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Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 12:33:45 PM   
straponslave281


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Status: offline 		Yes I'm 25 and I'm a submissive. I found this site hopeing to find somone for casual play. I have got a few emails but they all seem fake. is there anyone on here that can tell me how to find a women to do these things to me for free. I mean there's gotta be some women out there whould like to do these things . I mean what women wouldn't want a man to control. If anyone can help please email ne.
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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 12:55:18 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		First of all, welcome to CM.  I checked your profile and it's all about "you, you, you"! What you want done to you.
What do you bring to the table that would be of interest to the Dominant. You have to realize that we get many offers to use a boy in the manner you offer.
That offer is not the least interesting. To get your fetishes satisfied your best bet is to find a pro who will cater to your specific wants.

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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 12:58:00 PM   
wittynamehere


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ORIGINAL: straponslave281
Finding A Real Dom.

Common error is to assume that people are "fake" instead of realizing that they simply aren't a good match for them. Everybody here is real, but not everybody here is suitable for you. Most of us set aside months or years to find a suitable relationship using this site. You may be able to rush it and make it happen in weeks, but then you may be messed up and back to square one right away if you do it that way. Set aside at least a year to make things start to happen, or go to an escort and pay to be spanked.


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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 1:03:48 PM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		OP - welcome to cm, and I will echo what the previous posters have said.

But I will add - dear lord, what the hell is that profile all about? It reads like the worst kind of porn, complete with dreadful spelling and minimal punctuation.

You come across as chaotic and desperate - not the two best qualities to present to the rest of the world.

But read the FAQ at the top of the 'Ask A Mistress' section, rewrite your profile and hopefully you'll find what you're looking for.

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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 1:15:34 PM   
smartsub10


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Status: offline 		Whining about not being able to find a woman to do things to you for free is soooooo unattractive.  I have a feeling you've been watching a lot of porn and just don't have a clue what this lifestyle is really about.  Take the advice of the others and try to present yourself in your profile as someone a Domme would like to get to know and possibly develop a relationship. 

Welcome to CM and good luck in your search.


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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 1:22:16 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Watching too much porn may be it, but I see it more as... women should be the sluts they are and service the men... what the heck is the matter with them that they don't jump at someone wanting a little casual action, like the slut servers we should be. I think it goes far deeper into thinking one should get what they want and then get upset when women prove they aren't the little sluts some think they should be and their expectations are a bit on the fantasy or disrespectful side.

But, just call me old and cranky if you want. Respect might beget a bit of respect and surely far more action.

Welcome to CM... you may have a lot to learn.


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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 1:27:19 PM   
BurntKitty


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM.

I agree with the idea of a profile re-write. Keep in mind, there's a lot more male submissives than female dominants so you should try to stand apart from the pack.
Instead of telling them what you want done to you, let them know what you can for for the woman. Other than kink or sex, what else are you interested in?
Just an FYI. Good luck finding a partner.

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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 1:37:11 PM   
ashjor911


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Status: offline 		Welcome To CM


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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 3:28:03 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		good luck

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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 4:10:48 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Controlling a man is not about what "A Real Dom" will do to fulfill your needs OP. I should qualify that statement to say unless your needs are to serve "A Real Domme" (yes, a female) in the manner/ways that suit Her needs and desires. Her needs and desires may have absolutely nothing to do with using you in any sexual fashion. Sorry to burst your bubble, but males like you are a dime a dozen and your 'me, me, me' attitude will get you nowhere.

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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 4:16:23 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Welcome to CM.

Every casual play partner that I currently have are folks that I have met at munches and events.  If you want to play, I would suggest to you to go where the people who are playing are getting together. 


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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 4:53:32 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: straponslave281

is there anyone on here that can tell me how to find a women to do these things to me for free. I mean there's gotta be some women out there whould like to do these things .

Women are simple.  They will Domme a man for money, or for a relationship.

So, obviously, you need to figure out what kind of relationship you can offer a woman, and let them know what you offer.


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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 7:12:23 PM   
slavelk


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Status: offline 		wel come

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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/24/2011 8:37:42 PM   
cooper1982


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Status: offline 		Hello welcome to cm. If you just looking for someone to play with try looking up a s&m club near you.

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RE: Finding A Real Dom. - 4/25/2011 4:06:47 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		You want someone to do it for free, no problem, do what i do, select the woman, call her a slag and question her morals, i find they usually want to kill me as a direct result!

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