcoholic never to drink, a coke addict to never do coke, but how do you tell a food addict not to eat, or a money addict to become less wealthy ? You either have an addictive personality or not. But then that is not absolute. While it doesn't exist now, there should be an addictability quotient, somewhat like an IQ. And different objects of addiction have different rates of allure for the addictable. I consider myself not to be addictable. I like the occasional snort, burn one and I like beer alot. OK fine, but that doesn't mean I am addicted to anything. If I stole and cheated to get these "objects" that would be evidence, but I do not and never have. But that allure. That is one of my few fears. As I may have mentioned, I do not fear death, not in the least. If someone put a gun to my head I would say " You gonna use that thing or is this fucking show and tell ? ". But I do fear ever trying heroin for example. From what I've heard, the allure is so great that even the strongest personality might not be able to withstand it. Even the lying and stealing is not the acid test. I have always had decent earning power, so I was able to satisfy my desires "legally ?". That means alcohol, pot, cocaine, pharmacuetical PCP, LSD and mescaline. I have the money for such things right now. All the bills are paid right now. It would be no sweat really. But I do not seek these things. They are in the past, when I was younger. I have matured out of it. The legal costs ? I didn't care one iota. I used to get two DUIs at a time. I've jettisoned very valuable "packages" before an impending traffic stop, and almost got pissed off when they didn't search me and the car. The lawyers loved me, I always paid up. To think of the things I could've gotten busted for sends chills up my spine. Now that I am settled I could easily do these things covertly with very little chance of getting caught. But I don't because, and only because I do not want to. No other reason. I don't fear the consequences imposed by society, I fear the detrimental effects for myself. Some of my old friends have not had it so good. I've seen what addiction can do to people. They get stupid, and ruthless. Sound familiar ? Notice actions by our "leaders" in big business and government ? What do these actions indicate ? They are immature and want more toys, or whatever their personal object of addiction may be. When you grow and learn, it is very difficult to addict you to anything. Take the King object in common knowledge - heroin. It's an opiate right ? So is morphine. So in the hospital my buddy is an bad shape and literally is hooked up to a "morphinomatic". Push the button and get a dose. When he got out of the hospital he never once sought to buy morphine on the street, or even persue keeping the supply coming legally. Why ? It's not one of the "objects". Is he unaddictable ? I doubt it. What's more this was my partying buddy and one of the biggest drug dealers in town. That is all the past now. What happened between then and now ? Maturity. T^T
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