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barbellnz -> Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (2/27/2011 2:02:10 PM)

I am a 63 year old submissive male, who is slightly reserved (appropriate for a submissive) seeking a dominant female who wants to take whatever pleasure she wants from my body.  There is no need to tell me what you are going to do beforehand as long as on my list and not a hard limit (there are only a few of these).  Whilst I am looking for dominnat females in my country, I am willing to c2c with females from other countries, although there number of activities will be restricted in the cyberworld.



DarkSteven -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (2/27/2011 2:24:10 PM)

Welcome to collarme.

I'm curious - you mention here, once in your profile, and once in your journal that your body will be hers to do with what she wants.  What about your mind and spirit?

She's gonna want more than just playing with you.  She may want chores done, and will definitely want conversation, eating out, etc.  Wimmins are like that.



smartsub10 -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (2/27/2011 2:25:20 PM)

What do you have to offer a dominant woman?

Welcome to CM



BurntKitty -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (2/27/2011 2:27:24 PM)

Welcome to CM. Take DarkSteven's advice. He knows wimmins.

:nods:



OohAahMrs -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (2/28/2011 5:16:43 AM)

Hmmm barb mate, they might want more than your body!



peppermint -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (2/28/2011 3:17:08 PM)

Contrary to what many believe, a submissive male does not say "here I am, use me" and then have dozens of horny female Dominants jump at the chance. The female Dommes get a dozen offers just like that every day.  You will have to actually put effort into the search for a Domme.  You might have to attend munches and events to meet Dommes.  You might even have to write a Domme a nice introductory note here on Collarme.  You also need to offer more than the use of your body as a 63 year old submissive male who has extra flesh on him is not highly sought after. 

However, if you clean up your profile and actually work at your search, you just might find what you desire.  You just need to wow them with your great personality. 



Delilya -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (2/28/2011 5:50:36 PM)

Best of luck



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (3/1/2011 3:51:05 AM)

Welcome to CM and the boards.  The advice you were given by Steven and Peppermint should definitely be taken into account.  A Dominant woman wants to be treated as a human being, not an automaton who does what you want just because you want it.  Ain't the way it works.  



ashjor911 -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (3/1/2011 7:22:47 AM)

Welcome To CM
Enjoy the Party



barbellnz -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (3/1/2011 12:54:48 PM)

If you actually read my profile you would realise that I am not treating a woman as an automaton to do what I want.  I am definitely not trying to top from the bottom, and tell a woman what she has to do to me.  My purpose is to be available to pleasure her, and treat her in a loving way as a human being.



DarkSteven -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (3/1/2011 1:11:21 PM)

Fella, we DID read your profile, and four or five of us have made the exact same comments on it. You might wanna see if there's any sense to the comments before you dismiss them.



myotherself -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (3/1/2011 1:28:23 PM)

I'm going to agree with Stevie here - OP, your profile is all about what YOU want. How a Domme can use your body...which is really satisfying YOUR kink.

But outside of the bedroom/play room, what do you have to offer? Do you cook, do you like going to the cinema, do you enjoy walking in the countryside?

Relationships - even kinky ones - tend to have a hefty dollop of 'life' in the middle of them. If you want to be someone's slave long term, then what you're offering at the moment is unlikely to cut it. Dommes looking for relationships tend to want a man with a kink, not a kink with a man...




peppermint -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (3/1/2011 4:14:06 PM)

I wrote a reply and then deleted it.  READ YOUR OWN PROFILE.  That is all I can say. 



poise -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (3/1/2011 4:15:31 PM)

Nice shorts Barb! Welcome to Collarme.



stellauk -> RE: Mature Male submissive sub available to female(s) (3/1/2011 11:02:59 PM)

Welcome.

Okay, so webcam, short paragraph for a profile about what you want, and a body.

So assuming we have here 746,507 male submissives on this website your OP informs us that there is now 746,508 male submissives on this website.

And? Is the rest some sort of secret or something?

Every single person here, let alone a male submissive, has a body, a computer, many have a webcam, and I'm sure quite a few have funky blue shorts as well.

You've missed out the two most important things that you need to find anybody here - a mind and a personality.

Would you care to share with us, and everyone else on this website, your mind and your personality? I honestly believe it would make such a big difference.

But I wish you the best of luck anyway.



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