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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/19/2011 9:21:24 PM   
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if its done right, it all hurts.

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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/19/2011 9:23:00 PM   
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/19/2011 9:26:18 PM   
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/19/2011 9:54:37 PM   
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/19/2011 10:24:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Actually(or so my owner says) it can hurt , even with a good lover. Depending on if you want it to or not. As someone else stated...length, width, how hard it is getting "hit" all effect things. In my opinion they are pretty much the same thing. It all just depends on how much you want it.

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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 7:31:51 AM   
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...leads me to speculate is there ever a time in other contexts when there is no time for lube...


It sorta depends on how strongly you need to make your point. Nothing quite says, "bitch, I told you we are through, and not to come around me anymore," like a dry buttfuck, when she thinks she's getting back in with some make-up sex.

Sounds like harsh way to deliver a message albeit I am sure most effective! Interestingly I heard a while back that in Africa a lot of men like "dry" sex, and there are even herbs sold to dry any natural lubricant!!!



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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 10:10:44 AM   
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It can, just as anal can. If you don't produce enough bodily lubrication and don't add lube, then it will hurt. If he's too big and bumps the cervix, that can hurt.


On top of that, if someone kept you busy a lot down there one day and you meet your ex for some 1:1 time the next day it can still hurt due to being sore...

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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 11:29:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		yep it can hurt alot. i certainly don't need extra lube but i do struggle with big cocks no matter how much play i've had beforehand. alot of rough sex is also going to make me sore, however, i have found that i rather enjoy that. the initial sting before the endorphines kick in is rather nice.

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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 2:21:32 PM   
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Compare contrast vaginal sex to anal sex. Does it hurt like anal sex does?
I would have to say it depends on what you are stuffing up her and what it's been coated with.

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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 4:09:26 PM   
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 5:06:23 PM   
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Their pain means nothing to me as long as I get my pleasure.
personally i find their pain (and mine) to be a great source of pleasure.

hannah lynn



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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 5:16:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Anal sex does not necessarily hurt at all.

I learned this from reading Jack Morin's Anal Pleasure and Health.

Until I read it and tried the techniques in it, I always assumed some pain was inevitable.
It isn't.



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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 5:28:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		^  angelicaJ's refernce to Jack Morin's book is a nice tip.  I dug up a free excerpt you can page through his entire 10 tips section. 


10 Rules of Anal Sex by Jack Morin
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 5:48:51 PM   
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 7:21:04 PM   
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 7:29:28 PM   
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 7:39:19 PM   
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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/20/2011 11:53:20 PM   
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Anal sex.   (can make me cringe just thinking about it.)
You're kind of leaving a lot of words out hunkie, aren't you? M

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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/21/2011 5:08:48 AM   
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Buy yourself the book I mentioned.

The whole point of it is that anal sex is not necessarily painful.

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RE: Ladies, does sex hurt? - 4/21/2011 6:03:56 AM   
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Anal sex.   (can make me cringe just thinking about it.)


One thing all females should remember about men is that their g spot is up their ass. This says so much about them !!

Seriously, if you've never had your g spot digitally massaged, you really don't know what you are missing. Many dom males won't go there, which I consider a serious shame. I would venture to say most men love it once they have tried it.

As far as anal with a strap on, that requires a whole other level of trust. But again, someone good with a strap on who has done some digital probing and knows where your g spot is can have you screaming in pure pleasure very quickly.




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