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When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 3:45:48 AM

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He had to leave this morning for 11 days on family business. He didn’t want to go, but there wasn’t any choice in it. We have been inseparable for the last two months. The only times we are apart is if he runs some errands and I stay home to do housework or something here. I’m going to miss him like crazy! I already miss him!!

I have lots to do to keep me busy. He gave me a list of task. The most important being to study for my GED. I am going back to college in the fall and have to get the GED done first. OMG do I hate math!!!

I have lots of household chores, business calls to make, some research to do on various topics, and stick to my diet and exercise routine. That last one worries me, because he has been my rock for the last month as I have begun exercising and changing my eating habits from garbage to healthy. I really want to make him proud of me and prove that I won’t falter in anything I have to do, and when he comes home, he will see that I have been a very good girl.

Ohhhhhhh I am going to miss him so much!!

Give me some words of wisdom please. Tell me these 11 days will fly by and that when were together again it will be great. I assume the sex will be. LOL.

Thanks for reading. I just needed to tell someone what I’m feeling as I sit in our computer room all alone looking over at his dark and empty space.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 3:53:43 AM

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hi Pita, sorry to hear your Master will be away, can only imagine how hard it will be. Well it probably wont fly by...but..with all the things you've got to do the main thing is to concentrate on your tasks and not let your mind wander too much...which you know already....I'm feeling for you~

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 4:23:19 AM

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hi Pita, sorry to hear your Master will be away, can only imagine how hard it will be. Well it probably wont fly by...but..with all the things you've got to do the main thing is to concentrate on your tasks and not let your mind wander too much...which you know already....I'm feeling for you~

Thank you Jali. My teenager just gave me the big, "Oh my God! Are you really going to cry!" I told her maybe I will.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 6:03:03 AM

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Just know that you will survive, as many have before. It will suck, and you will be prouder of yourself when it's over for having gone through it and being back together.

Trust me, all the slaves who are reading this right now who are in perpetual long distance relationships and maybe get to see their dom every month or so are inwardly pissed at you for not being grateful for all the time you get and "It's only 11 days."

Perspective can help a lot.

Do a search for "long distance relationships" and you'll have tons of pieces of good advice. But mostly, just keep busy and use the time wisely.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 6:27:38 AM

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I've found that time really only seems to fly when you're looking back at what's just passed. But the sex will be amazing once he's back, oh yes!

It sounds as if you'll be plenty busy while he's gone, which will help too. I have a few more months before I get to see Sir and the only thing keeping me sane right now, when I think about all of that time stretched out in front of me, is all of the work that needs to be done. Sir has been working on my diet and exercise too, so at least I can think about looking stunning once he's there and I'm there and no more distance, yay!

Just watch out for the still, quiet times, especially at night. If you need an ear when those times strike, you can email me on the other side. I keep odd hours and am happy to listen.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 6:32:28 AM

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hi there hun

It is such a shame that your master has gone away for a while. It is hard for us to diet as there is so many nice foods that we like in the world today. it is very hard for us to diet so a word of advice. Put up pictures of your master on fridge cupboards etc so when you go to get some food that you are not meant to have look and think master will disagree and think of a punishment that you do not like.

I have made an arragement with my master like not to bite my fingernails if i do I face the cane and my master knows I do not like that one bit.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 6:46:31 AM

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Just know that you will survive, as many have before. It will suck, and you will be prouder of yourself when it's over for having gone through it and being back together.

Trust me, all the slaves who are reading this right now who are in perpetual long distance relationships and maybe get to see their dom every month or so are inwardly pissed at you for not being grateful for all the time you get and "It's only 11 days."

Perspective can help a lot.

Do a search for "long distance relationships" and you'll have tons of pieces of good advice. But mostly, just keep busy and use the time wisely.

Yes LA, I will be grateful! Should I make that my mantra for the next 11 days?

I did the long distance so I know very well how lucky I am to now have my most wonderful Sir in my life on a daily basis. And we do have the cell phones so it's not like I have to go without talking to him.

Thanks Halcyone, I am dreading the nights the most. We have established out little routines and we always go to bed together where I sleep curled up in his arms. He did tell me not to get used to having the bed all to myself. LOL

Gloriousangel, I hear you about the cane. OUCH!! I will be good on my diet. I will have to go weigh in the day after he gets home and I certainly don't plan to have that go badly for me.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 7:25:25 AM

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Yes it does hurt so i have grown my nails its a start

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 7:25:38 AM

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Pita i know its hard what i do is talk to him on a daily basis and i just keep reminding myself how much he loves me and that gets me through the days.

I hear you about math i am in college and taking algebra 1 I hate math also.

Matt's littleone

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 7:50:08 AM

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I have heard "that when the Master is away...the slaves will play"

with themselves

Kevin

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 8:59:00 AM

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I hear you about math i am in college and taking algebra 1 I hate math also.

Matt's littleone

Ugg! I took all the pretest for my GED and aced everything but that math. That I got a big fat F+.

It wasn't my best subject all those years ago while I was in school and really we have calculators now so WHY must I know how to do this crap. *rolleyes dramactically since my Joe isn't here to see me*

BTY he just called me. *smile* He was in the Blue Ridge mountains and told me that he has to take me there to see all the beauty. I smell a vacation coming on!!

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 10:21:43 AM

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nenner nenner to both of you I just finished Algebra 1 yay! no more math. Keep your chin up hun, he will be home before you know it. I see my Sir once every other weekend but lately every weekend

. So I know all to well on the feeling you feel right now, I just know you are a strong lady and will make him very proud.

lil tess

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 10:35:05 AM

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You sound like you know everything you need to do already...since my Awakening to the lifestyle, I've lost 30 lbs (and it feels great to be a size 6!)...But my focus has been my Master...by body is not my body for me, it is my body for him...so everythihng I do to it (my body), put into it, my first thought is of him and whether what I am doing will create/maintain the best body I can for him....and the s*x has gotten expontentially better...I am finally light enough for him to carry me around, which has only inspired his creativity....

Eleven days does seem/feel like an enternity when you share such a wonderful connection with someone...my Master is sending me on a crusie to the Bahamas next week and I miss him already...they say 'abscence makes the heart grow fonder', or in my case, makes me want to submit to my Master all the more....

Good Luck with your GED, remember if other people can do the math, you can do it too!

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 10:44:06 AM

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Oh I totally agree with TigerLily, if I can do the math you can to with no problem, I was seriously math challenged

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Have a great cruise TigerLily.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/5/2006 12:29:28 PM

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I have heard "that when the Master is away...the slaves will play"

with themselves Kevin

Sure, but only with permission first.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/7/2006 3:49:31 AM

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Shortly after my Dom and I accepted one another, he had to go half-way around the world on business for 3 weeks. It was torture. Each day got better. I missed him more, but the time he was away was growing shorter. It will go by quicker than you can imagine right now - soon he will be back. (and he will have missed you so!)

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/7/2006 5:19:40 AM

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Thanks babysburnin

I was able to sleep last night thankfully. I am trying to keep myself busy with my task and not just sit and mope.

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/7/2006 8:17:50 AM

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'Morning pita....use this time for focus and reflection. I know that is what i do. Yeah, it's rough when they are away, but the more you can focus on the tasks He left you, the more time passes.
The one thing that Thorns always tells me when He leaves is: "Make sure My house is in order when i return, girl". There are so many things that fall under this statement, i would not dare let Him down. Keep your focus, enjoy the time you have, and rejoice His return.

Happy Sunday!

~smilezz~

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/7/2006 9:25:41 PM

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Dear Pita...embrace missing him!..For that will make the return all that much sweeter...be well...tempting

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RE: When the Master is away - 5/7/2006 9:54:47 PM

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Pita I know the dirty laundry isn't the most hygenic thing, but did he leave you a shirt that has his scent on it? My alpha would leave me shirts with his scent or even his pillow if he would be out of town for long periods.His shirts always helped me to feel his arms around me when I slept.

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