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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 4/24/2011 5:58:46 AM   
JstAnotherSub


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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Twenty excruciating years. Then I got a divorce.


OP: women don't have a "biological imperative" to orgasm. We're not like men. We can take it or leave it, according to our will. Orgasm denial and deprivation isn't going to work the same for us as it will for men, because of this difference. Its likely to frustate us in the beginning, but it won't be physically painful. The likely result with a woman is that she's going to lose interest in sex, in sex with you- or just in you.


HA! I have a friend who was married for 20 years. She said they were an S&M relationship. He slept, she masturbated.

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 4/27/2011 3:00:15 AM   
dicklet2


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Status: offline 		Hi i find that after a couple of weeks denial there is a loss of urgency and need, and i could go longer and not miss cuming, so for me teased daily for a week and a few days would be more testing than prolonging it beyond this.



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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 4/27/2011 5:04:01 AM   
Palliata


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Status: offline 		Until it quits being funny. The longest I've left someone is 3 months with lengthy stimulation at least once a day. She was a wreck by the end of it. Quite entertaining.


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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 4/28/2011 2:23:39 PM   
Slaveit1


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Status: offline 		This slave is now in day 154 of orgasm deprivation. slave's Dommie has said slave might be allowed relief next month (MAY 2011). slave has had no pain but has real trouble holding back from Masturbating.There is a problem with leaks but that is not too bad. slave wears a slave tag on slave's genitals and removing that for a shower and replacing it can cause an erection. Other then that will power is all that is needed and being owned and property of a Dominate and pleasing Miss Brenda is all that matters and is what a real slave is willing to do to please. If you are a real slave/sub then you know your life is now to bring pleasure to your Dominate no matter what........slave

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/2/2011 6:21:28 AM   
thedavezone


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Status: offline 		I'm a guy, and due to an unfortunate surgery, I have the unforseen side effect of rarely getting blue balls, so personally I love deprivation coupled with constant arousal for as long as possible - although it does make sleeping difficult sometimes.  Usually, I'm on the OTHER end though, causing the arousal.

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/10/2011 1:02:08 PM   
faithbunny


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Status: offline 		I don't think he's ever left me for more than overnight. It might actually be something fun to try, provided that he's actually physically stimulating me to make me feel denied rather than ignored. But I don't think I'd want to go weeks or months on end--I didn't have my first orgasm until late either, age 27, so I have become rather attached to them. ; )

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/20/2011 7:21:10 PM   
KayxSlut


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Status: offline 		I think I am the complete opposite of some of these  girls. I love being deprived of an orgasm. It makes the sex more intense and when I do have an orgasm it's insane. I love it. Two, three, four times, even.

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/20/2011 7:35:35 PM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: ViperGTS19801

Not just orgasm control - outright deprivation.

I'm playing with someone online who, if she hasn't misbehaved, has gone for about three days without cumming, at my direction. I've had her play here and there, and made her beg me over the phone while doing so. I'm planning on keeping her without orgasm for a few more days still, but I have a couple of questions.

How long have you been kept from climaxing while being occasionally played with or stimulated? Does it reach a point where it becomes painful not being allowed to cum? Or is it a good pain?


Not to be a ball buster, but because this is online, you are just trusting that this is really happening. She could be rubbing one out every second you don't chat and you wouldn't know the difference.

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/20/2011 7:43:02 PM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady
Not to be a ball buster, but because this is online, you are just trusting that this is really happening. She could be rubbing one out every second you don't chat and you wouldn't know the difference.


He could be seeing her every day and she could be doing this the moment he leaves. Hell you can live together and wait for your partner to go to sleep before seeing to your own needs.

So what point is there to this? That we should never trust anyone?


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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/21/2011 9:39:34 AM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady
Not to be a ball buster, but because this is online, you are just trusting that this is really happening. She could be rubbing one out every second you don't chat and you wouldn't know the difference.


He could be seeing her every day and she could be doing this the moment he leaves. Hell you can live together and wait for your partner to go to sleep before seeing to your own needs.

So what point is there to this? That we should never trust anyone?



In my opinion, on line is just an extension of fantasy life, and I believe in many cases half the stuff is no more than talk. And yes, I do realize that for some people online is very real to them, but I am one of many with the opinion that online games are just that, games.

The point? If it is online only, "trust" is relative to the reality. How many here joke that the "hot babe" a dom thinks he is playing on line with is probably a middle aged guy?

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/21/2011 10:59:17 AM   
coookie


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Status: offline 		Thread derailment: That is an age old joke from days when technology couldn't realistically perform like it can today. There are cams and pictures and phones and visits.

I have met several people in real life who are just "playing the game".

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/21/2011 11:04:02 AM   
coookie


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Status: offline 		Oh and just for insider information: I was N's for about 5 years before he finally moved here to be with me. It is not the same as online but it is very much as "real"

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/21/2011 4:43:02 PM   
IronJ


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Status: offline 		I get more pleasure out of delivering orgasms than denying them. I control the pace and the stimulation but I like to make her cum every time we are together, at least once. Of course, I like to string it out and build it to the edge a few times until she is really squirming but then I tell her to cum and cum hard!

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/22/2011 12:23:09 AM   
Softsexysub


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Status: offline 		For a few days until I get my tasks or what my Dom has told me to do .. Is delicious torture.. For me
But any thing more than that.. Its simply a manipulation In my eyes. And ill Go else where for pleasure/ release.

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/22/2011 12:24:22 AM   
Softsexysub


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Status: offline 		For a few days until I get my tasks or what my Dom has told me to do .. Is delicious torture.. For me
But any thing more than that.. Its simply a manipulation In my eyes. And ill Go else where for pleasure/ release.

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 5/22/2011 9:59:55 AM   
falccon


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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 6/1/2011 8:55:46 AM   
slaveluna


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Status: offline 		I love orgasm denial and can go a long time..but like you, I cannot get off on my own, never could and believe I tried almost everything lol

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 6/1/2011 10:25:59 AM   
magdalaina


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Twenty excruciating years. Then I got a divorce.




OP: ................ Its likely to frustate us in the beginning, but it won't be physically painful. The likely result with a woman is that she's going to lose interest in sex, in sex with you- or just in you.


This . Exactly.

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 6/1/2011 2:37:59 PM   
ThundersCry


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Status: offline 		Doing it online huh..well hope she is honest -L-

When I was enslaved to someone she would actually FORGET, which would grind me and when I about got into a fight one night I told her I think enough is enough...

Girls need to cum...daily imo...much easier to put up with...

Have fun online...

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RE: Orgasm Deprivation - how long? - 6/1/2011 4:02:11 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Yes, we are in much better moods when we have screaming orgasms.

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