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ashjor911 -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 10:46:52 AM)
again thanks for the Damn long profile, & yes you lost me on the line of (Basic requirements) if that is basic what will be the next dgree of requirements & the thierd dgree of requirements.... & so on... just reading that line It feels like the army or the CIA agent requirements Must be this Must be that.... really its boring. again hey that is only my opnion... & the two statements that you left in the quote would tend to contradict each other simpley becase they are attached to a paragarph. your own profile simply shows an example of the damn long profiles again hey that is only my opnion... M

BonesFromAsh -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 10:51:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ashjor911 again hey that is only my opnion... M And perhaps a helping of sour grapes and spilt milk on the side? [8\|]

SweetDommes -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 10:54:03 AM)
My question is - why, exactly, are you reading profiles of Female Dominants, when you are listed as a Male Dominant? Why the heck do you even care about our profiles? And again, as long as you don't message me, I won't bitch that you didn't read my full profile. I don't care if people who don't message me don't read it - why should I? If you mesage me, after just admitting that it "bored" you ... I'll probably be a bit irritated. If it 'bores' you then we aren't compatable. Of course, I already knew that, because your location isn't inside the US - so I wouldnt' even need to read YOUR profile to know that we aren't interested. As for the list of requirements - those things are all things that are important to us. Reading those would give you an idea of our personalities, our likes and dislikes - which you stated you should be able to get from a profile. It lets you know that we do not condone cheating, although we are poly. It lets you know that we are animal lovers and have animals that range in size from small rodents and birds, to large dogs. It lets you know that we enjoy living out in the middle of farmland, although we aren't too far from a large city. Everything in that "boring" list is there for a reason.

ElanSubdued -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 10:54:05 AM)
ashjor911, You and Nick need to go on a date. Seriously. The two of you would get along famously. We'd all owe you a great debt of gratitude if you kept each other busy. Who? Me? Snarky this morning? Nah! :-) E.

ashjor911 -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 11:14:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh after a quick glace at your profile, I would have to say the impression given is one of short, quick anger and an attitude that leads me to believe you have more than a few issues with both women and CollarMe. I always find it interesting to see how people change over time, in regards to their profile and journal entries, here on CM. what you believe is yours but thank you for proving my point in as my profile was short you did a quick glace.... & you did not read it all PS: people DONT change ................... house MD they adapt to new inviroments .......ash.jor by saying:(Some of the users in this network english is not their mother tounge dont make the lerning process much harder by posting a long damn profile) tell me how to enable spell check in READING a damn long Sunday Times In my case as you may seen that i have posted my profile in English with no help of the (spell check) thank you M

ashjor911 -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 11:28:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes My question is - why, exactly, are you reading profiles of Female Dominants, when you are listed as a Male Dominant? Why the heck do you even care about our profiles? there is alot of people (dom/domme) like you & your partner.... let me answer your question with another question Have you never know a pair of people who are both Dominants? your saying that me as a Male Dominant I should not care about others..... quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes It lets you know that we do not condone cheating, although we are poly. It lets you know that we are animal lovers and have animals that range in size from small rodents and birds, to large dogs. It lets you know that we enjoy living out in the middle of farmland, although we aren't too far from a large city If you put it that way in your profile it would not be boring after all & I would have completed reading it why some people find this auther boring & other dont just because the way he/she wrote. nothing personal M

SweetDommes -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 11:33:00 AM)
You still didn't answer my question of why you care what Female Dominants have in their profile ... why are you even looking at them? never mind, you edited it in Although, you didnt pay attention to ANY of our profile, obviously. We aren't a Dom/Domme couple. We're a Domme/Domme couple. And that is at the beginning, well before you should have gotten "bored" - hell, you don't even have to read the profile, just flip through the pictures and it's obvious that we are two females [sm=rolleyes.gif][sm=ofcourse.gif] As for why I put it in a list vs how it's in the post I just made? Ease of reading with the number of things that I put in the profile. If you actually read the profile - just because it's in a list format doesn't mean that it's not worded in an interesting manner. You just automatically dismiss it as "boring" because it's in a list. Rather than trying to do 50 little paragraphs, or one huge paragraph that would be difficult to read - I chose to make a list of the most important things that we are looking for. Obviously YOU are not what we are looking for, so I don't see why you are making such a point about how boring our profile is. You don't like it, chalk it up as "not what I'm looking for" and move on.

ashjor911 -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 11:43:42 AM)
I do care about Female Dominants I dont care about your own profile I just looked at your to prove a point & yes i did prove my point let me say that 75 % or more of the Females including you in this site have a very long profile M

SweetDommes -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 11:55:15 AM)
But why is that a problem? Again, if it's "too long" for you, then obviously you aren't compatable with that person, move along. I've had more than one guy who has not only read the entire profile, but has gone through most of my journal entries - obviously they dont' think it's a problem that it's long. I don't understand why you are making such a big deal of long profiles. No, you aren't the only one who thinks that they are "boring" but there are plenty out there who appreciate the effort that I (and others) have put into long profiles to make them detailed, specific, and actually informative.

ElanSubdued -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 12:17:52 PM)
ashjor911, quote: I do care about Female Dominants I dont care about your own profile I just looked at your to prove a point & yes i did prove my point let me say that 75 % or more of the Females including you in this site have a very long profile Not an entirely charming response to SweetDommes, but I understand your point. I'll add something rather important though. It seems 75% of the profiles you have looked at were, to use your description, "very long". Many profiles do not have a lot of content and some that are long, none-the-less, tell me nothing about the person. A reasonable amount of quantity along with high quality (yes, I realize "quality" in my eyes which may be different for others) are what I look for. Elan.

poise -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 12:20:43 PM)
Perhaps the following examples would suit your preferences better? [:-] Profile Example 1: Hello and welcome to my profile. I am a dominant female. Message me if you like dominant females. Responder: Like them? I LOVE them! Do you have a blue collar I can wear? I love blue almost as much as I love dominant females. Profile Example: 2 Hello, and welcome to my profile. I am a female dominant, and I absolutely love pink lemonade. Message me if you think you have what it takes! Responder: OMG! I love pink lemonade too! Wow! When can you punish me? A well written profile, regardless of whether its 3 paragraphs or 10 paragraphs long, is one of the best advertisements of self on a site such as this. I would rather someone walk away bored without emailing me then to think there is any potential for compatibility between us. Imagine all the time you would invest in exploring the many layers involved in building a solid relationship, only to realize at the end that it was nothing more than a maybe to start with.

ElanSubdued -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 12:23:05 PM)
SweetDommes, quote: SweetDommes to ashjor911: No, you aren't the only one who thinks that they are "boring" but there are plenty out there who appreciate the effort that I (and others) have put into long profiles to make them detailed, specific, and actually informative. I'm one of the people who greatly appreciates your effort and the effort of others who strive to write full-size, detail-oriented, informative introductions. Pleasure to read and to respond to. Thank you. E.

SthrnCom4t -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 12:26:36 PM)
I bet our definitions of 'very long' are worlds apart for more than one reason, but just from the slinky entertainment curiosity perspective....what's your definition? Also, just wondering.... Have you heard the cliche, "Those who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones" ? quote: ORIGINAL: ashjor911 let me say that 75 % or more of the Females including you in this site have a very long profile M

ashjor911 -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 12:27:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes But why is that a problem? Again, if it's "too long" for you, then obviously you aren't compatable with that person, move along. look its not about you, its about the OP & what she was whine about is the Lack of males subs, but this is about you, you dont need to tell me what i have already know & what i alredy did I did not message you or contacted you there are to many couple in this site are Dom Male married to a Domme Female again by you saying (detailed, specific, and actually informative) you proved once more that i am right I am not making a big deal of it the OP & you did & actually forcing an answer to your question.... If I want to answer you i would....insted i left you with no answer to let you wonder why i did not answer the first time you said (You still didn't answer my question) actually forcing an answer M

ashjor911 -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 12:35:19 PM)
oh my you have no idea bout my own preferences just explaning to OP what i do think nothing more put i do think that the Examples you put are what you really like (every body see others in his eyes) just looking at your post here & the way you did put your Examples is boring M

ElanSubdued -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 12:45:49 PM)
ashjor911, I'm well aware you're ignoring my replies. That's fine. To add perspective to this side-topic, I emphasize your sig-line: "Quality is never an accident; it is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction, and skillful execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives." ~William A. Foster For me, in reflection, the length of a profile isn't so much what grabs me as what someone chooses to communicate with their profile. This can be done with few words or with many, and either approach can be very effective. Separate issue. Coming on here and labeling the majority of domme profiles "long and boring" is likely not to be well received. I'm reasonably certain, given the thinking capabilities you've displayed, that you're aware of this. Seems like you're behaving boorishly simply for shock value. Wouldn't be the first time that's happened on here and it won't be the last. Elan.

ashjor911 -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 1:09:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued ashjor911, I'm well aware you're ignoring my replies. That's fine. To add perspective to this side-topic, I emphasize your sig-line: Separate issue. Coming on here and labeling the majority of domme profiles "long and boring" is likely not to be well received. I'm reasonably certain, given the thinking capabilities you've displayed, that you're aware of this. Seems like you're behaving boorishly simply for shock value. Wouldn't be the first time that's happened on here and it won't be the last. Elan. I am not ignoring your replyes I never said ( the majority of domme profiles "long and boring" ) I said (75 % or more of the Females including you in this site have a very long profile) when you said that I & Nick should go on a date I simply did not resopnd i did not know who is Nick you are talking bout let me add another reason to the OP some Of the FEMALES profiles in this siet are hurtfull to just look at the color of the font I found one which did write every damn single leater in a color so the word would be a rainbow please tell me that is not boring... M

isoLadyOwner -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 1:11:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven I've often wondered the same thing. If you discount the Dommes that are in it for the pay only, and the males that are do-me types, what would be the resultant ratio of lifestyle Dommes and lifestyle male subs? Its probably about the same for lifestyle Dommes and lifestyle male slaves, both are insanely rare. Lifestyle male subs are probably a bit more common than lifestyle male slaves though. I can only speak for myself but there are so many obviously fake ads on CM I just don't bother with the dating side now. I don't consider an ad fake if I were to be ignored or rejected. On the other hand its not statistically possible for ten "lifestyle Dommes" in my area to all log in within 10 minutes of each other every time I log in CM no matter the hour. If I know the woman pictured in a profile, know she lives in Florida not New Jersey, email her off CM, and she tells me her picture was stolen I tend to believe her. Especially when she tells me she's getting the ad pulled and its offline shortly thereafter. Unfortunately at this point I assume every profile is fake from the get go and won't bother to write unless certain criteria are met. Professional Dominas who say they are professionals and are located where they advertise their services are the only profiles that get the benefit of the doubt. I'm certain I've overlooked genuine lifestyle Dommes because of my cynicism but false hope and disppointment are not good kinds of pain. Well thought out non cut and paste individual introductions take hours to write. I'll always look for red flags prior to writing but every once in awhile miss them. Spending time to write then finding that the person I've just written has lots of similar ads all over the country and claims to be a different height, a different age, have different likes and dislikes yet is using slightly paraphrased text and stolen photos is a huge factor in not bothering on the CM dating side anymore.

SweetDommes -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 1:38:53 PM)
So ... does anyone else have the lyrics for "Flagpole Sitta" running through their heads right now? "Well if you're bored, then you're boring. The agony and the irony; they're killing me, WHOO!" And Elan - thank you [;)] ETA: This is a fast reply, not intended towards anyone - except for the bit for Elan lol

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Lack of male slaves (3/5/2011 2:12:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: isoLadyOwner Well thought out non cut and paste individual introductions take hours to write. If they do then you're doing it wrong. Ten minutes, fifteen tops if you're a slow typist.

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