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I know, get him to serve, pleasure me. That's all good. But I'm having trouble coming up with degrading names or degrading activities to get him to preform. Does this make sense at all? I know. be creative, do what -I- want. I'm just having trouble slipping into the whole top thing, even though it's what I want.

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How about learning penis/scrotum bondage? 

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ORIGINAL: arcticpaw

I've been in a D/s relationship since I was about 16, to my dominant bf. I always played submissive/masochist to his Dom/Sadist. But in the back of my mind, I'd fantasize about topping. Don't get me wrong, I love being his bottom but every once in a while Id get in the mood to top. But of course, I never really got to act it out with him.

In recent months he's realized he sometimes likes to bottom, leaving me in charge and giving me a rush of "Yes, I get to top! Muwahahaha!"

But after being a sub for so many years, and having no experience topping I'm left wondering "Okay, I'm the top.. now what?"

I know, get him to serve, pleasure me. That's all good. But I'm having trouble coming up with degrading names or degrading activities to get him to preform. Does this make sense at all? I know. be creative, do what -I- want. I'm just having trouble slipping into the whole top thing, even though it's what I want.

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

Names: Slutboy, manwhore, boytoy, mama's boy, fagwannabe, asshole sniffer, puppy, dumbass, ball less wonder.

Degrading acts: make him strip in front of you, placing his hands up behind his head with fingers locked together as you examine him ( check him all over, including his teeth) let him spread his own ass cheeks because you don't want to touch a dirty slaves ass, tell him his asshole looks worn out, tell him what a pathetic specimen he is and how you doubt you'd get very much for him  whoring him out. Make him kneel and kiss your feet, lick your feet, suck your toes. Make him lick your shoes clean with his tongue. Dress him up in women's panties, put makeup on him and make him fuck his own asshole with a buttplug while you watch, tell him what a whore he is for liking it so much and you can record this to make him view later.   Show him how your strap on cock is bigger then his and why women don't really need pathetic men, then make him kneel and force him to suck it. Really grab a handful of hair and fuck his mouth with it, even gag him just a bit so he knows how the women in his life have felt or at least tell him that.

The list is pretty much endless you just need to find out what he finds personally degrading and take it from there.

~Lashra

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

Names: Slutboy, manwhore, boytoy, mama's boy, fagwannabe, asshole sniffer, puppy, dumbass, ball less wonder.

Degrading acts: make him strip in front of you, placing his hands up behind his head with fingers locked together as you examine him ( check him all over, including his teeth) let him spread his own ass cheeks because you don't want to touch a dirty slaves ass, tell him his asshole looks worn out, tell him what a pathetic specimen he is and how you doubt you'd get very much for him  whoring him out. Make him kneel and kiss your feet, lick your feet, suck your toes. Make him lick your shoes clean with his tongue. Dress him up in women's panties, put makeup on him and make him fuck his own asshole with a buttplug while you watch, tell him what a whore he is for liking it so much and you can record this to make him view later.   Show him how your strap on cock is bigger then his and why women don't really need pathetic men, then make him kneel and force him to suck it. Really grab a handful of hair and fuck his mouth with it, even gag him just a bit so he knows how the women in his life have felt or at least tell him that.

The list is pretty much endless you just need to find out what he finds personally degrading and take it from there.

~Lashra

I like the way you think....

Oh My Dear~

Don't know if they have a cure for that?

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