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Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/15/2011 1:13:40 PM   
1subcuriousguy


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Status: offline 		Greetings all. I'm new to the forums, although I've had a profile for a while. I still consider myself new to the lifestyle. Please have a look at my profile. Thanks.

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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/15/2011 1:56:22 PM   
BurntKitty


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I'm sure your wife must be aware, since in your journal you state you have a mistress who requires you to leave the house unzipped, etc. Hopefully your wife IS the mistress, or else how will she react when she has to bail you out of jail for indecent exposure, or when you lose your job for being "bottomless" on the job? Forcing your kink on the general public, isn't a good idea, especially if this is to be discreet....

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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/15/2011 2:21:04 PM   
1subcuriousguy


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ORIGINAL: BurntKitty

Welcome to CM.

I'm sure your wife must be aware, since in your journal you state you have a mistress who requires you to leave the house unzipped, etc. Hopefully your wife IS the mistress, or else how will she react when she has to bail you out of jail for indecent exposure, or when you lose your job for being "bottomless" on the job? Forcing your kink on the general public, isn't a good idea, especially if this is to be discreet....


Thanks for the welcome. Didn't expect to get hammered though. Maybe some explanation is in order, but I'd prefer that to be in a PM if your're open to that.

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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/15/2011 3:17:54 PM   
BurntKitty


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Status: offline 		You can PM me if you wish, but I'm just the first of many. I'm the "kinder gentler" welcome.... Most people on here don't care for cheating guys, or nonconsensual kink forced on the general public.
(Yes, even if it's online, it's cheating to many.)

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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/15/2011 3:23:23 PM   
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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/15/2011 3:28:05 PM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		I get that you don't want to hurt your wife.

Unfortunately, people are going to consider your behavior to be that of cheating spouse and will remind you that honesty is the cornerstone of BDSM (and ideally all) relationships.

The general gist is that if you can't be honezt with the person oyu made a life committment to then how can your honesty be trusted in this context.

(Consider this to be the PSA of what is to come warning.)

I am going to wish you well on your search for peace.

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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/15/2011 3:43:25 PM   
1subcuriousguy


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Status: offline 		Okay. So much for tolerance.

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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/16/2011 5:26:37 AM   
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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/16/2011 3:33:55 PM   
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RE: Greetings from Richmond, VA - 5/16/2011 7:07:48 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the boards.  Believe me, this isn't intolerance you're being shown.  It's people telling you how it is.  Just because it's BDSM doesn't mean we're a bunch of people who cheat on their wives / husbands / significant others.  It's the same in the 'nilla world, better build up a thick skin.  Realize this is the internet, people are going to give you a much tougher time if you can't take the advice being given without you responding thinking you're being attacked. 

Good luck though, sounds like you're going to need it.

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