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I'm not entirely sure what you are asking...but I think its what is the age preference of male doms...so that is the question I will answer.

First of all, let me preface my answer by saying that age (and looks/weight) in and of itself is not the primary determinant of whether I am attracted to a woman...its what's between her ears that counts. Now, that being said, yes I have an age preference...all other things being equal, I like the hotties half my age. Why? Because they are hotties, and I'm a dirty old man.

Though as my daughter gets older, the cut off age keeps creeping up ( you 18 year olds are safe now)

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I am over 40 and far more adventurous than I ever was. I prefer men that are at least 10 years older than me, my man is 16 years older and I love it. As far as being a cougar....no thanks. I get hit on by younger men and I find no appeal in that whatsoever.

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I guess that preference makes you the classic "dirty old man"

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

In my experiences the younger fems are more sexually adventursome while the over 40 ladies appear more reserved. This appears to apply within the D/s dynamic and outside of it.

What say you?

CP

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Greetings,

Sorry, I can't make that sweeping generalization. I think you'll always have exceptions on both ends. I've found that as forty comes closer I haven't gotten more reserved. It's the reverse. The bar has been raised and I won't tango with anyone that can't match or exceed my tempo.

In terms of adventure, the omission is never related to prudishness but simply because the individual doesn't trip my switch in that way. I can find a man attractive but not be boiled over. It's the ones that are capable of bringing more to the table than their whip swinging skills that will generally get my attention. You can have all the experience in the world and still be a bore. I'm more interested in the rare package than the mass produced clone.

Women often say they won't do this or that. What they really mean is that they're unwilling to do it for you. I find that when she's in the right company those supposed barriers have an uncanny way of moving. And while she could say, "I'm just not that into you to the degree of doing a, b, c", she elects to say she's simply not interested.

porcelaine,

It was not meant to be a sweeping generalization but rather a flash of my personal experiences ..groans from a long time ago and as a general rule I do not blink at anyone under 40. I agree that all the silent buttons have to be pushed before one can make to trip to Eureka. However I cannot endorse the concept of how a fem will express herself in the opening sceens of a relationship.

Thanks for your thoughts.

CP

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Men my age are often looking for a younger woman.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

In my experiences the younger fems are more sexually adventursome while the over 40 ladies appear more reserved. This appears to apply within the D/s dynamic and outside of it.

What say you?

CP

Not only do I disagree, but I think "Au Contraire."
It's my experience that MANY young girls (Especially in the, ohhhh, 18-22 range) are often kinda inexperienced about sex, play games about/around it (and not good ones!),don't know what they like or not, have all sorts of hang ups and "I don't knows" and often just ain't so good at sex.... while an older woman is just like, "Yep, this is what I like, this is what I need, Got a tiger in your tank, Darling? Let's go..." sorta thing.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I did not become reserved when I got older. I became unwilling to do things that don't work for me with people I am not compatible with.

Which does translate to no one night stands, assuming that's what the op is really saying.  That's true, I haven't gotten drunk and gone to bed with some guy and woken up thinking "What was I thinking" in over 30 years. If that's reserved, that's fine by me.

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gone to bed with some guy and woken up thinking "What was I thinking" in over 30 years.

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Im 44, soon to be 45... and my adventurous streak hit when I was 33... and there is no end in sight. As for the "reserved" part... lol... all I know is when I was younger, I was more concerned with how I looked while I was doing "it" ~whatever it may have been~ Now all I care about is how good it feels.

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What I do find amusing is how some men.. not all... wont admit to the fact that they want that young thang on their arm as

1) bragging rights with their friends.
2) because she is so darn much cuter than her older counterpart
3) because the jiggles are just cute jiggles and everything is ... in his mind... tighter.

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1) bragging rights with their friends.

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2) because she is so darn much cuter than her older counterpart

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3) because the jiggles are just cute jiggles and everything is ... in his mind... tighter.

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Are just too OLD in their attitudes and minds. No sense of adventure or fun,, The majority of those ladies live in the past and are both judgmental and very unforgiving for imagined transgressions

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Actually, I'm a little embarrassed by it...we old farts look pathetic with a young thing hanging on our arm

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

G'day CP mate,  i agree but it is not a mind set when based on physical evidence from personal experiences.. I simply know the age groups i am most comfy with and one advantage of a younger wife is that people can relate to her as well so this effectively reduces the age limiters or gap for some too....

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Damn where is Porcelaine and her french when it is needed.. . Got to have style mate and become a stylish,eccentric old fart.. Society madams will all but throw their virginal daughters at you if they fondly think you are old money..