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Form emails - 10/7/2004 9:40:09 AM   
INSIDEYOURMIND


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Status: offline 		I am amazed at the amount of emails my sub and I get that are from people that have either not read our profiles, or are just too stupid to understand what they say.
My sub's profile is clearly marked in big bold letters that she is collared, owned, and not looking. Today she received an email from a "Dom" that said he noticed that they had similar interests, um, hello, she doesn't have any listed?
I guess I am just venting but I look at our lifestyle in a noble and honorable way, and I do not see the honor or nobility in this.

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 10:43:16 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Why don't we design a form letter in response to these types?

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 10:45:28 AM   
subbiejenn


Posts: 631
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Status: offline 		*giggles*

my profile states *~* Not looking ~*~ but yet i get e-mails all the time wanting more then friendship or i love the "i liked your profile" i always write back and ask what is it about my profile you liked?? Of course the responses are never acceptable and i know they had not really read my profile. Go look for Yourself, my profile is not interesting or alluring in the least. *LOL* i see many more who are "true" in the lifestyle in the boards then all the e-mails i receive.

i am not collared even so not actively looking. i put up the NOT LOOKING on my profile because i got tired of all the e-mails from trolls. i feel as if i am meeting plenty of people in the forums to waste my time sifting through form mail. i maybe missing some great Doms and someday when my life is not so complicated I will change my profile. I like to become friends first and gain respect for Doms and that is hard to do through couple of e-mails. I can see how and what a Dom is about more in forum then in any e-mail they can send to me.

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 10:46:19 AM   
subbiejenn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

Why don't we design a form letter in response to these types?


hehehe you must of been posting when i was... that is a good idea!

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 10:59:27 AM   
INSIDEYOURMIND


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Status: offline 		I have left the names off to protect the stupid, but this is the original email my sub received:
Dated: 10/7/04 7:04 AM ...you do have some great interests that I share, please get back so that we can become better acquainted. I have a lot of experience in BDSM and enjoy sharing it
Again, my sub has no interests listed.

This was my reply to the email:
I AM CURIOUS, DO YOU ACTUALLY READ PROFILES, OR JUST SEND OUT MEANINGLESS FORM TYPE EMAILS TO EVERY SUBMISSIVE, IN A PITIFUL HOPE THAT SOME DESPERATE WOMAN MIGHT RESPOND?

If you would have taken the time to read my submissive's profile, you may have notice the large bold print at the top that stated she was owned, collared, and that all her mail was read by her Master. If you have experience as you state, you would know that this is a noble and honorable position, take the time to read a profile before you send off a reply that makes you look stupid. You state that you share similar interests, when my sub lists none.
Go away little boy, find your own toys.

This was his educated reply:
I'm curious as to why you respond to your imaginary subs mail? Isn't it time you admitted to yourself and to the other members of Collarme that you are merely a pathetic wimp pretending to be a female iin order to garner masturbatory material. Please, grow up have a life and grope yourself with less pitiful stimuli.

I feel sorry for the subs that have to deal with this drivel.

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 11:08:10 AM   
subbiejenn


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Status: offline 		That’s too funny...

He is a troll sending out form mail and blaming You... To cute *grins*

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 11:18:31 AM   
BigBadVoodooDadd


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Status: offline 		Well I see it as a few different things. I mean I understand completely were you are coming from but I give people the benefit of the doubt before I get into beating the living shit out of them.

I think that it is not wrong for people to contact one another on this site. The fact that your slave has big bold letters that she is collred does not mean that people should not message her to talk about things. Some people can gather from the profile that there are certain interests she likes and enjoys and he might have wanted to talk to her about those. I do that quite a bit actually because I like to see what other people's oppinions on things are. Now if your slave's profile said that she was collared and that she DID NOT WANT PEOPLE MESSAGING HER, I think that would be a different thing.

I think that people cross the line when they say that they could be a great Master to a already collared slave. I think they cross the line when they say that they are better than the slave's curent owner and I think that they definitely cross the line when they go after the sub/slave if she is in any kind of a relationship.

The Dom that you mentioned might have or might not have actually done anything to intrude on your sub BUT I would say that you should wait until they do before you blow on them. I think that people should be given the benefit of the doubt. I know it is easier to say it than do it but I think that once you give it to them, they in return will give you more respect and benefit of the doubt when you are missunderstood.

If your slave does not want to be contacted then make sure that it is clearly stated in her profile. I don't think that there is anything wrong with talking to someone that is collared, talking to them with the intent to destroy their relationship or with the intent to collar the slave themselves. I try to expand my base of friends in the community at all times but I know better than to actually go after someone's slave just as I hope people know better than to go after my slave.

That is my oppinion though, I tend to be a bit flexible in things because I know people do not mean harm most of the time.

I hope this helps!

BBVD




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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 11:23:15 AM   
INSIDEYOURMIND


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Status: offline 		I certainly appreciate your opinion, and I have no issues with people contacting my sub, the issue is with the type of contact.

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 11:29:13 AM   
subbiejenn


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Status: offline 		*grins* Just wanted to say Welcome to the boards Big Bad Voodoo Dadd!!
Nice to see You taking a interest in posting Your opinions, i always love to see other sides to things.

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 11:50:11 AM   
BigBadVoodooDadd


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Status: offline 		OK, well this is the guy that really needs to have his lims ripped off and them be beaten with them to a living pulp.

I replied to your original message but in the time it took me to write it all many things have actually come to light without me being aware of it...

I still stand firm that most people mean good and I believe that we should give them the benefit of the doubt. I always allow my subbs to talk to others and I allow others to contact them. My subs know where the line is and they never cross it or allow someone else to cross it.

I'm sorry that you ran in to the bad apple but it's OK... no worries!

BBVD

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 11:53:09 AM   
BigBadVoodooDadd


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Status: offline 		subbiejenn

Thank you very much for the welcome. I was in the chatrooms yesterday and I had about 10 people ask me about things and my profile. In the end everyone told me that I should post on the forums because I had a really good view on many issues. They found it helpfull so I thought I might help someone else too with my advice.

I usually post on Bondage.com but I like sharing my views and oppinions with others so I am hoping that I will be able to learn something new from talking to all of you!

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 12:12:03 PM   
Chaos


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Status: offline 		I have occasionally contacted owned subs or slaves, for one reason or another. I make sure it is VERY clear that I am not offering to be a Master, that I am NOT trying to hit on them, and I always ask them to pass my regards on to their Master/Owner.

By doing it that way, and making sure that my intentions are clear, I have yet to have a Master/Owner angry at me (to the best of my knowledge). I am a firm believer in respecting the relationships of others.

The form e-mail referred to above is simply another HNG trolling for anything he can find. Better ignored than dwelt on. Why waste your time?

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 12:41:23 PM   
smile2cu


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Joined: 7/21/2004
From: Dayton, OH
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subbiejenn
*giggles*
my profile states *~* Not looking ~*~ but yet i get e-mails all the time wanting more then friendship or i love the "i liked your profile" i always write back and ask what is it about my profile you liked??


Well, I kind of liked the pictures. Particularly the one you had before, where you were bending over. I suspect that's the part they liked as well.

But I see you're also articulate and caring. And I can't remember ever disagreeing with one of your posts. So if you'll excuse a bit of lust, I admire you above the neck as well.

~smile~

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 12:49:14 PM   
happypervert


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quote:

Go look for Yourself, my profile is not interesting or alluring in the least.

I did look, jenn, and it is obvious that your profile is cleverly designed to attract a "true master". First, you use that seductive purple italic font to stimulate a man's most primitive cravings. Then all the disclaimers of "not looking" and such are there merely to weed out the wimps -- a real man will ignore that so he can show his dominant nature and come after you. The final proof that you are begging for a cyber-romeo to come conquer is that you end it with the *smiles* -- all the men reading that know that you are really smiling just at them.

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 12:50:51 PM   
subbiejenn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BigBadVoodooDadd

subbiejenn

Thank you very much for the welcome. I was in the chatrooms yesterday and I had about 10 people ask me about things and my profile. In the end everyone told me that I should post on the forums because I had a really good view on many issues. They found it helpfull so I thought I might help someone else too with my advice.

I usually post on Bondage.com but I like sharing my views and oppinions with others so I am hoping that I will be able to learn something new from talking to all of you!


glad You did find Your way here, think Your a wonderful addition to the boards. By far i think Collarme has the best message forum around if Y/you truly want to learn and discuss the lifestyle. (Of course W/we chat about the Other Random Stupidity stuff too) *grins*

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 12:54:49 PM   
smile2cu


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire
Why don't we design a form letter in response to these types?

I humbly submit the following all purpose flame letter, which I ran across recently:

**BEGIN FLAME**

Your email was so devoid of intelligence I've decided to send this form flame letter instead of a well thought out response...

Dear:
[ ] Clueless GOPer [ ] Lam3r [ ] AOLer
[ ] KKKer [ ] Pervert [ ] Geek
[ ] Spammer [ ] waste of human DNA[ ] D!CK HEAD
[ ] Waste of oxygen [ ] Freak [ ] Waste of office space
[ ] Darwin award winner [ ] D!P S#!T [ ] Toadie

You Are Being Flamed Because:
[ ] You are just some Neanderthal
[ ] You posted something that has nothing to do with race/religion
[ ] You ARE SO FU**ING GO**AMN CLUELESS
[ ] You quoted an ENTIRE post in your reply
[ ] You continued a long, stupid/boring thread
[ ] You started an off-topic thread
[ ] You posted a "YOU ALL SUCK" message
[ ] You haven't learned the difference between E-mail and newsgroups
[ ] You are a Mo##er Fu##ing troll
[ ] You posted pretending to be someone famous (See "troll" above)
[ ] You replied to the above message type believing it was actually someone famous
[ ] You said "me too" to something
[ ] You suck horse cock
[ ] Your sig/alias/server sucks
[ ] You posted a lame-sex ad
[ ] You are parroting some TV Preacher/Mullah/talk show host
[ ] You are F**KING BRAIN DEAD
[ ] You posted in ElItE CaPiTaLs because you think that makes you cool
[ ] You didn't do anything specific, but appear to be so generally worthless that you are being flamed anyway

To Repent, You Must:
[ ] Stop masturbating for a week
[ ] Give up your AOL account
[ ] Bust up your modem with a hammer and eat it
[ ] Tell your Mommy you've been a bad boy
[ ] Jump into a bathtub while holding your monitor
[ ] Actually post something relevant/intelligent
[ ] Fall on your sword
[ ] Join the human race(on 2nd thought we don’t want your kind)
[ ] Go fall off a barstool somewhere
[ ] drop your pants in front of your cellmate/boyfriend and have him f**k your brains out
[ ] Actually read about the subject/topic
[ ] Tell your psychiatrist that your medication is not working
[ ] Read a book(comic books don’t count)
[ ] Be a guest at wife beaters anonymous for a month

In Closing, I'd Like to Say:
[ ] eat me
[ ] eat lead
[ ] Eat your dog
[ ] Go blow your brains out
[ ] Get a life
[ ] Go away and die
[ ] EAT S#!T and die
[ ] Never post again
[ ] Age 10 more years before you post again
[ ] I pity your dog/cat/hamster
[ ] Go to hell
[ ] Yo momma's so fat/stupid/ugly that etc...
[ ] Take your s**t somewhere else
[ ] Get f**ked, you pathetic loser
[ ] Learn to post or f**k off
[ ] All of the above

**END FLAME**

Hope it comes in handy,

~smile~

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 1:00:24 PM   
subbiejenn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: smile2cu

Well, I kind of liked the pictures. Particularly the one you had before, where you were bending over. I suspect that's the part they liked as well.

But I see you're also articulate and caring. And I can't remember ever disagreeing with one of your posts. So if you'll excuse a bit of lust, I admire you above the neck as well.

~smile~


Thank You Smile and you also seem very caring, thoughtful and a genuine nice person. Although the pics of me are not truly me Thank you *grins* the pictures i use in forum are just avatars. i only share pictures of me once i get to know someone well, i don't want family, co-workers or friends stumbling across pictures of me here. To me this is my private life and none of there business. My lifestyle choices i do not advertise around to all of my family or friends either and i actually had someone see me on another site once.

And INSIDEYOURMIND ... Kick Him once real hard for me too!

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RE: Form emails - 10/7/2004 1:08:06 PM   
subbiejenn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: happypervert
I did look, jenn, and it is obvious that your profile is cleverly designed to attract a "true master". First, you use that seductive purple italic font to stimulate a man's most primitive cravings. Then all the disclaimers of "not looking" and such are there merely to weed out the wimps -- a real man will ignore that so he can show his dominant nature and come after you. The final proof that you are begging for a cyber-romeo to come conquer is that you end it with the *smiles* -- all the men reading that know that you are really smiling just at them.



*giggles* never thought of it in that way... i would love to find my Romeo and He be a Big Dominate Man but not a cyber one - someone who is real and understands the mental aspects of being a Dom/Master.

quote:

humbly submit the following all purpose flame letter, which I ran across recently:

**BEGIN FLAME**


very nice smile! can i copy and paste it? but one suggestion on the "dear" part needs to be a box for ALL OF THE ABOVE!

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~Subspace is my perfect paradise vacation from busy-mind... blessed be to the Dominant who can stamp my ticket there.~

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away"

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RE: Form emails - 10/8/2004 7:24:06 AM   
sub4hire


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quote:

10/7/04 7:04 AM ...you do have some great interests that I share, please get back so that we can become better acquainted. I have a lot of experience in BDSM and enjoy sharing it
Again, my sub has no interests listed.


I just realized. She does have interests listed just as the rest of us do. The subs, announce they are subs. Doesn't matter if you are breathing or not. You're a body plain and simple.
If you hit on enough people, some will respond. Of course the odds are low but they are still odds.

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