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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/15/2006 4:45:37 AM   
becca333


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ORIGINAL: collarworthy

THE RESPONSE
 

Ive been avoiding this thread for the last couple weeks as I refuse to get caught up in the somewhat hysterical frenzy that has overtaken many of its readers since it was first posted.



I don't think a chorus of warning bells counts as a 'hysterical frenzy'.  Especially since every time the thread has slid into obscurity, your prospective sub is the one who's revived it, and begged for more responses.

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ORIGINAL: collarworthy

From what I've been able to gather so far, half of you think Urantiams crazy, half of you think I'm crazy, and generally speaking, most of you feel we're BOTH crazy.



Yes.
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Now, from nine to five I work in a technical business that requires me to think along lines I"m not always famliar with. So when I'm struggling to figure out what purpose a rocker panel has, or how to install a trailer brake for the first time, I tell my instructor: EXPLAIN IT TO ME AS THO I'M FIVE YEARS OLD. I will use that policy here, with this site, as many of you seem to be having problems understanding this thread and how it began. So........



Nope, we understand it just fine.  What you mean is, there hasn't been a wave of approval telling you both how wonderful it all is.

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Once I accepted the fact that I was a dominant person, and that I truly enjoy being served, it wasn't such a far stretch to figure out that if I like being pleased by one sub, chances are I will love being pleased by more than one sub. So Urantiam and I discussed the subject of having a poly lifestyle.



So before you've actually met and found out if the two of you have any chance at all of making all this work, you're planning on starting a harem?  First you bewail the fact that you can't find anyone who suits your special needs, then you plan on keeping a squad of them?  And you're going to find them....where?

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We had already agreed that we were the perfect match.



Oh yes.  The two of you are psychic twins.  The resemblance is very clear.

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Urantiam was concerned that his, or other subs presences, might make it difficult for me to find a dominant lover to please me in the bedroom. He posted the thread asking for advice on the subject.



And then complained when people gave him advice that he didn't want to hear.

He didn't post wanting advice, he actually wanted to be told how wonderful you both were. 

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You would have just written us off as another typical Mistress / sub relationship. That, in itself, is what gives the world of BDSM a bad name.



Er, no. 

Personally I think the two of you are just so cute together, you really do deserve all that's coming.  I'd love to think that it all worked out perfectly, and you were blissfully happy together with all your other slaves and Doms, all curled up together watching Survivor ( I think Terry's unbeatable.  But I wish Cirie could win.)  But considering your phenomenal selfishness and his incredibly manipulative personality, I'd rate your chances in negative numbers.

But what the heck, at least the boy'll get laid at last.  And it's such a huge, glorious failure, he'll revel in the memory.

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 12:34:15 AM   
collarworthy


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Status: offline 		I love you Urantiam.....

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 12:43:49 AM   
collarworthy


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Status: offline 		When your right, your right Juliaoceania. I took the liberty of checking out the Websters dictionary on the true meaning of the word "whore", and it is listed as the following:

  1. A prostitute.
  2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
  3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

Personally, I enjoy sex far too much to ever demand payment for it, so that would put me under the Number 2 category, but I can see where you would be confused and insulted by the term.  Just as I was confused and slightly sickened when I read YOUR profile:

Im Taken
I have a Daddy, and I  can only have One Daddy

Did I read this right Julie? You have a Daddy and you can only have one Daddy? Is your Mommy aware of the fact that your sleeping with your Daddy? Or were you conceived without sperm? Im not quite sure what to make of it, but since even a whore like Myself draws the line at incest, I was a little appauled by the whole scenerio .

Upon reflection, I would have to assume that what you mean is, you call your boyfriend  or husband Daddy? Which means you turn him on by pretending to be a little girl. Is that it?  One of those " o, spank me Daddy, Ive been a baaaaad girl"??? 

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 2:00:04 AM   
collarworthy


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ORIGINAL: becca333

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ORIGINAL: collarworthy





I don't think a chorus of warning bells counts as a 'hysterical frenzy'.  Especially since every time the thread has slid into obscurity, your prospective sub is the one who's revived it, and begged for more responses.

But thats the point exactly becca. Urantiam asked for advice, not ridicule, sarcasm, and ridiculous warnings of all the horrible things that could happen to him should he fall under my wicked spell  .

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ORIGINAL: collarworthy

From what I've been able to gather so far, half of you think Urantiams crazy, half of you think I'm crazy, and generally speaking, most of you feel we're BOTH crazy.



Yes.

Honesty. Im fine with that. I think your a holier-than-thou bitch. Hows that for honesty?
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ORIGINAL: collarworthy

Now, from nine to five I work in a technical business that requires me to think along lines I"m not always famliar with. So when I'm struggling to figure out what purpose a rocker panel has, or how to install a trailer brake for the first time, I tell my instructor: EXPLAIN IT TO ME AS THO I'M FIVE YEARS OLD. I will use that policy here, with this site, as many of you seem to be having problems understanding this thread and how it began. So........



Nope, we understand it just fine.  What you mean is, there hasn't been a wave of approval telling you both how wonderful it all is.

I wasnt aware that asking for advice is par to asking for approval. Is that the way you aussies interpret things?

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Once I accepted the fact that I was a dominant person, and that I truly enjoy being served, it wasn't such a far stretch to figure out that if I like being pleased by one sub, chances are I will love being pleased by more than one sub. So Urantiam and I discussed the subject of having a poly lifestyle.



So before you've actually met and found out if the two of you have any chance at all of making all this work, you're planning on starting a harem?  First you bewail the fact that you can't find anyone who suits your special needs, then you plan on keeping a squad of them?  And you're going to find them....where?

I imagine we'll find them on a site like this one. I tried dialing 1-800-dial a slave, but no one answered.

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We had already agreed that we were the perfect match.



Oh yes.  The two of you are psychic twins.  The resemblance is very clear.

Yes, we are. Just as you and your spanky-spanky partner did.

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Urantiam was concerned that his, or other subs presences, might make it difficult for me to find a dominant lover to please me in the bedroom. He posted the thread asking for advice on the subject.



And then complained when people gave him advice that he didn't want to hear.

He didn't post wanting advice, he actually wanted to be told how wonderful you both were. 

I think you've been spanky-spankied a little too hard becca. For the second time, he didnt receive any advice on the topic he posted. Most of the replies were from narrow minded people such as yourself

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You would have just written us off as another typical Mistress / sub relationship. That, in itself, is what gives the world of BDSM a bad name.



Er, no. 

Personally I think the two of you are just so cute together, you really do deserve all that's coming.  I'd love to think that it all worked out perfectly, and you were blissfully happy together with all your other slaves and Doms, all curled up together watching Survivor ( I think Terry's unbeatable.  But I wish Cirie could win.)  But considering your phenomenal selfishness and his incredibly manipulative personality, I'd rate your chances in negative numbers.

Wrong again. Terry was too egotistical ( which is undoubtedly why you were rooting for him, as you share that trait.) Aras won begun he was easy to get along with , non-judgmental, and knew when to keep him mouth shut. You could learn from him becca.

But what the heck, at least the boy'll get laid at last.  And it's such a huge, glorious failure, he'll revel in the memory.


Yes, he will indeed get laid. Spanky-spanky just doesnt cut it for normal people.

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 2:12:43 AM   
collarworthy


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Using the word WHORE is just a way of saying she enjoys to be fucked.

Urantiam


i'm a pretty smart woman, yet i have NEVER seen this definition of "whore".   Hmmm, can someone point me in the right direction for the research

Ask and you shall receive:  Websters Dictionary definition of the word "whore"
 
  1. A prostitute.
  2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
  3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

Note selection Number 2, as my job pays me well enuff that I dont need to ask for money for something I enjoy so much.  See? you lean something new everyday
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 2:18:19 AM   
collarworthy


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4000 hits and only about 200 replies. If I count the repeats, not to many members have gave me their opinions. It would be nice to hear from the 3800 others who read this thread.

Urantiam


They are dead from laughter.


Perhaps.  Or perhaps there are 3800 people on this line who live by the rule that if you dont have anything good to say, you shouldnt say anything at all.  I guess your not familiar with that one huh?

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 2:26:48 AM   
collarworthy


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Reflectivesoul.

If you are going to reply to my thread, don't just post a little face, tell me what you really think.

Urantiam


She IS telling you what she thinks!...and i definitely agree.  To folks who understand that you simply cannot be flippant within this lifestyle, your lack of judgement (naivete, perhaps) is exasperating. 


Perhaps, just as your lack of tolerance for other peoples life choices is equally exasperating

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 7:21:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		I wish you luck collarworthy. I have nothing further to add other that  I do not do age play, but since you do not understand the difference between a bottom/top/dom/me/submissive your ignorance is unsurprising. Say hello to your oompa loompas for me.

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 12:43:39 PM   
collarworthy


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Status: offline 		Oompa loompas and I appreciate your good wishes julie. But Im a seeker of knowledge, and now that you've stressed that you DONT age play, that still leaves me wondering which Daddy your sleeping with? I think its only fair that you take a moment to expain it. Lord knows you had no problem analyzing My profile, and picking out the areas you were disgusted with. I too have a father. So does Oompa actually. But neither of us have sex with them. So enlighten Me by answering the age old question :  "whos your Daddy baby?"  ( God I always wanted to say that )

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 2:29:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Peace collarworthy, may you find the happiness you always wanted for yourself. Before I never read another post you offer I just wanted to tell you, there is no shame in being a bottom.

You seem to be able to declare what others are and are not in your profile, claiming all dommes are lying whores and insinuating they only dom for financial gain. You are very good at handing out base judgments against all female kind, but you do not like it when others judge you, I find you rather amusing collarworthy. If you ever bothered to read my other posts I have never even insinuate that others should judge someone's orientation in the lifestyle, but with you I made an exception because you attempt to invalidate every domme and the relationship they have with their sub with your profile.

I notice most dommes quit posting to you pages ago because they find you are not worth the effort to type to, they were only interested in helping your submissive. I, on the other hand not being a domme, have zero protective instinct toward your sub. It is an odd thing really, real dominants feel protective toward submissives emotionally, and I saw that time and again with the posts I read directed at your sub, a sincere desire to help him. I have no desire to help those who refuse to help themselves.

Good luck again, and btw, your insults to me got zero rise out of me, I just enjoy playing with your blood pressure.. thanks for showing me I might have a sadistic side collarworthy...smiles.. I never have seen it before ...lol

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 3:22:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: collarworthy

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ORIGINAL: melnkolybabydoll

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ORIGINAL: urantiam

Using the word WHORE is just a way of saying she enjoys to be fucked.

Urantiam


i'm a pretty smart woman, yet i have NEVER seen this definition of "whore".   Hmmm, can someone point me in the right direction for the research

Ask and you shall receive:  Websters Dictionary definition of the word "whore"
 
  1. A prostitute.
  2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
  3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.


Note selection Number 2, as my job pays me well enuff that I dont need to ask for money for something I enjoy so much.  See? you lean something new everyday
 
 

I must say this thread has been great for laughs today. Wish I had seen it sooner. Not sure how you figure you fit selection number 2 though when your profile states * If you are truly a sub, than you will enjoy serving and that includes a very long list of chores and financial contributions.* which make me think of  selection number 1 or 3 as more fitting.

My thoughts on the real reason of the thread though, why would your sub get in the way? Just chain the sub up in a room not in use for the evenings activities if the M/D doesn't feel like warming up the paddle/cane on the sub. You never know the M/D might just want to use both you subs for the evenings activities. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 4:48:28 PM   
collarworthy


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Status: offline 		Peace back julie. Judging you for being a grown woman who calls her man daddy was wrong. We all have our little kinks ,which is why we're on this site in the first place. Some are stranger than others, but that doesnt change the validity of them.
Best wishes from both of us..............

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 4:51:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok Im sorry but I cant beleave this thread is still alive and kicking

that beeing said
Im scared for them both I dont want to see eather of them getting hurt but other then that (and my conserns on him beeing tied and left in the basment when she is haveing her funt because thats not really healthy for him) it isnt anyones bussyness they want to do this they both know what they are getting into NOTHIGN nayone says in gunna change their minds the only thing we can do is wish them luck.....

The fact is they are both grown adults in their middle age they both have life experiance they have their own minds and this is what they want we arent talking about 18yo kids here

so with that i wish you both luck!!

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/17/2006 5:07:33 PM   
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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/19/2006 10:00:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		As you can see my Mistress has spoken. Just by reading what she wrote, it is clear that this Goddess is not a sub.

Urantiam

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/19/2006 11:08:24 AM   
Calandra


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Status: offline 		Urantiam,
 
To be honest, even submissives are capable of getting angry, lashing out, and flaming (sorry guys, it's true). A Dominant that posted these comments would lose my respect quickly, simply because whether her words are true or not, the way she's expressed them shows that she lost control of her temper. How can someone who is not in control of herself hope to control someone else effectively? (notice I said EFFECTIVELY)
 
The control issue aside, I've seen her say things numerous times that reveals that she dosen't have a good understanding of aspects of this lifestyle. She will make a comment, but in a way designed to shut down communication, not designed to open communication and hopefully LEARN something. If this woman will be your focus for the future, then she should be willing to become more educated, skilled, and focused upon the JOB she is accepting as your Dominant. Once the newness wears off (and it will), what will you be left with as you serve this woman? If you plan to live this 24/7 then you have to know that you will both be willing to grow and change to suit whatever the future has in store.
 
Another issue, Her forceful belligerence of some of these people: I've watched many of these posters daily for a while now. I've agreed with them, disagreed with them, and observed their treatment of me and others carefully (it's what I do, I am interested in human interaction). Some of the people that have received hate-filled posts from your "goddess" are people who are peaceful in their dealings at every turn. Does that mean they always agree? no. Does that mean they avoid issues where they don't agree? No. It means that even when they don't agree, they stick to the issues and debate those, resisting the urge to attack the person behind the post. The fact that your "goddess" feels the need to flame and insult anyone who disagreed with her tells me volumes...
 
If you stay with this woman (and that is truly YOUR decision), then when things go badly in the future, you cannot say you were not warned. Should you find happiness serving her forever more, I am glad for you, but it tells me much about what you are all about as well....
 
Peace to you and your woman....

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/19/2006 6:43:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		To respond to your question. Yes, it will affect those that wish to be with cynthia, now that you will be around. Some will find it entertaining and want to join both of you, some will be repulsed, some will want you to watch, some will want to kick you out..for good. Saying you are prepared for this, and living through it are two different things though. I see no problem that she enjoys sex and wants multiple partners, health factors would be my main concern. No matter what she wants to be called in the bedroom, regardless of those words meanings are of no concern either. Some people like to be called things that have nothing to do with who they actually are, even at the time they are being called those words. I don't even have a problem with whatever the two of you have decided to call each other, nor your rolls, because you've discussed them and are fine with this. She is a bottom though. The fact that you could be hidden away in the basement is apalling, not for you, nor her, but for the lies to the unsuspecting person upstairs in her bedroom. I see this as wrong on many levels. If she's lying about you even existing, I feel that she would also lie about STD's. You have little regard about them yourself. This is totally unacceptable for the horney guy whose about to delve into her, regardless of who he is, if he's paying for it or not.
She has said that it would be fine if you meet first. I think this is the only sane thing I've seen on this.
I presonally know of a few vanilla relationships that started online and they are now considered long term, (one is still shorterm, since it's only 3 years offline). So far, this has not worked for me, as meeting someone from online is so very different when you end up meeting the same person offline. Now, you're adding a whole different dynamic to it, by including BDSM, which you're both new to. Now add that you're both going to potentionally lie to others that subbies are hidden away, yikes!!! <shaking head>
Since you asked for more responses from 'others'. Yes, I agree with the majority here. Yes, 'Run Forrest, Run'. Sometimes, just shear volumn might be enlightenment. However, I also don't think that will work in either of your cases.
I'm not a person who does munches, play parties, dungeons, etc., BUT I do see their definate purpose where the two of you are concerned. Since you're both new, plan on bringing others into this situation, I highly recommend that you BOTH go and see what the heck this BDSM is all about AND LEARN in realtime.
The last thing I'll add is this, if you can NOT contain yourself with what others have said of you here, online, in a forum of written words, just how the hell do you expect to deal with a Dom that comes into the house and says anything to you? Do you really think she's going to come to your rescue then? Do you think any Dom is going to stick around and let her mouth off to him? She admits she has little regard for subs, that they aren't real.
'Nuff said.

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/19/2006 10:15:04 PM   
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Die damn thread die I say

Jees let these to be let them make eachother happy or miserable just let it be already

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/19/2006 10:37:50 PM   
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(takes out a knife and starts stabbing the thread)
Die damn thread die I say

Jees let these to be let them make eachother happy or miserable just let it be already


This will be the last time I open this thread, much less post on it.

IT WILL NOT DIE UNTIL EVERYBODY STARTS IGNORING IT!!!!

Bye bye.

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RE: Mistress is worried - 6/20/2006 2:10:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: collarworthy

Personally, I enjoy sex far too much to ever demand payment for it


Understood.  However, would you gamble for sexual favors.

I have yet to figure out if gambling for sexual favors is submissive or Dominant or just on the fringe weird kink behaviors, but I tend to enjoy playing something that TAKES FOREVER TO GET TO THE FREAKING POINT like Backgammon.

Just me, could be wrong, etc.

Sinergy

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