Alright, nobody asks you to buy "everything" - though I didn't think LP was selling anything. Just thinking that we (LP and myself) come from completely different angles, meaning she's poly, I'm not, she's into protocol, I'm not, she's strictly heterosexual, I'm not, yet we pretty much agree on a lot, she takes safety issues pretty seriously, she takes maintaining toys and hygiene VERY seriously, loyalty - also non negotiable for both of us. So why the aggro? Yes, girls hit on her, so what? And Mr P can't get his own sub, well you know it's much harder for a guy, in fact LP and myself had a discussion not too long ago about how strange it seems that we both can turn up at places where they don't know us and subs (male and female but predominantly male) will cue up because we have the clothes and toys, we were both marvelling that they don't even know if we borrowed them from somebody else, we could both be clueless bimbos and maim them, doesn't even seem to cross their minds. It's not being special, it's just being female, not desperately ugly and having the right toys and possibly some sort of sex appeal. It's just life, deal with it... Not to mention the fact that male subs in general seem to be a bit more desperate... (generalization I know, but please go to any fetish event and tell me it's not true - or just go to a bar and look at the difference how guys and girls behave...)
As form Mrs Clip, I don't know her so I can only venture guesses, but some people are not interested in sex, or are not interested in sex with anybody else but their partner, since I'm monogamous, I wouldn't say that's 100% true for myself, but I made the rule (also for myself) that if I should be so interested in having sex with another person that it becomes close to unbearable, that something is wrong with the relationship, so I would take it up with my partner and possibly split. Just the way I am wired.
Bottom line is, we are all different, what works for LP and her family wouldn't work for me, now since it works for them, more power to them... I doubt I'd have the energy they invest into their relationship...
(edited in concert with the user-Mod21)
< Message edited by ModTwentyOne -- 5/12/2011 1:39:08 PM >
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