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peppermint -> RE: 'tributes'. any opinions? (4/30/2011 3:13:56 AM)

Yes, I have an opinion.  I believe you should give up looking on the internet.  Attend your local munch and events.  There you will meet Dommes.  If you wow one of them with your personality then your goal is met. 



kalikshama -> RE: another do-me sub (4/30/2011 4:54:13 AM)

quote:

now its off to look at profiles again and find another nice looking dirty bitch to use me


You might have better luck just going to a dungeon and paying.



sunshinemiss -> Yes, I'm a do-me, hanky-spanky sub (4/30/2011 6:10:26 AM)

There is nothing wrong with being a "do-me" sub. I just say Hanky Spanky. People want what they want, someone else wants to give it to 'em? What's the problem. I really don't get why people hate this.

I mean... there is NO OPTION for putting "BOTTOM" or "TOP" here at CM. *Not complaining, merely noting. "Sub" is as close as you can get to "bottom".

best,
sunshine



WantsOfTheFlesh -> RE: Kana needs a panty tribute (4/30/2011 7:45:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mancslave2
surely nobody out there gets a thrill from being ripped off?


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delilya
Pay piggies get off on the humiliation of being ripped off. It's their kink. It makes them feel like the worthless scum they believe they are. You have your kink, I have mine, and they have theirs.

True, some do like being ripped off, and an interesting (IMHO) question arises with online tribute. Do pay pigs do it to just be ripped off in the context of some sort of domme-sub relationship? I think so and some seemingly genuine dommes do demand it. Problem is that a situation where someone can nakedly demand money from another will draw scammers out like flies to shit so its probably a big hairy guy behind the attractive pic of a domme. ...and yet for all I know maybe that could get some off too!!! [:D]

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ORIGINAL: mancslave2
its just so annoying when a profile and the pics look appealing then youre confronted with a demand for online cash 'tribute' and its been a waste of your time writing. now its off to look at profiles again and find another nice looking dirty bitch to use me. hehe.

True. If there is one thing I would like to see on this site is a separate section for pro-dommes just as a time saving feature so that people will find it easier to find what they want. However, even that would probably be controversial as some dommes who demand tribute might say it is just a sexual kink and would not see themselves as professios! [&o]



Killerangel -> RE: 'TRIBUTES' YOUR OPINIONS (gimme back my name!!) (4/30/2011 8:40:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mancslave2

many good points so thank you to you all. ill comment on what i can remember.
i havent been ripped off yet,. its just so annoying when a profile and the pics look appealing then youre confronted with a demand for online cash 'tribute' and its been a waste of your time writing. now its off to look at profiles again and find another nice looking dirty bitch to use me. hehe.
enjoy your kinks all you want. i got no problems with someone else being ripped off it its gets them off.
personally id like to see them on a different site just for people who wanna be ripped off then us who are just willing to pay for services online or in person may carry on here.



OP, do you watch commercials? In real life does body spray for men result in hordes of women following you around during the day? Yes, it's disappointing to find out that what is being advertised is not what you get, but that's why it's being advertised the way it is- so some guy somewhere will hand over some cash. Sure the pictures of women on here or any equivalent site look appealing, they're designed to get money for some man or woman on the other end. There are a lot of people out in the world who don't care about taking other people's money under false pretences.

Look, it's going to be hard for you to find a woman to Domme you - there are a lot of male subs and not a lot of Dommes. Your best bet is to go find someone in person and take it from there. On places like this if it looks too good to be true then it probably is. If you're concerned with wasting your time writing tribute Dommes then look for the average type person and expand your outlook outside of kink/sex. You've had to have figured out by now that any profile with an attractive woman who is offering sex or kink is going to be a tribute situation. Hone your filtering skills and get a clue and you won't be wasting your efforts so often.



sheisreeds -> RE: 'TRIBUTES' YOUR OPINIONS (gimme back my name!!) (4/30/2011 8:51:37 AM)

Nothin' in this world is free baby!

Hot chicks expect ugly men with poor social skills to pay.

If you want a good deal you gotta work for it.



mnottertail -> RE: 'TRIBUTES' YOUR OPINIONS (gimme back my name!!) (4/30/2011 8:53:42 AM)

And apparently women need more money to buy products which control their 'stank'.

Just found this out.



sunshinemiss -> Are Otter Swim and MN Otter Tail related? (4/30/2011 8:58:54 AM)

Actually Ron, I think you misread that. The only thing a gal needs is some water and a bit of air.

Unless there is a medical issue of course - and that goes for dudes, too.



sheisreeds -> RE: Are Otter Swim and MN Otter Tail related? (4/30/2011 9:20:05 AM)

"And apparently women need more money to buy products which control their 'stank'. "

More like money for batteries.



LaTigresse -> RE: 'TRIBUTES' YOUR OPINIONS (gimme back my name!!) (4/30/2011 9:39:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: mancslave2

many good points so thank you to you all. ill comment on what i can remember.
i havent been ripped off yet,. its just so annoying when a profile and the pics look appealing then youre confronted with a demand for online cash 'tribute' and its been a waste of your time writing. now its off to look at profiles again and find another nice looking dirty bitch to use me. hehe.
enjoy your kinks all you want. i got no problems with someone else being ripped off it its gets them off.
personally id like to see them on a different site just for people who wanna be ripped off then us who are just willing to pay for services online or in person may carry on here.



Sooooooooo....... basically you just joined, then decided to introduce yourself to us by whining about something that is none of your business AT ALL???

So very attractive and what a great way to begin your time at Collarme.

If you are serious about joining us here, serious about finding someone to be in a relationship with........... I suggest you delete your account. Stop and think why this thread was such a really horrible idea, then start over.

OR.........reflect on the aforementioned stupidity, tell us with sincerity why you then realize you began as a total putz and moron, laugh about it with us, repent and move on. Proving that you are indeed, a person worth pursuing a valid relationship with.



Zonie63 -> RE: 'tributes'. any opinions? (4/30/2011 10:38:41 AM)

I have nothing against paying for any goods or services I receive. If we're talking about a business transaction, then that's how I would approach it. Let the buyer beware.

Just out of curiosity for anyone who might know: Are there any trade organizations or some kind of equivalent of the Better Business Bureau when it comes to pro-dommes or "tribute"? Are there any who are licensed, bonded, and insured? That's what I would be looking for. Business is business.

But in the social/dating realm, I would think that's different, because the presumption is that there is a mutual desire which goes beyond money. When both parties are seeking out a long-term relationship based on sexual compatibility and mutual interests, then one has to assume that this is what they actually want, since that's how they're spending their free time.

If someone really isn't into it and doesn't want to be with me and feels they need to be paid for their time, then it reverts back to a business transaction. Not that there's anything wrong with that, as long as that distinction is clearly made.




poise -> RE: Kana needs a panty tribute (5/1/2011 5:11:57 AM)

......and not a single pair of panties were donated to the cause. [:(]



Hillwilliam -> RE: Kana needs a panty tribute (5/1/2011 6:45:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: poise

......and not a single pair of panties were donated to the cause. [:(]

You wouldn't wear em anyway.



poise -> RE: Kana needs a panty tribute (5/1/2011 7:17:01 AM)

Perhaps not, but he asked so nicely!

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana
I have three kitties and they say the house quota is filled, so panties it is, ladies.




thabto -> RE: Kana needs a panty tribute (5/1/2011 8:28:09 AM)

Well I am guessing some people enjoy being controlled financially. So the people who ask for tributes should really only have tributes sent by those who enjoy losing control over their money. just my opinion though.



subfever -> RE: 'tributes'. any opinions? (5/1/2011 2:40:34 PM)

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Bones actually gave the comment on the matter that I would have. The site specifically puts the warning not to send money to other users for any reason. I never understand why people question it beyond that.


Most likely due to desperation and/or wishful thinking.



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