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em25 -> RE: Prolly been mentioned before... (5/7/2006 7:04:27 AM)
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I only recently signed up to collarme, but I've been active offline and on various other sites for a few years now, and I usually find switches to be far more thoughtful and accepting of others' approaches and opinions than doms. I'm obviously not going to say that's universally true, I've met some surprisingly narrow minded switches and some wonderfully considerate doms, but it's what I usually find to be the case.
I always search for switches first, for example, because I know from past experience that switches are more likely to recognise that any form of relationship, both the sexual side of it and the friendship, should be built from scratch to accommodate the individual people involved. A lot of doms come into it with a ready-made mould they expect you to fill.
Those overall attitudes carry over into the way people interact on message boards on sites like this. Switches generally seem to want to discuss how things work for others and see if anything they hadn't thought about could benefit them, or if they have something relevant that might assist someone else, whereas doms mostly seem to want to sit and define the right way to do it.
I have nothing to offer on how subs usually compare, because I don't want to shag them and I'm shallow, so I don't generally associate with other subs very much. I'm aware that this shallowness is bad.
I accept that I could be completely wrong, of course!
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