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Missokyst -> RE: Funishment, punishment, or damn it just obey! (4/10/2011 8:40:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DomImus

If I had a new playmate who just absolutely hated being flogged - I mean really disliked it - that would rise to the top of my short list of favorite activities with her. I would get to know the person and focus on those things they really despise.

If it's punishment, it should be punishment. Punishing someone who gets off on being spanked with a spanking is pointless -


LOL that is evil. I love it. Sometimes I think I have a sick mentality because those things which I hate are often the most fascinating.



NorthernGent -> RE: Funishment, punishment, or damn it just obey! (4/10/2011 8:48:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

There has to be an intimate, meaningful relationship to make it worth my time.

And, yes, I like a bit of fun. I orientate towards more mischevious women - I find that an endearing characteristic. Of course, there is a limit to my patience. But, this remains obedience to my principle of what a relationship should be.
Gent,

This has been my preference as well. The most successful pairings I have had were with men who enjoyed playfulness, but were able to flip that switch in me that says "enough". I have had no problem obeying if the man I am with can embrace both sides of my personality, childlike and serious.





My estimation, Miss, is that more emotional human beings need to display and receive the full spectrum of human emotions, including a spot of playfulness from time to time - is there any animal species on this planet that doesn't enjoy play?



Arpig -> RE: Funishment, punishment, or damn it just obey! (4/10/2011 11:26:35 AM)

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So, what do you enjoy?
First and foremost, her company.

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Do you obey or expect obedience?
Simply put...yes. I expect her to do what she's told.
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Do you sometimes need to feel the tug of a rein and the snap of a whip?
Yes, of course. Its what I do for fun for me.
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Do you need to control your mate or dole out pleasure or pain because it is what YOU want?
Yes. I do what I do because I enjoy it. Hopefully she enjoys it as well, but that's her affair really.
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Or do you just want to wallow in pain or pleasure until gratitude spills out in to all areas of your relationships?
Ideally she will feel this way.



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Funishment, punishment, or damn it just obey! (4/10/2011 12:04:55 PM)

I am absolutely only submissive or a bottom when I choose to be. Any one who expected me to be other wise would be sorely disappointed.

So I fit the parts I left quoted.

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst


Do you sometimes need to feel the tug of a rein and the snap of a whip?
?
Or do you just want to wallow in pain or pleasure until gratitude spills out in to all areas of your
relationships?








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