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slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/8/2006 4:16:43 PM   
painslave97


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Status: offline 		this slave would greatly appreciate any tips on learn ing to not gag while deep throating Masters cock, no matter what position Master holds it's head. slave has less than 3 weeks to figure out how to not gag. HELP!! Please & Thank You
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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/8/2006 4:22:26 PM   
darq


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Status: offline 		Practice, practice, practice ... And accept that gagging is a naturally reflex ... You cannot hold a cock in your throat indefinately and expect never to gag.

A little realism goes a long way ...

But, the way I do it is ... I relax my throat (like when say aaahhhh or yawn ... ) and then I try to go straight down the length of the cock so there's not pressure at weird angles. It takes awhile to get the hang of it ...

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/8/2006 5:06:31 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear painslave97;

Might be, if you are a slight and light little lady/lass; that your mouth is not the size to accomidate no matter what technique.

Have your dentist to determine what size mouth and or dentures you would most likely fit into.  They have "guages."  If you are Adolescent size; the whole mouth structure is too small and you'll always gag.

Respectfully submitted,
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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/9/2006 1:53:45 AM   
darq


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Status: offline 		I would like to respectfully disagree ...

I have a very narrow jaw for an adult female and I will confess it was a huge struggle for me to overcome the gag reflex ... Fortunately for me, I've always enjoyed being very oral so I had a natural motivation for improving my technique ... I do occassionally still struggle not to gag and I've had some close calls where I've had to 'fake' it and pray the Dom didn't notice ... But for the most part, with practice and determination, you can overcome ...

Doms who insist on grabbing the head and 'skull  fucking' really aren't helping though ... Also, 3 week deadlines just seem kind of mean, to me. Its like setting the submissive up to fail ... You're so focused on how little time you have left that you can't really relax and let yourself learn. Relaxing is VITAL to overcoming the gag reflex.

If you find yourself still gagging in the middle of week 2, I might suggest respectfully pointing out to your dominant that you earnestly want to overcome this and be more pleasing to him. At least then he'll know that yes, you ARE trying and maybe he'll readjust his focus to helping you learn rather than giving you deadlines.

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/9/2006 2:16:31 AM   
givemyall


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Status: offline 		I totally agree with Darq, putting a time limit on this does seem a little mean and to be honest, counter productive..... you have to be relaxed and thats not possible if you can hear the ticking of a clock in your ear.  You dont want to be terrified of failing - afterall, terror can cause you to bite down.... perhaps you should mention this to your Master with a little glint in your eye!

I wish you the best of luck, im sure it will all work out in the end.

Claire




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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/9/2006 7:08:02 AM   
unquenchable


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Status: offline 		Motivation and practice.

Oh and for me, I need to angle my head just sooooooooo..smiles.

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/9/2006 2:52:25 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		The time limit does seem a bit over the top. 

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/9/2006 5:18:09 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I will tell you exactly how not to gag...
Laugh at him and say "is that all you have?"
shrinkage and deepthroating, without gagging are now at your disposal.
Am I smart or what?  been there, Kevin

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/9/2006 8:30:03 PM   
experimental1


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Status: offline 		now i have never done this but i have had my stomach pumped. get that done and i bet you wouldnt't have any problems. heh. good luck.

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/10/2006 7:16:24 AM   
iamsissymaid


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Status: offline 		My Mistresses boy freind is hung and yes to do it right try swaalowing that beatiful thing. Seems to work for his maid.

Sissy

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/10/2006 7:39:34 AM   
OhBeMyMind


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Status: offline 		What works for me is to lay on my back, with my head tipped just off the edge of the bed (this basically straightens out the line of the throat).  I really have to focus on relaxing, and breathing (get a good breath at any opportunity).   After doing it this way several times I learned positions where I didnt always have to be on my back.  Hope this helps...even a little.

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/10/2006 1:01:34 PM   
thehouseofkeys


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Status: offline 		My slave uses a self hypnosis tape that works. O/one should be aware that hypnotic suggestion only stays with you for a day or two and must be repeated, and with time and repeated deep throating the need for the use of the tape becomes less and less.

I often require her to suck for well over an hour, and she is quite able to deep throat nine inches on a regular basis

                              MK
Ps, I have no idea where she bought the tape.

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/10/2006 1:04:48 PM   
littlewolfe


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Status: offline 		how littlewolfe learn to do with out gagging   was to go to the local toy store and buy some spray that deadends your gag reflexs   and once she got the hang of it she quit using the spray and now she has no problems  doing so

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/10/2006 1:13:35 PM   
Bearlee


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Status: offline 		I have been blessed with little or no gag reflex whatsoever, so things just sorta came naturally for me (pardon the pun).  But I'm curious why you'd want to bother learning so intimate a 'task' for a boar of a man, anyway?  Nobody with a brain in their head or a heart in their body would put a time-limit on such a thing...

IMHO   ...YMMV

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 5/10/2006 5:35:52 PM   
Rayne58


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Status: offline 		Master likes it when I gag, He says my throat tightens up wonderfully on His cock then
I've no idea on how to stop it - it's not a problem for us, He just stops while I cough and swallow and then we go back to it

I am not good with having my breathing obstructed though. Doing it with my head over the side of the bed I got a bit panicky, His cock went down my throat ok but then I could not breathe and I used my safe signal. We have not tried it again

Three weeks is not very long, we have been together 2 yrs + and I still gag, and I give at least 3 or 4 blowjobs a week A time limit is only setting you up to fail IMO

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 9/20/2009 4:44:45 PM   
olderm4youngerf


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Status: offline 		Hypnotic suggestion can be quite permanent when done properly.
I have been perfoming hypnosis for 27 years and have progressed to the point that I can put most people under in less than 5 seconds. The durability of the suggestion is based on the depth of the trance as well as the proper wording and use of the suggestion. It's usually best to ask the subject who is under trance what will work best to achieve the desired result.

Example what is it that cuses you to gag?.......Their answer.

Tell me what would work to stop your gagging while deep throating?......... Their answer.

Ok now take a few minutes in your own mind and solve this problem for yourself and place this soloution into your memory while running it over and over through your thoughts in a continuous loop then put in place a trigger in your mind that will run this loop whenever your dep throating when you know you have overcome this problem and have a extremely strong trigger in place raise your right hand over your head.

You then be silent and wait for them to raise their hand. Sometimes it will be immediate other times it will take a considerable time. I had a smoker sat quietly in trance for 2 hours 20 minutes it took this long for his mind to solve the problem. I asked before bringing him out what it was he had done. he said he went into his entire lifes memory and took every memory he had of himself smoking removed the memory of the cigarettes ashtrays and everything associated with smoking and locked them in a box which he then burned in an incinerator in his mind. He has not smoked in 7 years.

Hypnosis can be very useful in D/s you can dull or eliminate pain or just the opposite. You can increase sensitivity on any individual point on or in the body. I once had a girl so I could place my index finger in her closed fist and she would feel it in her pussy. I could fuck her in public this way and no one was the wiser.
Her left hand was her pussy and her right was her mouth. She was set so that when I pushed my finger all the way into her right fist she would begin gagging.

Anyway sorry for rambling on. I'm sure you get the just of it Hypnosis is only as good as the operator
and must always be consensual.

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 9/21/2009 3:29:58 AM   
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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 9/21/2009 3:42:04 AM   
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may be I should e-mail her randomly and ask.......that wouldn't be creepy, would it? lol

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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 9/21/2009 3:46:03 AM   
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RE: slave needs tips on not gagging - 9/21/2009 6:29:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PyrotheClown

I wonder how she did......



By now, she MUST have stopped gagging...


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