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BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/7/2011 2:30:34 PM)

well i guess im gonna be given my "bob" a work out from now on and slow my roll .:) thanks again



Rochsub2009 -> RE: absence of attention (5/7/2011 2:32:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

i guess your right about whats below the waist ......now as far as no more free pussy . i get it or maybe i should say im not getting it ...........but this last lession i learned is i have the strength to say no . i have been doing that all this week .



My work here is done, Ma'am.

Hi ho Silver........Away! 



BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/7/2011 2:38:37 PM)

well i think i will just have to slow my roll and think my head and not my kitty lol she just needs to behave and for when i can't just give "bob" a workout when need be . i know it has a lot to do with me hating to be alone as well .



NocturnalStalker -> RE: absence of attention (5/7/2011 2:40:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

lol i guess your right about whats below the waist . it was the very first pic i ever took from that point of view and i wanted to share . now as far as no more free pussy . i get it or maybe i should say im not getting it .lol i say lol but its not funny since i turned 39 my sex drive is insane and now i'm suppose to not fuck . that i must get to know the person more i have been in a vanilla relationship foer 21 yrs of my life before coming to bdsm. i was a huge slut when i was first exposed to sex . i so see why a lot of men have a problem keeping it in their pants because everytime iam single im the same way at times .but this last lession i learned is i have the strength to say no . i have been doing that all this week . how do i stay strong when my sex drive is so high ? masturbating only makes it worse . the more i get the more i want most of the time :(


Can I bite your neck until blood comes out?

Please?



BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/7/2011 2:49:52 PM)

well i do have enough self contol to put the bad kitty away . i just really didn't want to . petulent me at times . i'll visit "bob" or a cold shower when need be . i have seen all possible dr for my sex drive as well . dr says it's perfectly normal for some women at my age to have an incress in their libido .



BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/7/2011 3:10:21 PM)

i am just going to have to put the bad kitty to rest for awhile and play with myself literaly . I have had my yearly physical and the Dr said my incress in my libido is perfectly normal for a lot of women my age possible early menopause symptoms iam always hot .



BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/7/2011 3:21:55 PM)

wow sorry for the repeat post my cell if triping again . bite away but thats all your gonna get for today lol



DarkSteven -> RE: absence of attention (5/7/2011 4:17:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

please to some of you this might seem like a dumb ? but to me a dumb ? is one not asked . what does polysnortatious mean


"Poly" generally refers to polyamory, which means loving several.  Greedy used to use the term "snort" in her posts to indicate that she was laughing hard at something.  I coined the term "polysnortatious" to refer to how frequently she snorted, and she adopted it in her signature.  [:)]



sexyred1 -> RE: absence of attention (5/8/2011 7:42:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

Oh the pussy pic I have tryd to remove not much luck with that . I also felt if I put that pic then the guy knows what he would be getting from the waist down .



I don't mean to sound snarky, but unless you're a transvestite, or a pre-op transexual, I think most men know exactly what they're getting from the waist down.  We don't require photographic evidence. 

Now, your job is to make sure that it's no longer free.  [;)]



You got that right. And really, OP, it sounds as if you are having low self esteem issues, which is never going to get you to the right place.

As everyone has mentioned, ad nauseum, when you let someone treat you in a way that makes you feel bad, it is your fault for allowing them to do so.




BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/8/2011 12:25:31 PM)

i do see the error of my ways and i own it . i did let this happen it was a very important lesson learned and unfortunately i would not have learned any other way . iam much better for it i need to stay focused on the whole experience and not get lost in the sex . i have a tendency to do that a lot .



TheShrew -> RE: absence of attention (5/8/2011 3:25:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Dumb question - if you're looking for more than fuck buddies, why do you have a pussy picture on your profile?  You get what you advertise for.


This.



couple4life -> RE: absence of attention (5/9/2011 4:32:36 PM)

I have never been a fan of a Dom applying to be with you, It sounds like a job to me. If you are wanting to build a relationship with a real dominant, then a list of things he has done (or possibly just made up doing) to another woman is not always a good start in my own opinion. Put some information on what you like, who you are, and what you are seeking, and it might help steer you in a better direction.

Ps. Ever heard of men liking a bit of mystery? There is no mystery to a pussy pic!

Anne



angelikaJ -> RE: absence of attention (5/9/2011 5:00:01 PM)

zies
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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

i do see the error of my ways and i own it . i did let this happen it was a very important lesson learned and unfortunately i would not have learned any other way . iam much better for it i need to stay focused on the whole experience and not get lost in the sex . i have a tendency to do that a lot .


It sounds like sub-frenzy clouds your judgement.
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/Lifestyle/sub_frenzies.htm 

I have a relationship that includes a lot of sex, but it is a relationship.
It is not 24/7, but I see him every week (often more than once).

I did not have a pussy picture up on my profile.
(If revealing that part of who you are is important to you, then it is.)
I did not even have any BDSM interests checked off, nor did my profile text discuss my BDSM interests/desires.

It gave a very brief snapshop of who I was as a person outside of WIITWD.

The end result, is I have a Master who wanted to know me outside of the play arena.
I am more than just a fuck-toy; not that there is anything wrong with being a fuck-toy, if that is your wish, but you seemed to find that lacking. 

Figure out what you want and then behave in such a way that you don't send out confusing messages.
If you want a more serious involvement, then perhaps your profile shouldn't have a 'plaything' feel.

Best wishes-from someone who went from not knowing what she wanted to finding her bliss.



BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/9/2011 7:17:40 PM)

i appreciate everything i have heard . i have been trying to remove my pussy pic with no such luck :( mayb eventually i'll figure our how to remove the pic



littlewonder -> RE: absence of attention (5/9/2011 7:45:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

i appreciate everything i have heard . i have been trying to remove my pussy pic with no such luck :( mayb eventually i'll figure our how to remove the pic


click on edit profile
scroll down to bottom where your photos are
find photo from the drop down box
click on

Check here to remove this photo

save profile




Rochsub2009 -> RE: absence of attention (5/9/2011 7:50:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing

i have been trying to remove my pussy pic with no such luck :( mayb eventually i'll figure our how to remove the pic


Go to the tab that says "Edit profile".  Click on that.

Once you are on that page, scroll down to your picture.  Directly beneath it, it will say "select a photo to edit or detete".  Select which one you want to delete.  In your case, it's the "Additional photo 4".  Then click on the box that says "check here to remove this photo".  Finally, scroll down to the box that says "Update profile", and you're done.



Rochsub2009 -> RE: absence of attention (5/9/2011 7:51:41 PM)

Oops!  I see that Littlewonder was typing instructions at the same time I was.  



littlewonder -> RE: absence of attention (5/9/2011 7:55:43 PM)

heh...well now she has no excuse lol



BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/11/2011 1:26:37 PM)

thank you for the instructions . i think i figured it out and removed the pic . well i hope so anyway .



BeautifulSufforing -> RE: absence of attention (5/15/2011 8:56:22 AM)

wow i didn't realize a pic of my pussy was really a big issue this is an adult website which focus is completely based on kink i don't need an excuse for my pic's u don't like what you see don't look . as for me a person who always hid from the camera that pic ina way was like independence day from one of my own personal bondage . so if i women puts a pic of her clit means iam probally only wanting a fuck partner an nothing else . then what does a dick pic mean . also i have to disagree about its all pretty much the same from the waist down. thats complete bs have you ever seen the exact same two on anyone .? hell even identical twins are not the same lol one might be a lighter shade of pink than the other for crying out loud . just my personal opinion . lol i love this ls :)



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