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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 12:55:19 PM

Daggerandpez

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ok just because you DO the work doesnt mean you are a domestic sub...i DO the work...i have to...but i know subs that cleaning is their mean for of submission...

there is a difference...

i am service oriented...taking off Daddys boots...of shinning them...being his table...that would puts me in a submissive headspace...

i clean because it needs to be done...

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 3:21:59 PM

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it seems to me that there are far more real domestic males than females...why do you think that is?

I don't know. You tell us, why it seems to you that there are far more real domestic males than females.
The last time I checked, there are more housewives than house husbands (Thank God).

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/18/2011 8:14:23 PM

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Many more women do / are expected to do the housework long before they ever get into D/s. Something like 90% of wives in the US are responsible for cleaning the toilet in their house. It's hardly going to be the subject of an exciting sexual fantasy when it's something you do all the time anyway!

I do all the domestic work in my relationship because I'm happy to accept it as a consequence of our power exchange, but it doesn't turn me on. I have to be honest and admit I don't really know why domestic service turns anyone on. But YKIOK and all that...

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/19/2011 4:35:27 AM

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What Owned said. I'm the mother, I do the cooking and the cleaning. Although I make anyone taller than me (the rest of the family) carry the laundry basket up and down stairs as they can see over it and I can't.

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/23/2011 10:00:27 AM

subronnc

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The vicious cycle of 'you have no references... so you will not get any opportunities to serve... so you will have no references' makes it hard to prove being a 'real' domestic servant for men.

A couple of times, i clean and then never hear from them again... the worst is no feedback -- did i not do a good enough job -- You seemed happy when i was there. Or they move and lose touch. Experience does not equal references.

i have pet dander allergies, which eliminates a fair number of opportunities, so i focus on outside work. But apartment, townhouse, and condo dwellers do not need much/any help outside.

Does yard work count as being a 'domestic' sub? It is not laundry/cleaning/cooking service, but it is house-related service.

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/23/2011 10:10:46 AM

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Funny, really. My concern is the opposite, in a way. I could get all horny at the idea of domestic service, but not when it comes to DIY. That has its own sort of fun to it for me and a Domme 'interfering with me' while I'm doing it would jangle my concentration. You really *don't* want to get distracted while using an angle grinder or a circular saw. And you don't want to be doing it with dangly bits flopping around, either.

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/23/2011 10:23:48 AM

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I can't say I agree with the 'cycle' thing entirely. Sure, some of it's there, but that's not the whole truth of it. The shining example by far? Is the person who *says* they want to come clean your house; Are they volunteering in the community? Are they the one doing the dishes at the FemDom event or are they sweeping the dungeon after the play party? When it's time to do the actual work, do you see them there? If you do, it's a pretty good answer.

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/28/2011 11:25:18 AM

txurinal

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As a domestic male servant, i can truthfully say that i have served as a housekeeper. i do a good job and never needed to be punished for not doing a good job.

When owned, my primary position was that of housekeeper. i kept house and did the laundary. i did not do the cooking (i have never been able to cook much). i was even loaned to a neighbor to help with the housework when he was diviorced.

My uniform was a jockstrap and a hood. As odd as it may sound, yes i did get"off" when scrubbing floors as i knew my MASTERS were proud of the way i kept house. Since this was my chief responsibility, had i not been a good houeskeeper, i would not have been kept as a slave for very long. i was not brought in to the household for sex, but for service

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/28/2011 11:45:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: OwnedFemaleFlesh

Many more women do / are expected to do the housework long before they ever get into D/s. Something like 90% of wives in the US are responsible for cleaning the toilet in their house.

Well part of that is that women have higher standards of what a clean toilet looks like. It's not just a male mentality of being male. Look at the stuff they grow up with: men's restrooms. They're never clean by female standards, but the guys grow up coping with that level of cleanliness. It does make sense that they'd have lower standards in that department.

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RE: male vs female domestic sub - 5/28/2011 12:31:55 PM

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Contentment, i feel once again YOU are right on the mark. Yes men and women do have different standards for what they might consider clean but i was a gay slave owned by 2 gay MASTERS. While ALPHA MASTER was like most men and as long as the toilet was n't turning green, it was clean but there was BETA MASTER who was one of those fussy, picky gay men and believe me, had that toilet not been spotless, there would have been hell to pay on my part

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