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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/16/2011 2:59:48 PM   
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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/16/2011 3:24:24 PM   
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someone is truly....... open minded.


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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/16/2011 3:38:45 PM   
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Finally.......
someone is truly....... open minded.



I would consider it closed-minded to think that people who have age preferences for their mate are closed-minded.

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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/16/2011 4:58:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaliko
I would consider it closed-minded to think that people who have age preferences for their mate are closed-minded.


did not say that,

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ORIGINAL: ashjor911

Finally.......
someone is truly....... open minded.



Truly,
I ment by it, the first one Who dont think its above 40 to become a man, or women.
most of us here dont want to listen to who is under 40, in kinky way.....
i think you got the point..... if not i will try to explane tommorrow...... for now its a headeack or my head would explode.

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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/16/2011 5:21:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ashjor911
Finally.......
someone is truly....... open minded.


Well don't get all excited, i was thinking of older ages, not any ages. i actually have a preference against younger guys, but then it's really more of a emotional maturity thing.

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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/16/2011 5:40:06 PM   
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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 1:19:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Age in a non issue, unless he is young enough to have been my son at 20,
A more seious consideration, is his maturity. M

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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 1:56:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, you people are so cute.  You always look in the "long-term."  Unless you have some grand plan of beginning a family or being a freeloader, have some fun!  I pity those that only enter relationships that "have potential."  Yeah, yeah, maturity is awesome, great, stupendous, I love it, you love it, your cat loves it, we all love it.  However, it gets boring.  People get boring!  You gotta switch it up!  You know what really tenses my muscles?  Those, "this is my undisputed lover in life" types because that is an obvious lie.  First off, I'm in existence and secondly no person is bound to another exclusively.  The last female to say that to me?  I dropped her.  Right there.  I can't take that pressure.  I'm not prepared for that stuff.

Now you all won't listen to my ramblings, but just remember!  A Chessmaster knows how to utilize every piece to their full potential instead of just relying on the Queen!  Speaking of which, I wish these homosexuals would stop quitting on Yahoo Chess.  No offense to homosexuals.




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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 3:09:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've always preferred older women, but at my age they are becoming much harder to find. So realistically speaking I've had my day in the sun, so maybe now it's time to sit in the shade.
One point i would like to make though is that age shouldn't be a barrier to friendship, so it does rather depend on the kind of relationship you're looking for.

Something else to consider as well is that finding a real sub or Dom'me isn't that easy. There seem to be plenty of adverts, but few happy endings. Perhaps it's the nature of the beast, or maybe It's just getting harder to find long term partners in general, but it does seem to me that one growth industry just now is dating sites, and another is Pro Dommes.




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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 3:10:02 AM   
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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 3:26:19 AM   
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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 5:21:06 AM   
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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 6:19:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		so,. Kana..I'm 336....

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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 6:21:39 AM   
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so,. Kana..I'm 336....

*grins*



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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 6:29:04 AM   
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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 6:53:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		If somebody is technically young enough to be my child, it doesn't do much for me, I'm not into craddle snatching and while there are a lot of nice people around in their late teens or possibly being 20, they just don't turn me on, I can chat with them, laugh with them and all that, but in a partner or even just a play partner, I want somebody who has lived a bit, who doesn't live in mom's basement, is figuring things out for him/herself, paying the mortgage is more important than the latest fashion, some things I might have done 10 or 20 years ago on a whim I wouldn't do now... It would have to be a rare and mature youngster to catch my interest, but yeah, there are also immature people of any age...

The funny thing is, if I see some kiddie know it all crow here that we don't know how to have fun because we don't want to shag around indiscriminately, and lectures us about how much he knows, I just want to laugh and I congratulate myself that I don't have offspring, been there, done that, didn't find it all that great, if I had the patience, I'd possibly keep an eye on them and wait until they realize that there is more to life, but I guess I'm not that interested and there will always be another whipper-snapper who knows it all...

The really funny thing is that I dreaded turning 30, I was freaking paranoid, it turns out to be the most relaxing chapter in my personal life, I know myself a lot better, I know what I like and don't like, I don't take things too seriously and I can let things just happen and concentrate on things that are really important to me. Now it makes sense that I want to be with somebody who sees things the same way and doesn't run in different directions, trying to figure things out...

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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 7:12:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it depends on both sides like if neither mind then its all good but if one of them doesn't like being many years older than the other or many years younger than the other then I think going their own way is a great idea!

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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 7:18:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		My philosophy as to age is the same as Erica Jong's; I dom't want to be their nurse, and I don't want to be their purse. That goes for both older and younger men.

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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 7:49:08 AM   
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My philosophy as to age is the same as Erica Jong's; I don't want to be their nurse, and I don't want to be their purse. That goes for both older and younger men.


Amen!


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RE: is age a automatic deal breaker - 5/17/2011 10:33:04 AM   
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Hypothetically you meet someone who is the bull to your whip ( I know it was corny but Im sure you get the point) , yet theyre younger than you. Do you put your superficiality aside or are your preferences your preferences.

Well I knew exactly what you meant by "Bull to a whip" and to answer the question.

It would depend on the person. My parents were a good bit different in age and they've lasted over 30 years. I don't believe I ever saw more than one or two arguments in that whole time.

So if you're contemplating age for a real time and personal reason, I'd say take a chance. If it doesn't work out, what have you lost, really.


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