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Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 1:57:18 PM   
LadyPact


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Fill in the blank is NOT a poll.  LOL.

During a talk with someone on the other side yesterday, it occurred to Me that there are a lot of words that I would use to fill in the blank in regard to sadism. 

Finding joy in sadism.

Finding beauty in sadism

Finding fun in sadism.

Finding art in sadism.

There are more for Me.  Those are just a few examples.

What are some of the words that you would fill in the blank with?


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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 2:08:47 PM   
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finding pain
finding surrender
finding a struggle

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 2:33:18 PM   
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Finding myself...

I've got to admit thought.......joy was the first word that came to mind before I read further down and saw it.


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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 2:38:14 PM   
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I hate to steal yours, but art and beauty are the two at the top of my mind. There's really nothing quite like it. Like theatre, it is enchanting owing to its transience - it is there, and then gone, existing only in memory. Yet it is so much more intimate than theatre, so much more raw and real. The actors, as it were, exist in their own world, bonded to each other in a way very little in life can match.

It is like playing the most complex musical instrument imaginable for no audience but yourself. Fulfilling beyond words.

EDIT: One sentence made no sense whatsoever...


< Message edited by Palliata -- 3/25/2011 2:39:46 PM >


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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 2:53:06 PM   
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Finding freedom in sadism.

Free to be dominant, aggressive, violent and sexual. 

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 3:09:34 PM   
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Finding empathy in sadism.....
(what's one boty's walk in the park is another boy's walk in the dark).

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 3:23:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

What are some of the words that you would fill in the blank with?


Greetings,

Finding... peace, sanctuary, and a yoke that liberates my constraints.
Finding ...a metronomic, blissful, catharsis that transforms and unveils.
Finding... disorder, revolution, and unshakable trust in the seen and unseen.
Finding... faith, strength, and endurance to go that extra mile.

And more importantly, finding Home.

Namaste,

~porcelaine


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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 3:26:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Asfixation

Finding empathy in sadism.....
(what's one boty's walk in the park is another boy's walk in the dark).



Finding peace through empathy.

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 3:50:53 PM   
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DG would say Satisfaction

R would say Sexual excitement

S would say No pain, no gain!

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 4:05:14 PM   
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so far i have to agree with everyone -- cool thread ^_^

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 4:08:42 PM   
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Finding...
 
Creativity
Science
Music
Intimacy
Control
Sensuality

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 4:35:46 PM   
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Finding a lawsuit.

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 4:38:19 PM   
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FR

I'm gonna be cheeky and cut'n'paste from my FL account, instead of cnp'ing all the individual adjectives...

I do kinky things for fun. I do kinky things for adrenaline. I do kinky things for pleasure. I do kinky things as an expression of intimacy. I do kinky things as an expression of brutality. I do kinky things as an expression of sexuality.

Lovely thread, Lady P. :-)


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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 6:00:03 PM   
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Finding nirvana and samsara in sadism

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 6:18:55 PM   
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Finding insight in sadism.
Finding strength in sadism.
finding peace in sadism.

i think you could say the same for masochism.

Wait, is this one of things where we think you're picking a word, but we're really just describing ourselves?

Finding obfuscation in sadism. Yeah, analyse that.

pam

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 6:24:38 PM   
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Finding Power in sadism.

but with that much of power, It really make me feel alone.


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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 7:47:34 PM   
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Finding acceptance.
Finding humility.
Finding my demons (and facing them).
Finding beauty in the inferior.
Finding resurrection in the smashing of the alabaster.

Namaste,

~porcelaine




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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/25/2011 8:10:46 PM   
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Transcendence.

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/26/2011 5:49:47 AM   
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For me....a challenge.

I'll ask M in a few and post his thoughts.

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RE: Finding ________ in sadism - 3/26/2011 6:25:04 AM   
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