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twicehappy -> PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 5:51:10 AM)

This is for all you women out there. What kind of symptoms do you suffer from during pms? How does it affect your relationship with your Dom/Domme or sub/slave?

Personally i have been told i resemble Linda Blair in the Exorcist split pea soup and all. I am cranky, ok i'm normally the most submissive slave in the world to my owners, but during this time of the month i know ripping heads off is a possibility with me.

I've also been told that the only suitable sex partner for me during pms would be a Klingon or possibly one of the greater demons. Yes it is that ugly.

I stay physically hot and sweaty,sleep like the dead almost constantly, have a serious aversion to all food, meat, even the smell of meat makes me violently ill, the usual headache and backache, and as to horny; well let's just say the demon would be afraid and plead to be allowed to return to hell rather than suffer definite damage at my hands.

My owners after witnessing this 360 degree personality change the 1st time, eat vegetarian or eat out, are very quiet and warn their grown children away. Occasionally they leave chocolate out hoping it works.

Medically i've been told i just have exceptionally high hormones.

Before all you Doms out there start chiming in "i'd just tie you up" remember my Master is a strong physically fit man and he has my Mistress to help and neither of them want to attempt it and they know i adore them. You have to catch me and keep me still first.

This is not asking for help in this situation. We know what to do, let me sleep, no cooking, meat especially, and it will be over in a few days. Just curious about others issues with it. 




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 5:57:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: twicehappy
What kind of symptoms do you suffer from during pms?

After I ovulate, the two weeks before my period starts, my breasts become more and more sensitive, to the point where it hurts to lay down on my stomach at night. The three days before my period, I gain a highly sensitive emotional trigger and become slightly agoraphobic.

quote:

 How does it affect your relationship with your Dom/Domme or sub/slave?

They know my symptoms, they know my cycle, but none of us allow it to excuse any wrong doing- in attitude or behavior.  I try to do a lot of focused breathing around the days before my period.

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Occasionally they leave chocolate out hoping it works.

LOL actually avoiding chocolate and drinking lots of water are the best things for me to mediate my PMS symptoms.

quote:

This is not asking for help in this situation. We know what to do, let me sleep, no cooking, meat especially, and it will be over in a few days. Just curious about others issues with it. 

I think that's exactly the way to do it- know what you're dealing with and then just deal with it.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_222485/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#222485
Should a sub be allowed

http://www.collarchat.com/m_124443/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#124443
PMS and the submissive

http://www.collarchat.com/m_28039/mpage_1/key_pms/tm.htm#28039
serious question about pms




becca333 -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 5:58:02 AM)

Wow you get it bad!

I get really weepy and wildly emotional, I get a sudden rage that frightens me and leaves me shaking.

I don't avoid scening during those times, but I find it's a different kind of emotional ride.  Oddly, I find it harder to hit subspace then, too.

Hormones - our own private internal theme park, with lots of scary thrill rides!




slavejali -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 6:13:43 AM)

You should go see a naturapath twicehappy...it could really help.

PMS symptoms for me: I get needy for cuddles and am more likely to cry.




Aileen68 -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 6:34:59 AM)

I get extremely emotional.
I get extremely bitchy.
And I friggin gain about five pounds in water weight.




LokisBrat -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 6:39:00 AM)

I have endometriosis, which causes the endometrial lining (the part that sheds when menstruating) to migrate to other parts of my body and bleed there.  I have one on my sciatic nerve, which creates extremely painful periods that hurt not just in my groin, but my hips and legs as well.  Loki knows this and always gives me the time I need to deal with it (usually a day or two each month).  But, he also is quite adept at surprising me with chocolate, which always helps to ensure no one has to die! [;)]


Brat




becca333 -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 7:01:49 AM)

Bitchy...crabby... whiny... evil tempered.   Then PMS rolls around and I get worse.




mixielicous -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 9:49:30 AM)

mmm i too, after ovulation have tender brests from HELL. they get so swollen i dont even like em touched. i ovulate 2 wks before my perioud starts, and my pms usually kicks in a few days after that. i am not bitchy per say, but yes, fresh. i am brought to tears easily and am very very sensitive to touch of any kind. i drink cocolate milk like mad during this time. YUMMMMM [my only craving lol]. bloated, yuk is my most hated symptom.

i am unsatisfiable in bed during this time. i found that being on birth control has harnessed some of my moodiness, and just about all of my cramps [although the ones i DO get are still wicked severe]. pot too, helps crampos a lot, and the mood swings.




slaverosebeauty -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 10:12:14 AM)

Since I had my munchkin I have lucked out [almost 6 years ago]. I get a bit bitchy [at times], not that bad though, chocolate makes that go away; I am more prone to migraines [sucks but thats what Imitrex is for]; thats about it. I take progesterone (sp?) only birthcontrol pills and with the daily migraine meds, now I have an easy time with PMS and so does everyone else around me.  

I have heard the 'tie you up bit' it makes me laugh, soem tops think that is the trump card and default for everything, reality check, not gonna work. When it does get really bad, I just curl up in bed with my body pillow or take a hot bath and consume high quality chocolate which I keep around only for those times. Guaradili's Dark Chocolate Truffles makes everything better.




KatyLied -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 10:17:08 AM)

PMS is hell...don't touch my breasts.




VvShadowspawnvV -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 12:50:34 PM)

Since i am on Depo, i don't really have periods- but i know it's "that time" when i start crying.  Alot.

=(  becca




Mercnbeth -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 1:38:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: twicehappy

This is for all you women out there. What kind of symptoms do you suffer from during pms? How does it affect your relationship with your Dom/Domme or sub/slave?...This is not asking for help in this situation. We know what to do, let me sleep, no cooking, meat especially, and it will be over in a few days. Just curious about others issues with it. 

YOU LUCKY DUCK!!!! over in a few days?  this slave only wishes she could be that lucky..
 
this slave experiences the following symptoms anywhere from as little as 2, to as much as 8 WEEKS straight with a gracious one or two WEEKS in between :
 
Long bouts of sleeping
soaking wet sheets, pillows, hair and body
swollen, painful breasts and underarms
nausea, vomiting
crying at all commercials, even ones advertising automotive products
 
symptoms constantly present:
super thick, fast growing hair and nails
high sex drive with more natural lubrication than necessary
 
symptoms occasionally present:
migraine headaches
 
the up side is that this is BETTER than it was when this slave had a uterus that gushed like Ol' Faithful for 9 days a pop, a cervix with precancerous cells, a right ovary with mutiple cysts and endometriosis all over her abdominal cavity...PLUS the abovementioned symptoms!
 
how does it affect our relationship? Hmmmm...Master does as He wishes with His slave in spite of any of the symptoms...this slave might have to excuse herself to go puke in a proper place if she is feeling nausea, but it doesn't get in the way of this slave's service.  added bonus: there are no "off days" since Master isn't into blood play!!!




delishus76 -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 2:04:18 PM)

this one will cry at the drop of a hat....watching a commercial and a dad will hug his child and i have to have a box of tissues beside me....light sencitivity<sp>...and then on top of that i can go for about 4 wks non stop...sux and not even in a good way

                                                                      delishus




akisha -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 2:11:16 PM)

I usually just have a slight headache and the small of my back is achy for a couple days. Other then that I'm pretty much normal. My sensitivity to touch sometimes is alot higher but not always.  I do have a serious chocolate craving for 2 days too though *g*

Shadowspawn.... When you decide to come off the depro watch for some serious personality changes. I was on it for over 6 years. Thought it was great till i decided to come off. I almost put a rolling pin through my boyfriends head, and i'm a very non violent person usually.  I had to do hormone therapy to re-stabalize. And now i can't even take the pill because it throws me into massive mood swings.
There were a couple of other side effects that aren't so pleasant either that I had after i came off. Just a hint of some things to watch for.

kisha




spankmepink11 -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 2:24:15 PM)

I never had PMS until after i  gave birth, and it can be pretty emotional...i cry easily....and  my temper is much shorter the week or so before actual menstration.....however...i  also ,find myself  incredibly charged sexually...nearly insatiable as well..  I feel like i'm on the fast track to menopause,  and look forward to the end of the whole mess...but worry when i hear  horror stories of post menopausal  women losing sexual desire...etc..




mixielicous -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 2:32:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: akisha

I usually just have a slight headache and the small of my back is achy for a couple days. Other then that I'm pretty much normal. My sensitivity to touch sometimes is alot higher but not always. I do have a serious chocolate craving for 2 days too though *g*

Shadowspawn.... When you decide to come off the depro watch for some serious personality changes. I was on it for over 6 years. Thought it was great till i decided to come off. I almost put a rolling pin through my boyfriends head, and i'm a very non violent person usually. I had to do hormone therapy to re-stabalize. And now i can't even take the pill because it throws me into massive mood swings.
There were a couple of other side effects that aren't so pleasant either that I had after i came off. Just a hint of some things to watch for.

kisha


i was on depo and i decided to go off to clean out my system ya know? i tried to go back on three months later, but in that 3 months, and the 6 following i was just crazy. not to mention the 9 months it took to get me feeling as me. i am on nuva ring now and its great.




sweetbbwsub31 -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 2:58:36 PM)

i get severe headaches during ovulation and a migraine the day before my period starts.
 
For about a week before my period i have no patience and i don't bite my tongue much.
 
About 2 days before my period i get slight cramps. For about 12 hours before i start i get cramps that require serious pain meds. Without my meds i am balled up in the fetal positon for 10-12 hours with severe cramping, back pain, headache, sweats, and nausea. i can usually tell when the pain is going to be severe and if i catch it on time i can still function. Without meds i wouldn't be able to do anything for 10 hours. i am a very cuddly person but during this time i don't want to be touched.
 
The day after my period i have the sex drive of a madwoman and  this lasts for about a week.
 
 




denika -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 4:02:41 PM)

The one thing I really miss about   being on the pill is the regularity of knowing when my period is going to start. I had my tubes tied last year ( no little ankle biters for me *S*) and it's fairly unpredictable.  I get a bit moodier and a hell of a lot hornier *s* Rob  likes to compare me to a cat in heat, unfortunatly he's pretty grossed out  so I tend to have to help myself a lot *S*.

I have heard a lot of  horror storys about depo, mostly about hormonal changes and either having no period or one that lasts the whole year.


denika




NakedOnMyChain -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 4:36:24 PM)

I turn into Chthulu.  Seriously.  Don't tell anyone.  I get downright evil.  I'm usually pretty good at controlling it, but I am insanely needy, weepy, and venomous all at the same time.  I fly into rages for very little reason if left unchecked.  Mainly, though, that's from the pain.  I get HORRIBLE cramps the week before I start my period.  Then they get much worse when I actually start to bleed.




skinnykitten -> RE: PMS from hell? (5/11/2006 6:49:40 PM)

It's weird but I actually feel physically stronger during my period...  I can work out a lot harder and much longer for some reason.  Has anyone else had this happen?

I do get cramps maybe once or twice a year, and my breasts are unbelievably tender from ovulation onwards - they go up a whole cup size...  The smell of almost all cooking food will often make me nauseous, so I tend to just take some evening primrose oil, multi v's and drink a whole lotta tea.  Other than that I'm fine, it really doesn't affect my day to day operation.   It doesn't affect our relationship because neither of us are wigged by menstrual blood - Ry loves it, and if anything, I'm more randy during that time.




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