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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/13/2004 5:02:26 AM

MistressKiss

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I love to beg in the right situation...for more orgasms, for the privilege of pleasing the dominant orally - anything can be turned into a begging situation. It does turn me on, most of the time - but I will say, when I begin to beg, I usually am completely turned on and into it. It's quite arousing for me and I in no way see it as degradation - in fact, just the opposite. It makes a hot scene hotter. I especially like it when I am completely naked and the dominant is completely clothed.

It's getting hot in here....grinsssssssssss

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/14/2004 1:49:10 PM

ChrisGreen

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Begging for mercy in my case.

In the normal course of the scene I do not beg and ladies who demand that I do, usually, have no understanding of what makes me tick - they are usually trainee mistresses who are being trained by my Matron.

Frankly, 'begging' does nothing for me, since I do not need it, nor believe in the words I am saying, it is meaningless and has no power over me.

On the otherhand, when Matron thrashes me as part of a Judicial CP scene, then I usually start begging for mercy by the 18th stroke, which is when the pain is painful, and my begging becomes urgent and agonised by the 50th stroke.

Matron usually gives me between 36 and 54 strokes of a Singapore style rattan cane, full strength with her body weight behind each stroke.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/15/2004 9:12:33 PM

realophelia

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Yesss, I can see that. But I meant being sooooo needy for something that you simply opened yoursrlf up and begged for it, not to satisfy anyone else, but because you needed it so badly that you lost/relinquished self-control?

Only on a couple of occasions that were pain related.

Otherwise most of the begging I've done felt awkward. But I get the concept. And I think it can be pretty erotic if it's done right.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/16/2004 9:33:47 AM

topcat

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It's getting hot in here....grinsssssssssss

Nah- it's just you<g>.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/18/2004 11:12:57 PM

IservBlkKingPaPa

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this slave hates to beg, she sux at it

..mainly because she is always running out of ways to beg and things to say, how to say it. How many times can a Dom hear PPLLEEEEEEEAAASSSEE??

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/19/2004 12:32:54 AM

Thanatosian

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How many times can a Dom hear PPLLEEEEEEEAAASSSEE??

If it is pleasing to him, as many times as he brings you to the point of saying it

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/19/2004 10:37:03 AM

IservBlkKingPaPa

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that is true, this slave was only joking

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/19/2004 6:59:33 PM

susannah

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I love begging my Dom and find it highly erotic in a sexual context. For me, it's voluntary - he never had to ask me to do it to expand my list of "things I do" or whatever - I love it. Of course I could never do if I didn't trust him completely.

- Susannah

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/20/2004 12:43:44 PM

Synocense

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LOL I figured that practice would indeed make perfection. Guess what? It is still a "no-go" - I must feel the absolute need for whatever I beg for, otherwise it's an act and not very satisfying to either involved.

As for my profile....well, it changes with my mood. (Sorry Mods!) Maybe I am your ex and you just caught me on an off day. *grins*

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 12/29/2004 8:53:39 PM

hals17

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i had a session with this Mistress in albany new york some years ago;
near the end of session Mistress allowed me to cum but i was holding it to max money's worth. then time was up. She ordered tribute of $90 for about an hour then ordered to leave. i was at a loss cause i was still holding & had to beg Mistress to cum before i had to go home otherwise i would go crazy without release on the way back. She said i could jerk off on the road or anywhere i like, but i kept begging; eventually She let me jerk off and cum in the bathroom while She was sitting on the toilet seat while i was licking her legs and jerking off my pathietick tiny worthless thing. i released and Mistress throwed me tissue paper, thanks Mistress.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/2/2005 6:09:17 PM

liltxsubby

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You mean to tell me that i'm not the only one that finds it hard to beg, and when i finally do, feel exceedingly silly and like i'm doing a poor job of it? i was chalking it all up to being new and not having had to beg much. YAY OH, wait, maybe not YAY that means it might not get any easier

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/2/2005 6:23:03 PM

TeasedWhispers

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When begging to one my former dom loved this about me,how I may beg like crazy...since it all comes from within I guess I did a good job;)

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/2/2005 7:08:40 PM

terah

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Yes there are times when you have to beg. Sometimes the begging is in completely curtsey. Other times it is because you are extremely sincere in want and needs of... and alas the worse, the words unformed, unknown and without question dire.

If you listen along enough to hear them speak you'll know when the time is right. Not when the time is right for you only.

I was told I had to beg for my collar.I did. " Master this girl begs you Master that you consider her and all she has to offer to be your slave. her only desire Master is to be of service to you. Matser this girl will wait until granted this priveldge to lift her head in supplication of this collar".

When I was told by another dominant that I would have to beg. I had no voice. His commands was never beg for a collar. Or beg to have this or that. It was just beg. Undefined and that how I felt I was undefined.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/3/2005 10:05:30 PM

LaMspeach

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nettles

Yesss, I can see that. But I meant being sooooo needy for something that you simply opened yoursrlf up and begged for it, not to satisfy anyone else, but because you needed it so badly that you lost/relinquished self-control?

Yes, I love handing over the power, not because he makes me but because it is who I am. I need to please Him at all cost, even if begging him make me lose my dignity for that moment I know in the end I can hold my head a little higher and be proud that I have pleased Him. So see it sort of a oxy moron while some feel it is lowering them selves, I feel it is freeing to be able to give Him that much control that he can reduce me to a babbling, begging mess just to pick me up again.

Yes, I am rambling ... sorry if I didn't make much sense.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/4/2005 1:19:33 PM

darlyn

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Have you ever been made to beg, either by your dominant or your own needs, and how did/does it make you feel?

Oh, yes and both by my Master and by my own needs... 'please?' being my most evident form of begging, no matter what it is for (i.e. - 'please let me cum', 'please lessen one of the clamps', 'harder, please') Mostly it is just accepted as a form of communicating that i am requesting something, then He can ask what it is for which i am begging and make His own decision.

As Master HATES it when an attempt is made to Tfb (Top from bottom) if i began to make 'statements' vs. 'requests', i am sure to let Him know that i am begging for 'this something', so that i keep respect to His Dominance in the scene.

How does this make me feel? Totally under His Control *smiles* because the final decision as to whether my request is fulfilled is His decision.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/6/2005 8:25:55 AM

Roughridersbaby

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my Master loves to make me beg and i love begging. i see it as a vital part of O/our D/s relationship. when i offered my submission to Him i handed Him over ownership of me. Im not a slave but i do wear His collar so that means He owns me and begging is a strong part of the relationship. i just love pleaseing Him when He hears me beg and say pleaaaaaaase for things.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/9/2005 8:54:53 PM

TeasedWhispers

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Begging comes natural to me because its coming from what is within the heart

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/9/2005 9:10:06 PM

CTclay

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I've never begged in a scene, but I think I'd like it.

When I've begged it made me feel closer to my domme because she clearly liked it so much. It's obviously a demonstration of the dominant's power over the sub, so, like all things that demonstrate that power, I found it very erotic.

In a brief relationship I had with another domme, my begging (for sex) annoyed the hell out of her. I think there's a time and a place for it, and you've got to figure out what that is with each dominant.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 1/10/2005 12:01:09 AM

Lordandmaster

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Sometimes I have to beg the bitches to back off and give me some space.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 7/13/2005 3:39:37 AM

lonewolf05

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humble apologies.

never begged for anything in my life. not going to start now.
if i have to beg, i dont want it.

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