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Delicate question concerning anal - 3/21/2011 6:19:44 PM   
HisEvelyn


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Status: offline 		Ok, this is a wonderful example of a question I really could not ask anywhere else. I have a doctor's appointment in about a month... but the idea of asking my doctor (who is a nice, kindly littleo ld lady in her fifties) about this makes me really embarrassed. I'm hoping asking here will get my courage up a bit or maybe just give me the answer I'm looking for.

Master loves to fuck his slave anally. And I am more than willing to let him do so whenever he wishes (not my favorite activity, but I can enjoy it). However, the last couple of months I have been experiencing a mild hemmorroid. It's still internal and only one vein, but it does hurt and bleed some.

This was not much of an issue while we were an LDR, but now that Master and I live together, it is something that I've been thinking about. Master has told me more than once that he is more than willing to give up anal if it would mean bad damage done to his slave, so this is not about any worry about demands. In fact, he has not even made it an issue in any way.

But I do wish to please my Master in any way I can, and so I'm curious if it could damage me badly to have anal done with my hemmorroid. Maybe with a lot of lube? I'm sure it would hurt a lot, but if it wouldn't do any further damage, I'd be willing to try for Master. I'm not sure he would even be willing to risk it, because he cares greatly about the wellbeing of his property. But I still want to know.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/21/2011 6:34:03 PM   
January


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Status: offline 		Hi,

I hope some medical folk, like hausboy, will answer this question to help you out.

In the meantime... it's been my experience that hemorroids come and go. They flare up, then disappear... Why not just wait until the hemorroid shrinks and then start up anal again?

January

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/21/2011 6:40:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm hoping it will heal and go away, believe me! But this one has flared up again already after partially healing, so I'm not sure if it will completely heal. Thank you for the kind reply,though. :)

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/21/2011 6:57:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		http://gaylife.about.com/od/anal/qt/Lessen-The-Pain-Of-Anal-Sex-With-Hemorrhoids.htm

Over the counter treatments can help.

http://altmedicine.about.com/od/healthconditionsetol/a/hemorrhoids.htm

My suggestion,, read both articles and take their advice. Fissures are not to be ignored.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/21/2011 7:22:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks so much, tazzygirl. I'll read these now! :)

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/21/2011 7:28:47 PM   
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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/21/2011 10:46:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		It should only take a week or two to heal it up, especially if you use an over the counter produce like Preperation H, watch your diet so it's easy to go without much straining, drink lots of water. Maybe you could think of another activity to keep him busy while it heals so he won't notice? Then ease back into it.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/22/2011 12:19:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: HisEvelyn

but the idea of asking my doctor (who is a nice, kindly littleo ld lady in her fifties) about this makes me really embarrassed.



Many of us kindly old ladies enjoy anal too and know a little something about it.

You've gotten some good advice from other posters. I would encourage you to have your Doc examine you and explain the situaiton. Not the gory details, but that you and your partner enjoy anal sex from time to time and you have been experiencing this problem.. bla bla bla. Anal sex isn't an exclusively kink act. At 50 some odd years and having, most likely, been practicing medicine quite a while I betcha she has run into this type of concern many many times. I know it's a little embarassing, but I don't think she would bat an eye at your questions/concerns.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/22/2011 12:21:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I gotta agree, mbmbn. Cant think of much a 50 year old Dr wouldnt have seen or heard of by now.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/22/2011 1:46:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		Little old lady in her 50's huh.

I have to "third" what maybemaybenot and tazzygirl have said. If your MD is a "little old lady", I'm sure she's been practicing long enough to have heard it all. So go talk to her already!

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/22/2011 7:27:41 AM   
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http://www.amazon.com/Anal-Pleasure-Health-Guide-Couples/dp/0940208377/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1300803998&sr=8-1

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/22/2011 11:41:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks so much to everyone. I suppose it wouldn't hurt to talk to the doctor when I go, lol. And extra thanks to Red for her EXTREMELY helpful Cmail. Hopefully I'll be healed up soon! :) Off to the store to get some extra fiber.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/22/2011 11:46:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't see a delicacy.

NEVER FUCKING EVER lie to your chancre mechanic, and only lie to your necktie if you actually are guilty of what they are charging you with.

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You can quote me.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/22/2011 12:35:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD

Little old lady in her 50's huh.I have to "third" what maybemaybenot and tazzygirl have said. If your MD is a "little old lady", I'm sure she's been practicing long enough to have heard it all. So go talk to her already!


Ha, I just noticed that. Tsk, tsk.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/23/2011 10:11:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Tell the doctor about it. She's heard it all and seen it all. But if it's a small one, ask for a referral to a proctologist or colonorectal surgeon and have it banded. It's an office procedure, takes ten minutes, and it will shrivel up and fall off inside a few days. Just make sure someone else drives you home, you'll be in too much pain. Get the doctor to prescribe a pain killer and take it about an hour before the procedure.

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RE: Delicate question concerning anal - 3/24/2011 1:12:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hemmorroids are uncomfortable, but they flare up, and go away at times. If you are using lube consistently, and are still getting flare ups and bleeds, you may need to consider having them removed, before continuing to enjoy anal (with lube, please IMO). M

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